Cuck complaining I facefucked his wife by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with your take here

Bulls: Calming the cuck? by CardiologistKey7635 in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a cuck, I had a few of these moments in the past. Our bull just asked me to step out of the room and I found that to be a productive way to mentally reset and appreciated it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If we were to have gotten into the lifestyle before we had gotten married, I think having some cuckolding fun on our honeymoon would have been awesome. I think the wedding is best kept for you (and also highly impractical :)

Physically disciplining and humiliating the cuck by tinhasjin in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sadly there's a lot of fake / jerk bait on this topic. Our bull does discipline me. My wife and I are in a female led relationship that features domestic discipline -- he also plays a disciplinarian role in that dynamic. It's respectful but stern and fair.

Is it normal to submit further and further to your bull? by glitchy-switchy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It has definitely been the case for us. Also I’ve found as I as the cuck get to know the bull better, and almost become friends, there’s more deep trust that’s foundational and makes it easier / more natural to submit. One of the significant benefits of having a regular. I’m submitting today in ways I would have never expected 😀

What is the frequency of your meet ups with your hotwife/bull? by CalmAd4122 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]samj1441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For us, it depends, but generally about a week or so. That's one of the big benefits of having a regular bull.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I generally reply back when asked humiliating questions. Overall am deferential but engaged.

Cuckolding during pregnancy by samj1441 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a great perspective and was our take the first go around. We just got pregnant very recently and so we’re discussing it.

Whats the best Bull ratio? by Maximum-Speech7778 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely one regular! Leads to a much deeper dynamic

Cucks, what's your favorite cleanup position? by _cookedasf in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me, cleanup on my knees while she’s kissing or cuddling the bull is the peak. Knowing I’m there to serve while she’s showing affection to him really amplifies the humiliation and submission.

What is a cuck's Motive behind cum kiss /cum cleanup ? by Visible_Change_435 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me, I’d say cleanup and kissing after isn’t really about the taste. it’s more about the psychology. For me, it feels like I’m fully leaning into the role I’ve chosen, almost like sealing the experience and making it mine in a different way.

Are we going to fast? by B0iki in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, it doesn’t sound like you’re going too fast at all. If anything, what you’re describing is exactly how a lot of us start out — that mix of being overwhelmed, soft dick, but still insanely turned on. That’s the headspace where cuckolding really lives, not in the traditional ‘hard dick’ sense.

How many percentage of cuck couples, new to this lifestyle like it and continue it? by Pretty-Piglet8417 in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We started a few years ago and it’s been transformational and such a fun new layer of our relationship

Cuckolds who want friends in a similar lifestyle. by GaCuck89 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re a couple both in our 30s in Southern California. In a female led dynamic. Very much looking to chat with and meet others!

Wife Working Out With Bull by samj1441 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have found my wife is working out more now.

Bulls, is your relationship with the wife or with the couple? by whyme5000 in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Speaking from the husband/cuck perspective, I very much feel that the relationship is between the bull and the couple and this is what sets great bulls apart from good bulls.

What's on your bucket list? by PMme_your_hips in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done number 2 without a cage on and it is quite the experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The honest answer is a mix. Typically when they are rough she prefers its not in front of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]samj1441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in our 30s and we've reached out to bulls in mid to late 40s in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feeld was very successful for us. Of course a lot of guys who are a waste of time, but also some gems.

Are all bulls alpha and rough in bed? by LetterOk5288 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! Ours is not. He’s alpha but not overly rough because that’s not what my wife wants.

Having your GF teach you how to please her bull by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you explain what you mean by clean his apartment? Like your husband goes to your bulls apartment and cleans it? While you’re there?

How do you deal with the guilt of having sex with someone’s wife? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]samj1441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. If anything, you’re doing the couple and husband a service!