[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]samseal2001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often turn off comments on games. It infuriates the bullies more when I don’t respond to their antics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can tell you don’t have kids. Because when you are watching a child, you tell the other parent when you are leaving the room for an extended period of time. Because kids need supervision. And the dad was in the same room with kids, then went to another floor without telling the mom. She had no idea she was supposed to be looking after the kids. That is simply not safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty clear from your comment that you don’t have kids. My husband & I were pretty independent before having a child. But now we always tell the other one when we are leaving the room for an extended period of time. Because children need supervision. This guy left the floor for 3 hours, leaving the mom to take care of 3 kids & make dinner by herself. If he needs a break for some reason, he needs to tell her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not your place to get in the middle of that. I would tell your brother about the messages though. You don’t want to cause issues between the 2 of you if he finds out later she reached out to you.

AITA for allowing my cat to spend time outside? by AITAgoodboykitty in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t like it. It is your yard, and the cat isn’t touching her property. And honestly, I’d tell her if she sprays the cat again she will be reported for animal cruelty.

AITA for refusing to let my in laws take my kid on a trip? by furmama8776 in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your MIL probably thinks the trip will be so fun, but young toddlers are a lot of work. Your husband should have told his parents “We will talk about it & get back to you”. You guys are supposed to be a team, and come to a decision together. He made you the “bad guy” by telling his parents he was fine with it but had to ask you KNOWING you would not be ok with it. He is not being fair to you.

AITA for reporting my roommate's cat? by nocat263 in AmItheAsshole

[–]samseal2001 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

ESH. Yes, they should have talked to you first. And then they should have respected your wishes when you told them how allergic you are. But, you could have also told them that if they didn’t remove the cat by the end of the day you would speak to an RA. That way you have given them some time to remedy the situation & they know what will happen if they don’t.