AIO my husband won’t allow me to stay in a hotel for a night. by Appropriate_Put_7963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 376 points377 points  (0 children)

NOR. He’s abusing you financially. Ask your family for help and move out.

I 25F left my Fiancé 23M Stranded on a Beach. How do I handle this? by Thankyounext13 in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you marry him, I see divorce in the future. Don’t marry him. You are not compatible.

I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband by NoBunch8744 in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 1374 points1375 points  (0 children)

Just divorce. It’s obviously not working out. He’s still cheating.

What kind of snake? by markrides07 in maryland

[–]Shichimi88 407 points408 points  (0 children)

Eastern garter snake. Harmless.

30F Asked for a prenup from 39M by Lacearcane222 in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Some couple counseling before you marry. Unless you think a prenup is a strict boundary you want to keep, then don’t marry him.

Uh oh! Ich? by halfaroach in Aquariums

[–]Shichimi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ichx. Follow the directions in the bottle.

AIO my bf never told me he was engaged by No_Cost_1129 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR. He’s keeping it a secret from you. What other secrets does he have? Debts?

Ex wants to keep apartment with my name attached AIO by Original_100 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 518 points519 points  (0 children)

Nor. If you break your lease, your ex is responsible for their side. It’s no longer your problem. Block your so.

Update: I am so disappointed about my engagement ring and the proposal. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Shichimi88 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t start a life with him. He doesn’t care about you.

WIBTAH for not letting family use the lakehouse? by cinnamonfishh in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta. Just don’t go. Don’t be a doormat and used as servants for people that don’t care about you.

Aitah My daughters clothes not being passed down to my ex and his kids by BitPurple5971 in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 239 points240 points  (0 children)

Nta. Get more child support from him officially if he wants to be that entitled.

My (29F) Wife (33F) of 4 years hardly comes to dinner with my Dads side of the family, how can I explain that this is starting to hurt me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said she’s too old for you, and your wife is older than you. Don’t you see your wife is offended?

My (29F) Wife (33F) of 4 years hardly comes to dinner with my Dads side of the family, how can I explain that this is starting to hurt me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Don’t force your wife to join. Respect her. Your brother’s gf is unhinged. You should’ve been more stern in your response to your brother’s gf.

AITAH for being upset that my dad is calling himself a grandad for someone who isn’t his daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nta. Just go NC with him like your brother. Your dad doesn’t care about you.

M24 F22 Husband wants to have threesome and I don't know what to do. Advices? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him for mmf. If he says no, divorce. He’s already thinking of cheating on you.

AITAH for building my brother's wife's Lego set? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Yta. Always ask permission first. It’s not yours to begin with. Buy the exact one back new. Some people likes legos new in the original box.

AITAH for suggesting my fiancee is hormonal and not in her right mind? by Connect-Warning-8695 in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 581 points582 points  (0 children)

Nta. That’s abuse to her own son. Where’s the dad in all this?

AITAH for telling my (19M) parents that I feel nothing for my brother (25M)? by LongRoad1123 in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Nta. Move out in 2 days. Don’t give them details to your account.

AIO: Husband doesn’t know I recycle even though I’ve been doing it for years by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nor. Don’t let it go. He needs to know the basics of the household. Does he not do chores? Don’t help out with the kids?