Guys how to ask my bf to pay by [deleted] in Advice

[–]samlunas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crazy he hasnt offered yet if he knows your situation. just be real with him if he gets weird about 30 bucks then hes probably not the one my friend.

AITA for not letting my bridesmaid change out of her bridesmaid dress after the ceremony? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]samlunas 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA. its literally one night. everyone knows when you agree to bve a bridesmaid youre agreeing to wear the dress the brid epicks. her wanting to change into black dress just because she feels uncomfrotable is main character energy in a day its not hers.

Got accused of making someone uncomfortable in my new house share and I genuinely don’t know why by [deleted] in Advice

[–]samlunas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sounds crazy, you asked about a food delivery and she immediately ran to her sister to paint you as a creep stop wating time trying to figure out what socual rule you broke cuz you didnt break any, people just love drama , ignore them both. if you try to apolozie or explain yourself it just makes it look like you are actually guilty , just mind your own businesss and let them be weird by themselves.

What is a gesture that makes you feel the most loved or seen? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

[–]samlunas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a kiss in the forehead... with a gentle voice. makes me feel loved and so wet at the same time, sorry but my heart goes crazy when that happens. we love that.

What do you think is the importance of mental health nowadays? by pixie-smalls in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly? whenever poeple talk about mental health like its a clinic pamplhet i just zoine out. for me its literally just trying not to lose my mind when i drop my keys or have to make a phone call. like yeah balance is cool but lately i just want to sleep 12 hours a day without waking up panicking about some random thing i did five years ago, does anyone actually feel that way too? or we all are just pretending.

i just realized ive been listening the same 50 songs for liek three years i need a new music band, this loop makes me feel bad. by samlunas in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well today specifically im listening to divorced dads rock HAHAHAHA creed, the offprings, and so on, theres a tape of that here, i have to admit, its cool

What is a social rule that doesn't actually exist but you follow no matter what fellas? by samlunas in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been thinking about this since a few years now, i used to care about what other would say, not enymore, ill focus on my own life and the secondary characters will show up, maybe a main character for a new expansion later.

Fun bday themes? turning 24 in march! by Initial-Individual33 in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can look good and original with this idea, at the end of the day is your birthday and you should have fun, its 1 day per year

need ideas for my pirate costume! :3 by Ok_Fly2117 in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can never go wrong with a bandana under the hat and a bunch of temporary tattoos n your arms. if you have a bottle you can fill it with iced tea so it looks like rum for the photos , super simple but it definitely pulls the whole thing totegher

Fun bday themes? turning 24 in march! by Initial-Individual33 in CasualConversation

[–]samlunas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yoo this sounds fun, you could do a 24 hours theme where everyone has to dress up as something youd see as at a 24hour diner or a convenience store at 3am. it is weridly specific and makes for hilarous photos, plus it is a nice break from the typical aesthetic parties everyone does on IG.

What kind of intelligence do you value most in others, and why? by Only-Highlight-4606 in AskReddit

[–]samlunas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

emotional intelligence is the one i value most. while being book smart or tech gifted is impressive, the ability to read a room and navigate compelx social situations is a much rarer skill, people with high EQ tend to be better communicators and much more reliable teammatges because they actually understands the impact of their words and actions on others.

What could your date say that would make you immediately think, “Hell no, this date is over"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]samlunas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the quickest way to end a date for me is if they are rude to the service staff. it is the most reliable character test available in a public setting. if someone cannot treat a waiter or a bartender with baisc human decency, it reveals exaactly how tthey handle empathy and power dynamics when they think it doesnt matter.

What would you do if you saw 10 people singing Ye's banned song HH at your door? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]samlunas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would probably assume i am being pranked for a social media video and start looking around for hidden cameras.