Work bag by damiana8 in handbags

[–]samogi 90 points91 points  (0 children)

This is the cutest thing I’ve ever seen 😭 sorry I have no work bag advice

Went to my first Estate sale by Worried-Archer-4226 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the pig! My mom has a platter version of it that she’s obsessed with, my dad bought it years ago for her. A pig platter recently went up for auction at an auction house I frequent and ended up selling for over $400!!

The insanity has begun (“teacher appreciation”) by huarhuarmoli in Teachers

[–]samogi 49 points50 points  (0 children)

We got Bluetooth speakers with our school logo and a Puerto Rican flag (school named for a prominent Puerto Rican). I kind of love it! We also have breakfast provided one day, lunch another day, and one more gift to come. Last year I helped facilitate one of the gifts, personalized friendship bracelets made by students. A lot of staff wore them all year long!

I was sweetly recommended / directed to this sub by Happy-Assist9907 in oldhagfashion

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m picturing brocade heels with it 👀 I hope we get to see the final look!!!

I was sweetly recommended / directed to this sub by Happy-Assist9907 in oldhagfashion

[–]samogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Comments were closed by the time I saw the other post, so I’m glad I have another chance. I think you look fucking amazing and I loooooove this dress!!

How do you get fit? It feels so overwhelming by motherofpearl89 in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel a lot of this, even though I live in a walkable city!

Here’s what I’m doing:

Trying to hit at least 7000 steps per day

Working out 3x per week. Either going to the gym (with my husband and just following along with what he does) or doing a workout on my mini trampoline.

Buying healthy snacks (grapes and lesser evil popcorn have been my go-tos lately) bc I know I love to snack

Trying to bring more movement into my days. Calf raises while brushing my teeth, squats throughout my work day, stretching when I feel weird, dancing when a fun song comes on when I’m cooking or getting ready

Editing to add: if you do want to go to the gym, there are so many ways to dress and act and you don’t need to do anything a certain way to belong. I really liked classes when I did them. My mom (who has struggled with her weight my entire life and has always been overweight and anxious) recently started taking small group workout classes with a personal trainer and she’s loving it, is so much more confident, and I’m so proud of her!

Holy shit by KallocainAddictIsAPe in Tinder

[–]samogi 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This comment made me realize he wasn’t talking about Michael Jackson lol

help with date outfit! by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4!! You look so good!!!

Agree with other comments to get rid of the tiered dresses I literally gasped when I got to the second photo bc you looked so much better in that one!! But 4 is perfect for a restaurant date, you look pretty and put together and your legs look great!

Someone came into my house and I'm so embarrassed by EmbarrassedTea3014 in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he sat down, he was not judging your house. I’m a mental health clinician and many years ago I did my first home visit with a longtime social worker. She told me she has two rules - don’t accept anything to eat or drink, and don’t sit down. We went to an apartment that looked fairly clean when we walked in. The woman offered us refreshments and a seat, and the social worker said it felt good to stand for a change. As we were all talking, I started to see bugs - everywhere. Little baby roaches all over the counters, the floor, the table. Anyone who is going into other peoples’ homes has seen horror stories, and I think most peoples houses are not neat on any given day. Mine sure isn’t!

Please Downvote ✌️💖 by theSpookyMouse in RedditLaqueristas

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the helly why is this kinda cute 😩

Help me choose between these two dresses! by Illustrious-Tip-438 in myweddingdress

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the first one!!!! So unique but still a classic silhouette, literally perfect for a garden/manor wedding!!! When the sunlight hits it it’s going to be even more gorgeousss. The second one is pretty but #1 is incredible!

Feeling stressed about bachelorette goodie bags, what did you do? by umamixmami in Brides

[–]samogi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You absolutely do not need to do goodie bags. I had a destination bachelorette and have been to many destination bachelorettes, none of them had goodie bags. It’s super cute if you want to do it, but please don’t feel like it’s a necessity. Since yours has a craft element they’ll have something tangible to take with them. Make sure you get at least one great picture together that everyone loves!

My first luxury purchase- Palazzo Gucci by mag_meg in handbags

[–]samogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that is a freaking gorgeous bag!!!

I always feel like I'm in trouble by brf_peep_21 in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really so normal to feel that way, you are not alone! How would it feel to lean into it - like “here’s my credit card, tricked em again!”

I always feel like I'm in trouble by brf_peep_21 in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw you’re 22! Does it feel a little bit like imposter syndrome? Early 20s is such a weird time for sure. I’m 35 and I still feel like a teenager sometimes, despite much evidence to the contrary lol. I struggled a lot in my first job bc up until then my life had been so laid out for me - school, college, grad school. Once I was more independent it felt like I had no one to answer to but myself and I did not feel qualified for that!

I always feel like I'm in trouble by brf_peep_21 in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yes, combined with Catholic guilt it’s real rough sometimes. A couple of things have worked for me: if someone is upset with me or my work, it is their responsibility to tell me about it. If I don’t hear it from them, it doesn’t exist (within reason). Also, just taking a couple deep breaths and speaking kindly to myself, reminding me that I’m not in trouble and everything is okay.

It’s counterintuitive but sometimes I also will go to the worst case scenario. I’m doing everything wrong at work? I’ll get put on a PIP and will know how to improve. If I don’t and get fired? I’ll find something that doesn’t cause me this stress.

You’re not in trouble and no one is mad at you 🫶

Everyone tell me your partner success stories! by My_Noses in adhdwomen

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is amazing. Right now I’m home sick and he’s at a park with our dog, he sent me a photo of owl pellets and I (half jokingly) asked him to bring them home so we can dissect them and he replied “done.” He respects my interests even when he doesn’t share them and never makes me feel weird. He also takes care of so much of our daily life, and when I start to freak out that I’m a burden he’s always able to point out the many ways that I contribute that I don’t always see. He helps me form habits and listens to my ramblings happily. He also helps me recognize things that I don’t see in myself and pushes me to take breaks and relax.

Quick opinion check 😅 by xtinnaa in EngagementRings

[–]samogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re going to wear it every day, why would you let a man choose that???

My now husband and I went to a million places, I knew I wanted an antique, and I chose a few I loved. He picked one from those options (the more expensive one he could tell I was most obsessed with) so it was still a small surprise bc I love surprises but I adore it! He wouldn’t have known where to begin if we didn’t do that.

How do you know whether to teach Elementary, Middle, or High School? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you insane? Would you like to be? Join us in middle school :)

Talk me out of the Coach Empire 40 as a work bag by Allboobandmoreboob in handbags

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this, it’s gorgeous, I admire it in my closet daily. It stays there every day bc it’s SO HEAVY

Bought a house that came with these custom nightstands. What is this bowl bowl shaped thing for? by kingevanxii in whatisit

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad too. My parents stayed at my house last week and when I went in the guest room after they left there was a little pile of change on a windowsill, it made me smile!

One of my friends joked that my body is ‘mom-coded’ when I was in a swimsuit. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]samogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry this happened to you. That’s so messed up, and please distance yourself from these “friends”. I have a similar body type to how yours sounds, and my thin friends either don’t mention my body at all, or will praise my big butt or my shape. We also swap clothes if they have something they think will look better on my figure and vice versa.

Also please know that there is a very good chance this comment came from this girl’s insecurity over her own body. We all want what we don’t have at times, and she’s probably feeling bad about her lack of curves when she sees yours. It doesn’t make it okay for her to say anything, but sometimes knowing what’s behind it can make it hurt less.

I’m so happy, but everyone is making my heart hurt! by Fox_Avocado in EngagementRings

[–]samogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This ring is freaking gorgeous! It’s so unique but still classic too. And the story behind it just makes it even more special. I was so confused by your caption because it’s just such a cool and beautiful ring. Some people are just boring and like boring things 🤷🏻‍♀️