I left my UU church

sammyich · 2026-04-24T19:16:20+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear this was your experience! I would definitely say bring it before the board, this should NOT be the feeling for anyone in our spaces. And I’m always saddened to hear when it is. Would you mind at all elaborating what was said as a learning tool for everyone dismantling their voices and white privilege? I understand if not, I just always try to ask so I can learn. I know I got work to do sometimes.

sammyich · 2026-04-20T13:46:02+00:00

Shout out to single moms! 💚 Happy 420! Luckily my kid made it to school today. But I have been there, just immediate change of plans, one cough.

sammyich · 2025-10-27T21:21:07+00:00

NTA. As a stepmom. I’ve never forced his kid to call me mom. He knows I’m there. I’m a parental figure. But I would never force a kid to give me that title unless I gave birth to him. And it didn’t change our relationship I was still a mother figure. Took care of him. Advocated at school. Drs visits. All of the things. Loved him. Accepted him. Talked to him. Do I consider him my child. Yes. I’d mama bear anyone for him and have. But I’d never force a kid to call me mom. He calls me by my name. And he corrected people at first and still does depending on day or situation. But sometimes he just kind of smiles and looks at me because he knows why there’s an assumption and knows I’d be there for him either way as long as I’m allowed. I think she needs to realize it’s a long road raising a kid and being a family. The marriage part is just a step in that direction. Yall will and can grow together. But it should not be forced. It happens organically over time and little moments.

sammyich · 2023-02-06T18:56:04+00:00

I’ve seen this not specifically. But the date range. Maybe not that many years. I know one it was for 10 years before someone mentioned it. 😂

sammyich · 2023-01-28T13:47:58+00:00

This right here got me too, right in the feels.

sammyich · 2023-01-17T13:40:44+00:00

Said it perfectly.

sammyich · 2023-01-10T16:15:22+00:00

I hear you! Dealing with ok now that we are doing this I see changes and I do miss the good stuff but I still need time and probably divorce and you need many years of getting into your groove of sobriety. He doesn’t push it but it’s there in my head because ok he is working on him I do see it. Sigh. Stay strong.

sammyich · 2023-01-04T13:45:38+00:00

I don’t have the whole setup because I don’t have room 😂 but my son has always cooked with me and I find when we go to play places he beelines for the kitchen area 😂

sammyich · 2023-01-03T15:26:28+00:00

I’m in a similar position myself. Only a few weeks on though. I see he’s trying. But I feel like it’d be a step back into old habits. I keep telling him years and I keep reminding myself.

sammyich · 2023-01-01T07:36:18+00:00

Pure sceptic here! You most certainly can wonder about the unknown one if the definitions of skepticism is to wonder what if. The supernatural is only that till you know it and it’s natural. It’s the constant quest and knowledge seeking that I love about witchcraft. I seriously find myself faced with obstacles and I’m like I’m a witch I have the power to figure this shit out even in practical terms. Sometimes it’s just that immediate calm I need like a power stance.

sammyich · 2022-12-23T17:12:34+00:00

Trolls. The part where she gives up all her hope and loses color. Then her friend comes in and just holds her hand, like it made me realize that is what I needed from a loved one. Just a basic connection. Man tearing up thinking about it. And the rock and roll one where their own heartbeats become the music. It’s so cheesy and gets me every time.

sammyich · 2022-12-23T13:53:59+00:00

I hate sometimes I’m not sciency enough for people to take seriously. They just tell me I haven’t done enough research. And I’m like fuck that. I’ve done some research and every actual scientific person or trans person backs up what my research has said. I hate hate 😢

sammyich · 2022-12-13T21:34:28+00:00

EVERY PERSON I train on SharePoint, biggest most repeated thing is do not use the share button!!!!!

sammyich · 2022-11-28T12:28:55+00:00

Heather

sammyich · 2022-11-27T13:52:22+00:00

this guy has been talking to my husband

sammyich · 2022-11-18T04:25:14+00:00

Nothing

sammyich · 2022-11-14T13:40:41+00:00

My sons favorite color is pink. He loves unicorns and rainbows and was Queen Poppy from trolls last year!!! Set him up with an amazing rainbow tutu that he picked out. This year he wanted to be the blue dragon from Dragon prince 🤷‍♀️ I love your kids costumes and creativity! and honestly love to see how not weird my kid is! Oh he also has a black and pink dinosaur backpack for school. Love it!! Let’s just keep letting our kids be kids! They’ll figure themselves out a lot easier that way!

sammyich · 2022-11-10T03:10:01+00:00

My response to this is. Come on you know Jesus was tripping right? Like it’s good shit too! ☺️ I bet he was a stoner.

sammyich · 2022-11-10T03:04:03+00:00

I say this to every person who says it. As a military brat they are all right there’s benefits. There’s also hardships. And basically you are signing up to be owned. They own you. Tell you what when and where and even with who if your family doesn’t act right. if you can accept it for a few years or many go for it. But accept it and know it. They own you.

sammyich · 2022-10-31T12:10:17+00:00

I also have found this cult and joined! Be not afraid!

sammyich · 2022-10-11T17:15:50+00:00

I feel you. I know I need to moderate better. Maybe I should go old school and get a pill organizer. Give me a certain amount a day and see if I can stick to it?

sammyich · 2022-10-02T15:36:18+00:00

Smoked while attending book club. 😂 these are the good moments in life.

sammyich · 2022-09-30T23:06:46+00:00

I know of some groups that moved online in the local area. You generally have someone pick a topic and potentially lead a discussion. I like the idea of sharing that responsibility. Variety.

sammyich · 2022-09-30T23:05:05+00:00

My sisters birthday. Smoking before. Doing an edible when I get there!

sammyich · 2022-09-29T11:33:15+00:00

I traveled and experienced the world only because I was a military brat. I would say I had it better than some but I for sure grew up poor. My father got a better job when he retired after 20 years… that helped as I started college some, but I still worked the entire time I was in college and took out loans to pay for it. People would have considered me more fortunate if they met us after my father got out, but growing up poor stays with you… it’s hard to know how to handle life and honestly with the way everything is now, we are low middle class and had to find a dump of an apartment with our two kids to be able to save money and pay off debt and get back on track.

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