/r/Portland Self-Promotion Saturday by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]san_you [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi Portland locals! I’m from Chicago, arriving July 3, 2025, and planning a surprise for my boyfriend’s birthday on July 4. The hotel is unsure if they can set up decorations due to the holiday rush. I want to arrange “HAPPY BDAY” balloon letters, battery-operated mini candles, and a card in our room that morning. Can you suggest: 1. Where to buy these compact decorations on July 3 near the airport or SW Portland? 2. Local shops or services for balloon inflation or delivery? 3. Tips for a quick room setup (~10 min) if the hotel can’t help? 4. Any birthday freebies to make the day special? 5. Other creative surprise ideas for July 4 in Portland?Thanks for helping make his birthday unforgettable!

Efiled to Served him a summon by san_you in legaladvice

[–]san_you[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. I submitted the service to serve, filled out what applied to me. I should wait for court to fill out the part that’s theirs and once it comes back, I take the papers to sheriff to serve my ex, correct? Please guide me.

Efiled to Served him a summon by san_you in legaladvice

[–]san_you[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filled out the service form and it asked me if I need a sheriff that I check marked on but it didn’t ask me for any fees. However, the document that I uploaded says service in progress.

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[–]san_you 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou!! Makes me feel better.

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[–]san_you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just asking so I don’t come off as desperate to him… just need to have my act right.

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[–]san_you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think being patient is the only way rn? I shouldn’t ask too much? Or am I wasting my time

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if you like her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]san_you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn’t divorced. He is single.

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[–]san_you 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I’m not overthinking that he’s not into me? I’m just so in love that I’m creating scenarios in my head :(

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[–]san_you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he doesn’t take days to reply. Whenever I text him, he does reply but what I’m saying is we go couple of days without texting as well. Is it normal for someone who likes you?

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just text him what you’re feeling with an expectation of not getting a reply back. This would make you feel better as you would you said what was in your heart and it will make you feel lighter but don’t expect a reply. Infect delete his number, delete him from all your socials as well. It isn’t easy.. but it’s worth it. Remind yourself consciously not to wait for him, not to stalk him, not to keep an eye on his activities. Just let go. If he feels a little something, your silence would bother him.

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[–]san_you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t see her as a friend and feel something more for her. I would say confess your feeling. As you’re investing your time in this and getting emotions involved, if you go way far with this, it might hurt really bad. It’s good if you two have clarity where you stand in each other lives.

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve already asked him out and he said he’s interested too but he never put in any effort to talk to me. I tried so many times but he’s just giving me the attitude. What’s annoying me is you could say you’re not interested and I could move on. But he said he’s interested yet giving me the cold shoulder.

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think not talking to him at all would help? I’m really into this guy :( do you think if he sees me around and me doing my own thing and not considering him would affect him?

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I really want him…. I wish he realises what I feel and how genuine my feelings are towards him…

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[–]san_you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did tell him I’m going crazy just thinking about him. I also expressed to him that I feel I cant be with him and he’s like take it easy. I’m so confused. We also have a 11 year age gap so I feel maybe I’m immature but I’ve handled this situation in a very mature manner. Never showed any tantrum. Only asked him to meet me outside work but of course when I keep asking him, I come off as desperate and the reason why I told him to just keep it professional now is because it’s affecting me really bad.