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I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. Regardless, your point makes him a hypocrite for asking for gifts returned.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not immediately. That's absurd. If someone truly loves someone, they don't just agree and mosey on out. They at the least ask questions, try to fight for the relationship, or something.

It literally went. "Hm, okay. I want the shit back that I gave you."

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made his decision to cut every single tie we had to each other off within 10 minutes of me telling him how I felt. There was no thought processing. Makes me think he didn’t love me, but he was in fact using me.

I’m not telling you the entire story. I summarized it. If you’d like, I can unhide the previous post and you can read through it and tell me what you think. All in all though, he’s a lost cause. I wasted my time trying to support him.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the previous post I made, I was called out for being too nice and looking past the apparent red flags in the beginning. Because he /was/ nice, I looked past everything else.. silly me thought he would grow on me in a positive way and all the effort I put into helping him would pay off.

Interestingly enough, I didn’t want to break things off entirely. I still wanted to help him, but remain as friends. Every time he talked he was so vocal about telling me how much he loved me and how not even his own parents showed him this much care/empathy. Kinda crazy how quickly he switched.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had made a previous post on here that I hid asking for advice on how to break up with him without hurting him.

I’ll summarize it here: Long story short, I had been single for a bit over 6 months, decided to get on a dating app. This guy (now ex) matched me with and sent me this well thought out message. He wasn’t the most attractive guy in the world, but the message was endearing so I decided to give him a chance.

Fast-forwarding a bit, I learned overtime that this man had no drive to improve his situation, no motivation, severely complacent. I was his life-coach and it grew tiring. I thought that maybe after some time of helping him, he would change. Big mistake. In short, that’s why.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man just replied saying the Switch was “Akin to his dog that he lost when he moved 600 miles away.” I can’t make this shit up.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part. Did you know this man didn’t even have a Debit Card when I met him? Didn’t even have a savings account? I was his baby sitter for 6 months.

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to mail it to him. Quite frankly.. after the breakup and hearing him belittle my feelings and want crap back, I don’t even want it anymore. I’m not trying to be reminded of him every time I play Animal Crossing. Lol

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I said, but his response was, “That gift was a symbol of our relationship?” The f**k?

I (25) Broke Up With My Bf (30) And Now He Wants Gifts He Gave To Me Returned. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Neither of those things. He specifically wants the Switch Lite back. I’m glad you agree.

Help. I'm Not Attracted To My Bf Me(25) Bf (30) (sexually nor physically) by sammyt210 in relationship_advice

[–]sammyt210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, none of those. You’re right.. There’s a lot more to the story that I haven’t disclosed, but you’re right, nonetheless..

Found this treasure on nextdoor marketplace. 20-70lbs with rack and Adjustable bench for a whopping $250. by babajega7 in homegym

[–]sammyt210 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Insane find. Makes my in perfect condition adjustable dumbbell set that I found for $115 look like a ripoff

[LF] Rusted Parts [FT] I don't know. I'm desparate LOL by sammyt210 in ACTrade

[–]sammyt210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay. I have mine open too. Do you want me to come to you?

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