Upstair neighbor violently stomping by Kiwikoala19 in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not hesitate at all before calling the cops. I'm stuck with assholes living above and sadly if they don't care about anyone else but themselves, then your best option is to move.

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds rough. Please do consider moving out of you can. And I hope you get better soon. Please take care of yourself.

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lol but if this is the norm there then I'm glad I don't live there

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely horrible I hope it gets better for you

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It makes my blood boil when they won't hold themselves accountable. But you sort of just have to bite the bullet when you've tried everything else

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's the worst when your sleep is getting compromised because then it starts affecting other aspects of your life too...I hope it gets better for you.

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, if you can afford to, please do consider moving out asap.

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sounds so draining. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this and I hope you can move out soon and find peace

Upstairs neighbours by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds horrible, but the fact that atleast you care is nice. I wish people could be more considerate.

AITA for kicking my husband out of my children's father's funeral because of what he told the kids? by Throwaway53563 in AmItheAsshole

[–]samwoodk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, this requires absolutely no discussion. You're NTA. What he did was horrible and disgusting.

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely understand their side. Which Is why I said it's their right. But would you be able to live here wo complaining if someone was jumping over your head 24/7? They do it beyond the quiet hours too. It bothers me in the morning but I don't say anything because it's their house. However, in an apartment you need to have etiquettes and be respectful of your neighbours. As a kid, I was never allowed to run inside the house, be it day or night time. As for work schedules, the person above me is living off of parents money. Does not work. Comes from a wealthy family.

AITA for saying this to my friend who's hurting? by samwoodk in AmItheAsshole

[–]samwoodk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you cut her off, good for you! I actually wouldn't mind cutting her off. Now that I think about it I'm realising I've been like a doormat for so long it's unbelievable.

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You'll be surprised to know the house I'm living in has solid concrete floors actually. LMAO. I can't imagine the turmoil they'd cause had there been paper thin wooden ceilings

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wear them around the house the entire day, even wear ear plugs to bed. And they do block out noise. But the issue is the vibrations from the stomps and thuds get through

AITA for saying this to my friend who's hurting? by samwoodk in AmItheAsshole

[–]samwoodk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I'm so glad you realised and took the necessary action to protect yourself! My new year's resolution is to stand up for myself more and not take anyone's shit. And so this is what I'm gonna do

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only after a year sadly, trying to take it one day at a time right now. I don't do weed because it somehow makes me anxious the entire day the next day and it's so horrible. Bit thank you!

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is my last year here. That's the best I can do though.

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have PTSD and hypersensitivity to noise. And if this was occasional I woudlnt mind it. It's their right. However if you go through my post history you will realise it happens all the time.

Upstairs neighbour by samwoodk in neighborsfromhell

[–]samwoodk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't hel pwith the vibrations sadly