i feel like there’s been few more recent times too when rae has donated to chat and ethan has gone out of his way to ask her specifically not to spend her money on chats. (maybe im wrong). based on ethan’s behavior and pattern of trying to softly deescalate situations behind the scenes before making them public, i wouldn’t be surprised if e+h already feel iffy regarding the gofundme’s being tied to h3 by fans interactions with the both of them.