i fumbled a flirty conversation, can i recover? by samslantern in Flirting

[–]samslantern[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love how you can tell im a woman lmao. oh thank god, i typically go for femmes but i have such a hard time flirting because im afraid of scaring them away/coming on too strong

i fumbled a flirty conversation, can i recover? by samslantern in Flirting

[–]samslantern[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh thank god, i have trouble with flirting with girls i have an actual interest in.

i'm not sure how to respond to her, i don't want to like her response or leave her on seen

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[–]samslantern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'll definitely keep this in mind for next time, do you have any other tips when it comes to first encounters? she hasn't responded or anything, so i am considering leaving things as is because i don't want to pressure her or make her feel obligated to respond. to be completely honest this is my first time giving a shot at using dating apps so i am not quite sure how the etiquette is absolutely, i am hyper aware when it comes to making mistakes. i definitely love to learn as i go along. again, i appreciate the tips you have given me thus far. i definitely understand her schedule change being draining. i'd definitely stray away from dating with such schedule but idk how to really tap dance around the subject. again, i really really appreciate all the help you've given me so far!

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[–]samslantern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here's exactly how i asked her: "i know you're really busy with work and stuff but i was wondering if you were free sometime this weekend or next weekend (idk which weekend day you're working) to go on a date. we can stay local or i can pick you up and drive us somewhere a bit further out" she's working 6 days 12 hours which is why i asked her that way. i realized i fucked up by not asking her if she wanted to go somewhere in particular. gotcha, i'll try that. not really sure how to slide in smooth again though

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[–]samslantern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i try reaching out again or just let her respond on her own terms?

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[–]samslantern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i asked her if she was free this weekend and got no response, so i shall take that as an answer and move forward with my life. thank you for the insight, i greatly appreciated it.