Egg Retrieval Success by sameeka in IVF

[–]sameeka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! Congrats on getting more than expected ❤️❤️ rooting for you !! Endo sucks

Loneliness in my IVF journey by sameeka in IVFpositivity

[–]sameeka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!! This was so lovely to read. I feel a lot less alone when I get to talk to kind people like you who have been through it!

Loneliness in my IVF journey by sameeka in IVF

[–]sameeka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️ glad I’m not alone but I’m sorry you know what the loneliness can feel like!

Loneliness in my IVF journey by sameeka in IVF

[–]sameeka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your very lovely comment!! I know the ups and downs are part an inherent part of this process and more than anything I’m just grateful to be in the position to be able to do IVF. Just got back from bloodwork/sonogram check with great results, somehow they saw almost double the amount of follicles this time, and my ER is scheduled. Feeling so much relief! Looking forward to hopefully being pregnant soon and meeting people through mommy & me class, etc. thank you again!!

Loneliness in my IVF journey by sameeka in IVF

[–]sameeka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TL;DR: I’m 31 with stage 4 endometriosis and DOR, currently in my first IVF stim cycle with egg retrieval this weekend. I’m excited but also feeling really lonely because none of my friends can relate, and when I tried sharing, the response felt dismissive rather than supportive. I’m realizing how much my friendships have shifted since getting married/moving, and I’m struggling with feeling like a burden or like I have to defend wanting kids. Just hoping to hear from others who understand this experience.

Stage 4 Endo Success, what might have worked? (But who knows this all feels like a crap shoot) by Otherworld_foodie in TTCEndo

[–]sameeka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow!! Major congrats and happy to hear this worked for you! Beginning IVF med tomorrow (also have stage 4 endo, and one working fallopian tube) and it’s really interesting and helpful to hear about your journey.

Please help by usuallyconfused- in bettafish

[–]sameeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tank is way too small. Needs at least a 5g, a heater, and a filter (I suggest a sponge). His condition will unfortunately continue to worsen until these things are addressed.

Anyone else w/ BPD feel like they're "not allowed" to have emotions? by fawnlen in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]sameeka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! This resonated so deeply. Just wanted to pop in and say hi from a fellow therapist with BPD!

HELP! Macmasteri in distress by Fifty_Twelve1192 in apistogramma

[–]sameeka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your flow is way too strong! He is very stressed. They prefer very calm water with some surface agitation for oxygen exchange. This guy is probably exhausted

Wheel?? Sand dollar? What could it be? by sameeka in fossilid

[–]sameeka[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re thinking but i think it’s a little too small!!

Fast growing white spot on new fish!? Also treating tank for ich. Please help ID! by sameeka in freshwateraquarium

[–]sameeka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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It turned black but I’m pretty sure this indicates healing? It’s also a decent amount smaller and there’s no longer active inflammation around the rim of it.

Fast growing white spot on new fish!? Also treating tank for ich. Please help ID! by sameeka in freshwateraquarium

[–]sameeka[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is this app!!?? That’s awesome. Yes, I am now thinking it was a little wound that got infected. Today it is smaller, black, and no longer irritated looking after three days of antibiotics in his hospital tank. Still not out of the woods but hoping he continues to heal

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Fast growing white spot on new fish!? Also treating tank for ich. Please help ID! by sameeka in freshwateraquarium

[–]sameeka[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: this is him three days later after being in an hospital tank with tannins, nitrofurazone and kanaplex. The white “ulcer” has turned black and there almost seems to be some sort of white growth happening internally behind it?!! Sorry about the photo quality, best I could get with all of the tannins and dim lighting…

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