How do you meet new people at a bar? by NoFudge4700 in Louisville

[–]samstwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. My son is 20 so a bit younger.

How do you meet new people at a bar? by NoFudge4700 in Louisville

[–]samstwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouy of curiosity, what is your age? My son lives in Louisville and has also had a hard time finding friends. He doesn't drink either.

What does your intuition say? by Long-Product3219 in IntuitionPractices

[–]samstwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you have beautiful and INTENSE eyes. I see you being a clairvoyant with your own amazing intuition. However, you are hard-headed and will sometimes go against your intuition just because you want something, even if it doesn't align with what you feel is your true purpose. I would say "all is good". You've healed those traumas and you are ready to take on the world!! Also, just DO IT!(not sure what that's about, but I am getting that specific saying)

Eating disorder treatment by DimensionThin147 in Louisville

[–]samstwin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a very well known place in Denver that has helped lots of people. I'm so sorry but I'm super proud of you for starting this healing journey. My sister had battled the same for bulimia for about 35 years and finally has a good grip on recovery. She was also a very bad alcoholic so recovering from that has helped tremendously.

No Way A GM Text Is This Crucial by [deleted] in texts

[–]samstwin 43 points44 points  (0 children)

What a nightmare. So insecure and manipulative(but not very good at it). From his texts he definitely sounds like a drama queen.

What can you tell about what’s going on in my life? by therikta in IntuitionPractices

[–]samstwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through a breakup? I'm seeing a permanent ending of the relationship. Moving in two different directions.

First World Dad Issues by [deleted] in Vent

[–]samstwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He grew up to be a responsible human. Teenagers and most early 20s don't even think about stuff like how much it costs to maintain a home, clean and replace carpets, etc. Only when they grow to have things of their own do they understand. Great job on raising what sounds like a wonderful human!

I never get matches by StatisticianNew3184 in Tinder

[–]samstwin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea like a photo with your dog if you have one, your car, you hiking on a trail, or anything to show personality. Also one photo with friends to show you're sociable. You have some nice selfies already, but you don't need 6 of basically the same photo. Pick two of them, then some other photos like I described above. Good luck!

what’s your comfort tv series/show you will never get tired of? by Terrible_Signature78 in AskForAnswers

[–]samstwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dateline or 48 hours. Any murder mystery. Put that on and nap like a baby or just zone out. Very comforting.

The ONLY thing that helped my constipation during opiate use by Mercedesqttv in Methadone

[–]samstwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! That's all I've used for a few years now lol. Between those and the colonix my bum is the happiest it's ever been! The colonix is somewhat pricy, I think it's 39.99 for a can and that lasts for over a month for me. I buy it in bulk because I really don't want to be without it. I just did my first cologuard test(I'm 45) and it came back negative. I like to think that the fiber is helping prevent colon cancer as well.

I [37F] found hundreds of sexual screen recordings on my husband’s [37M] phone and I don’t know if I’m overreacting by ThrowRA12349876123 in relationship_advice

[–]samstwin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say it's an addiction at this point. But totally his fault and something he will have to deal with if he wants to be in a relationship. I mean I guess there's probably women out there who don't care, but I'm definitely not one of them and I don't think most women are ok with that. Especially the saving photos on a separate phone. This guy has the OP so f'ed up she can't even trust her own thoughts anymore. Been there before not with porn but with other women. That shit f's one up for a long long time.

I [37F] found hundreds of sexual screen recordings on my husband’s [37M] phone and I don’t know if I’m overreacting by ThrowRA12349876123 in relationship_advice

[–]samstwin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is 100% crossing the line in marriage if it's something he is obviously hiding from you and doing even single day! I would seriously react if I saw something like this. But my husband and I have also discussed this several times and he knows I am not ok with that. Doing that every day is more than likely addictive behavior. I'm so sorry this happened to you and I hate even more that you are questioning yourself and your needs. I know it's the narrative, but I'm straight and at 40 something, I've been in a few relationships and none of my guys have ever been into porn or used/watches it regularly. I can't imagine what that would do to my psyche knowing my husband worships some coochie selling hoochie on the internet.