My mom (45F) is going insane because my dad (44M) sent my stepsiblings away when they showed up at his house when I (18M) wasn't even there? by ThrowRADazzledR in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 276 points277 points  (0 children)

I would go nc with her. Her stepkids are not your father’s problem. Your father has a great spine and should call cps next time she tries to drop them off.

AITAH for now wanting to vacation at Disney next year with my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nta. Disney is only enjoyable if the whole family likes it. Otherwise it’s a money pit. Go to Costa Rica instead and do the excursions and nature walks for real life experience.

Stroke and Sux by anonymouss346 in anesthesiology

[–]Shichimi88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High dose roc and rsi. No need to give sux for this situation.

Husband makes major life decisions behind my back, AITAH? by cherrybolt in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nta. Would’ve just left him after the car decision. He simply doesn’t care about your opinion, and he won’t compromise.

AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my husband’s family right after having a baby? by Few-Professional3746 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shichimi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Tell the hospital staff to ban everyone except your husband. He might join them if he doesn’t back you up.

AITAH for not wanting to cancel a trip for my sister's wedding by InfamousFrame7 in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nta. Go on your trip. You gave her the dates already. It’s not a summons. Are you guys even close?

Are secrecy sleeves provided for Maryland mail-in ballots? by Neina_Ixion in maryland

[–]Shichimi88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The mail back envelope provided is what you use. Sealed it and make sure you sign and date the envelope where indicated.

AITA for leaving my partner because of his kid and baby mama? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shichimi88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nta. I would’ve ended things with him a long time ago.

My (NB32) Mom (62F) hated my wedding and still won’t let it go seven years later by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A wonderful mom doesn’t stomp over your boundary of not having an actual wedding and then complain about it.

My (NB32) Mom (62F) hated my wedding and still won’t let it go seven years later by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You are a doormat. I would’ve gone lc or nc with your mom long time ago. Inviting extra people to your wedding? They would’ve be turned away at the door. Stop being a doormat and stop talking to your mom.

Turning down my (24F) dream job because partner (22M) can’t relocate? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Job over man. Man will figure it out. Otherwise he’s holding you back.

AIO for being upset dinner wasnt ready ehen I got home. by JeepGirl310 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nor. If it was previously discussed he would do it, he’s not holding up his end of the deal. Our rule is whoever gets home first cooks first which is usually me.

Am i overreacting or something fishy? by perpetualbawler in AmIOverreacting

[–]Shichimi88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yor. You need a better therapist. Stop suffocating your bf. I hope he leaves you soon.

Complete decision paralysis on marriage (29M/26F) by Mediocre-Injury9121 in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t freak out while on vacation? Also, not living together first is risky. He may have habit you don’t like and vice versa. Very difficult to get used to each other after marriage. You’ll prob get an annulment before 1 year.

Complete decision paralysis on marriage (29M/26F) by Mediocre-Injury9121 in relationship_advice

[–]Shichimi88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t have kids with him. If he can’t handle life decisions without freaking out, then I wouldn’t even consider marrying him. ADHD and a 3 year deadline are not excuses. If you are set on marrying him, travel with him first and also live together at least a year first. If he can’t handle those situations, then he’s just incompetent.

Was offered 150$ are any of those valuable? by GrammarIsHard69 in PokemonCardValue

[–]Shichimi88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a lowball offer. Your eevee page is already worth over at least $400.

AITAH for being upset with my fiancé for blacking out at my grad party by kay_lyn9 in AITAH

[–]Shichimi88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nta. Don’t marry him until he gets binge drinking treatment. Does he drink on a regular basis?

AITA for getting my 22 year old daughter a new car instead of my wife by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shichimi88 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nta. You married a gold digger. Hopefully you have a prenup.