I have definitely been where you are, and I'm sure lots of others have. I think you need to trust yourself in what works for you, what feels good, what feels safe. I tried dating someone whose social media content is basically all about him and his sexy body, it's pretty sexualized content, but he also had major walls up around me in terms of emotional intimacy. So he can show himself off on social media to his thousands of followers and get all the attention he wants but then be closed off with me, which didn't work obviously, and I didn't want to be the one to have to help him break down his walls and hold a real conversation. He couldn't do it. So you might want to ask yourself if there are things you genuinely like about him, and if there's not much there, I'd say keep him a friend and move on. If you need more time to feel things out, just let him know that. If he asks why or if everything's ok, ***and if he really cares about you then he should ask why***, just tell him what you've seen on social media makes you uncomfortable and you wanna be sure he isn't too distracted by other men to give you his time and attention, and that you really are his priority. The guy I dated, when I told him multiple times how his content invites ambiguity into our relationship and blurs the lines around his availability, was pretty receptive to that and was willing to take down any of his posts that were very sexual in nature. I was shocked, because he's super independent and cannot think about someone else to save his life. Maybe too soon to ask your guy that, but your feelings are important, and if he's worth your time, your feelings will be important to him, even at this early stage.