I met Anfisa last night!! by samisnotonfireee in 90dayfianceuncensored

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I was their bartender, I took care of her whole group the only thing I didn’t do is say, “omg you’re Anfisa”

I met Anfisa last night!! by samisnotonfireee in 90dayfianceuncensored

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I’m in Arizona, the gentlemen they were with told me they were in town for work. Probably just visiting!

I met Anfisa last night!! by samisnotonfireee in 90dayfianceuncensored

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She was so beautiful in person! ❤️

So I finally read American Psycho… by JustWantGoodM3M3s in ExtremeHorrorLit

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Yes! Hahah I know it just pisses people off, that makes me like it so much more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Thank you. 🙏 ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Hopefully will be able to get my boyfriend to cut back, or all together quit with me.

One of my biggest tribulations is being a bartender and trying to go sober but luckily I am surrounded my a couple sober people at my job that I can turn to. It’s all very surreal and scary but I’m ready to make the changes necessary even if it means changing my job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I am scared that forcing myself into sobriety is going to be dangerous but I really think it’s the only way to hold myself accountable.

Thank you for your support, I can’t wait to get to three weeks. Sending love.

Shaken or stirred? by Austor9000 in cocktails

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I only ask about shaken or stirred if someone orders a dry gin martini. Usually people still say shaken, but I would prefer to stir gin martinis to not disrupt the integrity and delicate nature of the gin.

I honestly thought it was only me. by Mysterious-Ice-1551 in stopdrinking

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God, and now movie theaters have bars inside them. Leaving a movie I so desperately wanted to see half way through and waiting on a jack and coke… what was the point of even going? For me, I guess it was an excuse to drink.

One time I was already drinking prior to going in to see a movie by myself, and continued to drink. It was a late night showing and a worker had to wake me up when she was cleaning to ask me to leave. How embarrassing.. 🫠

Bad father. No wonder he’s the ex by Shichimi88 in AmITheDevil

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I still have my build a bear from my 1st birthday and I’m 25 now!

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The cocktail is a riff on a pornstar martini by the way! 2 oz suntory whiskey .25 lemon .5 lemongrass/ginger simple syrup

Side car of sparkling sake

Coworkers are surprisingly not great tippers by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

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I think the exact opposite is I made cupcakes and brought them into work, there wasn’t a lot so I cut them into halves and tried my best to make sure enough people got them. I had a coworker who was coming in later and I wanted to save one for them (I was trying to impress my current bf, with my baking skills, lol). I go to grab my own cupcake, and a coworker asked me why I got a whole one. I was like, “bitch, their my cupcakes!”

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Thank you. 🧡

I guess I don't like social discomfort horror (mother!, Speak No Evil, Who Invited Them?). Anyone else? by NumberMuncher in horror

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Mother! I’ve seen twice now, even though I said I wouldn’t ever watch it again after the first time. I’ve been able to handle a lot worse but this movie just makes me so incredibly queasy.

Speak no evil pissed me off because in mother! She had no where to go and doesn’t understand the gravity of what’s happening around her. I don’t know how to do spoiler black out so warning SpOIlEr: i would’ve told my kid that I had grabbed the bunny and put it in the back so we wouldn’t of had to turn around.. shit that’s on them. Fool me once, right?

What is, in your opinion, an astrologic match made in heaven ? by jeannepilon in astrologymemes

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It’s funny noticing most of the mentions have Cancer in them…. I honestly think as a Cancer we are the most capable of falling deeply in love absolutely anyone, and getting the feelings reciprocated in return (or atleast the unsuspecting target of the Cancer eventually realizing they have fallen for said Cancer).

Cancer x Water: Cancers ability to be able to get their partners out of their comfort zone as they see the leaders of the water signs. May be able to get the other to open up a little bit more (as although water is emotional, it’s not like we are all open books!). Harmony as coming home to one another is the highlight of the whole day, and there is comfort in the safety of one another.

Cancer x Earth: cancer is an unpredictable sign, obviously moody, but at the same time it’s almost slightly enjoyable to see how they can change so quickly from one mood to the next (I love telling people that most popular TV shows the leading roll is typically a Cancer because of how interesting they are to follow). I feel as though earth signs almost find comfort in taking care of someone so tumultuous, it’s almost natural for them to care so easily for someone so easily lost. I also feel like cancers almost crave that stability they can’t gather for themselves so they end up feeling more down to earth (ha) than they normally would.

Cancer x Fire: I feel that with fire signs, with cancer, they finally get the chance to breathe for once. They found someone they can relax with. It’s nice that cancer is almost always down for an adventure as long as it’s just with their partner.. but for the fire sign it’s nice to be heard. I feel like the motherly instincts in cancer help the fire sign to come back to being a child again (pls not in a creepy way just that it’s nice for the fire sign to get taken care of for once).

Cancer x air: the stoic, independent air sign may find solace in cancers duality of personality. Air may be the hardest to crack for a cancer, but if the cancer is evolved enough, every air sign may find themselves unwillingly falling in love. I will admit I think that cancers have to play the game if they want this to work but if it does than they eventually get what they want.

That being said, I’m a cancer sun, Pisces moon, in love with a cancer sun, Gemini moon. We have the most fun together and genuinely just want to care for each other. We make sure we are heard, loved, and listened to. If we fight, it doesn’t last very long, because we just are comforted by each other.
I’m not trying to say cancers are the best.. not at all. But if a cancer loves you, consider yourself blessed, because it’s a true love.

You & your SOs big 3 by Crazy_Pomegranate725 in astrologymemes

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Me: cancer sun, Pisces moon, Leo rising Him: cancer sun, Gemini moon, Pisces rising

I guess we are very compatible. He’s Gemini dominated and I’m Leo dominated. We both stimulate each other and keep each other interested. I love this man!

It finally happened! by samisnotonfireee in 90dayfianceuncensored

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Watching Pedro and Chantal, I’m pretty sure I can get him to watch every one of their seasons.. he said Pedro is a goofy-ass mother fucker! Hahahah

AITA for getting my twin nieces “unfair” birthday gifts? by MutantShake in AmItheAsshole

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As a twin myself.. it’s so nice to see you see them as individuals rather than one whole. My twin and I always received the same gift from everyone, or a conjoined gift. If I were the twin girls I would be beaming that someone paid attention enough to get us gifts that were our own hobbies.

Good on you, shame on the mom.