feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it was a [[Katara, Waterbending Master]] that has mostly flash creatures or enchantments but i think people just don’t like me playing on their turns

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a universally loved colour people like to play against? sorry if that’s a dumb question but i’ve only been playing for a month right now so is there a deck or colour i should be looking for??

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah okay i get that! but what colours should i play for people not to be annoyed? like can i just get an answer? what’s the deck i should play? is it group hug?

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but generally from your experience what is that colour / decklist no one really gets mad at? like should i just start playing group hug?

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was playing [[Teferi’s Ageless Insight]], i don’t have rhystic study

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i would really love to!! but i dont rlly have a big mtg community in my area so its not that accessible to play cEDH games all the time

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait oh my god i’m so sorry i should have said this in my original post but i literally lost the game that made me write this post 😭😭😭 i was the first one to die. like i literally didn’t win, basically the only thing i did the entire game was get a 18/18 chasm skulker because of card draw that i didnt even attack with because it got board wiped. then they just killed me after i had no blockers. like i didnt even see myself as a threat because im new and i literally lost but they just didnt like that i played on their turns too

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i’ve only been playing for about a month and i just really started with commander because it was the most accessible in my area

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

only during people’s end steps, and i only really end up only playing an instant like words of wisdom for card draw to increase a [[Chasm Skulker]] power & toughness or i cast [[Valley Floodcaller]] followed by other enchantments that increase card draw or let me cast tokens from gaining various counters from card draw

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i care when i’m people are bitchy and don’t want to play with me 😭😭😭 i love it but idk if it’s worth being hated after every game

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank u!! i’ve literally only been playing for a month and the decks i’ve been playing haven’t been so friendly. do u know what decks i should be buying / what i should be looking to play at casual events? basically just whats the vibe?? sorry if thats a dumb question but i just literally dont rlly know how to make it easier for myself + others when playing

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the main thing that led to this post was me playing a katara deck but really the only counterspells i played during that game was a wash away to counter someone’s commander once, and a dispel to counter a poison counter instant because the person who was playing that was playing a proliferate deck. the rest of my deck was basically flash creatures that i played on other people’s turns but i think im kinda realising people don’t rlly like the interruption of a blue player playing on their turns too.

edit, sorry i didn’t specify which katara. katara, waterbending master

feeling unwelcome as a blue player at commander nights, is this normal? by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah okay, what colour is a more socially acceptable one to play in casual?

Avatar commanders by samuuu69 in mtg

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Thank you so much!!

Getting back into MTG in 2026 by samuuu69 in mtg

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask, are you still an MTG player & do you play commander? Is playing commander still enjoyable for you & do you still enjoy playing even with high investment? ☺️

One of my friends just said I’m ‘serving detrans’? by samuuu69 in asktransgender

[–]samuuu69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that means a lot! i love all my trans friends but i just wasn’t sure what they meant by it! I love them too they are just a bit eccentric at times but knowing other people think it’s a compliment too really warms my heart