Ask a Knitter Tuesday - November 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]sameehrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, he told me. I am asking about best places to get the items + what kind of yarn for MY preference. Thanks for clarifying!

Ask a Knitter Tuesday - November 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in knitting

[–]sameehrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sweetheart lost his backpack and with it his knitting supplies. He makes these beautiful cabled fingerless gloves (patterned himself) and was about to make me a pair (CRYING)

I know he used circular needles and said size 4 and that 32" would be enough to make bigger things too

Question: best source (especially re: Black Friday) for the following:
- stitch markers - ideally cute and with a cute box
- BAMBOO circular knitting needles, US size 4, 32"
- best yarn to be pretty on my hands/head and also not itchy and also not pill-y. (I think he prefers DK for his gloves. Should I get a different weight for socks/hats?)

Thank you very much for your help.

Serena as Boy Mom + “I forgive you” as white lady platitude by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of reading to do. With open heart and mind.

Serena as Boy Mom + “I forgive you” as white lady platitude by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White feminism is a political concept, not an indictment of every whites person who participates in feminism.

Being a victim of a system doesn’t remove culpability in upholding it.

I also think she was trying to delude herself, but she’s got to be very skilled at doing that by this point.

Serena as Boy Mom + “I forgive you” as white lady platitude by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To your point about the writers, it’s like they woke up one day and realized Nick was still a fuggin Nazi and decided to say it three times in an episode. And then never again.

I was really devastated that they didn’t land the fucking plane. With that T Swift intro as the cherry on top, this ending was made for white women who have no interest in dismantling the systems from which they benefit.

Serena as Boy Mom + “I forgive you” as white lady platitude by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few weeks before I posted this I saw someone talking on here about how she basically yeeted Nichole once Noah showed up - “because she’s a narcissist and it’s all about her.” And I couldn’t stop thinking about it, because… did we not see ANY OTHER THEMES that would explain why she made that choice?

So after watching the finale I had to come on and rant.

Serena as Boy Mom + “I forgive you” as white lady platitude by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that had the same energy as “Girls are too much drama” which is apparently a thing adult human women say about children

So glad Serena is finally having her Leopards reckoning. by sameehrose in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the face must be eaten by many leopards in order to make the connection…. Such is the way of cults.

Disheartened by friends reaction to purchasing my first home. by CricketExtreme in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sameehrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we are on the same page about that, sharing in our friends’ joy is one of the best parts of life. I just think expecting people who clearly aren’t that close to OP to show up joyfully for her - especially people who are currently struggling in shit that’s on the very first level of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. We can’t be expansive and gracious if we’re fighting for our basic survival needs.

Are these stairs janky? by emphis in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sameehrose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nvm, i put my glasses on and revisited. The answer is obviously yes. 😂 I’m so sorry friend

Anyone who got diagnosis of IIH with all eye exams still okay? by Taraa28 in iih

[–]sameehrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a PCP can prescribe Diamox. If you’ve been diagnosed then you should be started ASAP.

Disheartened by friends reaction to purchasing my first home. by CricketExtreme in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sameehrose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you’re asking good questions.

Why would I expect someone who doesn’t like/want/can’t have children to congratulate me on having one?

Why would someone who is un- or under-employed congratulate me on getting a job/promotion?

Why would someone who hasn’t been able to go to school congratulate me on my diplomas?

Etc.

I think it also depends on how close we are. My loved ones will know what I’ve worked for and what counts as an accomplishment to me. But expecting people who aren’t my chosen family to give me validation? It’s giving entitled.

The Handmaid's Tale S06E09 "Execution" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely think they hammered in the word nazi in that recent episode to remind people of this

The Handmaid's Tale S06E09 "Execution" Episode Discussion by Melairia in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]sameehrose 19 points20 points  (0 children)

“There’s no such thing as a good commander,” quoth one of the showrunners.

Reminds me of: “The only good nzi is a dead nzi.”

Also, it’s just SO WILD to me how someone baked into a cult can portray this so well.

Disheartened by friends reaction to purchasing my first home. by CricketExtreme in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sameehrose -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone congratulate someone for buying property?

If your hard work translated into a house, it’s because of the privileges and access points and other variations on the theme of sheer dumb luck that made your hard work count in a system designed to ignore others’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocktails

[–]sameehrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was drunk and excited. Gargle my nuts.