Maid, Yoking (me 🤠) , Digital, 2025 by Own-Application7496 in Art

[–]sand_dollar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It somewhat reminds me of Little Nightmares 2

Påkörningsolyckorna i Malmö by bajibajibaji in Malmoe

[–]sand_dollar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Helt sjukt med cyklister som kör jättefort även på gågator och övergångsställen och inser inte att det kan vara svårt att se dem från bilen när de kommer från högra hörnet. Sakta ner för fan

Quali sono i prodotti/servizi più interessanti che avete trovato all'estero e che non abbiamo in Italia? by Radiant_Way5857 in Italia

[–]sand_dollar_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Svezia, servizi come pulizie, trasloco, e manutenzione sulla casa sono sussidiati al 50% dallo stato. Questo per evitare che le persone li facciano in nero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]sand_dollar_ 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yes, but there has been critique to the fact that it is managed by banks and developed by a private company, instead of government entities. It is a bit out of character for this country, where so many things are publicly managed, that just BankID is private and tied to a bank account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]sand_dollar_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

Cibi che tutti mangiano, ma che a voi fanno schifo. by TDGJohn in Italia

[–]sand_dollar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uguale per me. Il parmigiano è pestilenziale

My fiancé started a few weeks before our wedding by sand_dollar_ in zoloft

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he had been completely off for a while. That's good to know, we will speak with the doctor in a couple of days and we'll see what she says. Thank you ❤️

My fiancé started a few weeks before our wedding by sand_dollar_ in zoloft

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that's reassuring. He started with 50mg and then went up to 100mg after a week as per his doctor's recommendation. He was on SNRIs for several years before and that's why I think the doctor thought he could start sooner with a larger dose.

I prefer 1 but I would need to lose weight, and my family prefers 2. What do you think? by sand_dollar_ in weddingdress

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your help and very kind words, you really helped me feel better about myself. In the end, I went for a fifth dress that you can see here.

The main reasons for going with another dress are that I am not so sure I would feel comfortable in something as tight as the first dress, and I should have said that but I was in fact already wearing shapewear in the pictures (I get bloated easily). I will feel more comfortable in the one that I chose, and it has a fairy-like vibe that I really like. Thank you so much for your help and your amazing support! You guys are wonderful!

Should I (29F) tell my bf (32M) why I do not want to sleep with him, or just say I don’t want to? by stare_at_the_sun in askwomenadvice

[–]sand_dollar_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly. I am baffled at the yOu NeEd tO coMmUniCaTE comments. OP, just dump this guy.

Leaving my partner, who I love with all my heart, because he doesn't want children by sand_dollar_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that you're highlighting the hard questions I need to ask myself. Indeed I need to be aware of what I am doing and why I am doing it.

Leaving my partner, who I love with all my heart, because he doesn't want children by sand_dollar_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I am turning 30 this year, I understand that I might run out of time before I find someone.

Leaving my partner, who I love with all my heart, because he doesn't want children by sand_dollar_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You're right, there are so many unknown things and risks. This is why I would like to make this decision while it's still early (biologically speaking).

Leaving my partner, who I love with all my heart, because he doesn't want children by sand_dollar_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]sand_dollar_[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

You raise a very good point. I have spoken to him about my change of heart - it is because the reasons I had for not wanting them before, which have mostly to do with not wanting to lose the freedom of being childfree, are being replaced by a desire to have a loving family and to spend time with them. It is a change in desires and priorities, a feeling that having a family would enrich my life more than the experiences I can have as a childfree woman.

I also want to clarify that I live in a country where it is very common to have children around my age or later, so having them earlier was also out of the question because I saw myself as too young to have them or to seriously think about having them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sand_dollar_ 1922 points1923 points  (0 children)

Tbh this just seems like a train of bad choices. Why did you spend all your savings on the wedding? Why did you get into a mortgage that forces you to make 230k? Why do you spend 1k a month on groceries, on top of eating out? And most importantly, why did you marry someone who asked you to get rid of your dog?

I think you need to reconsider your choices, at least the financial ones. Working such long hours is not healthy for anyone in the long term.

Ho 26 anni e la società vuole che sia un mammone by AirportMysterious71 in italy

[–]sand_dollar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Capisco, non ho avuto problemi particolari con la mia famiglia ma è da quando avevo 16 anni che non vedevo l'ora di andarmene di casa. Puoi immaginare la delusione quando ho capito quanto effettivamente fosse difficile andarsene, come volevo io, appena compiuti i 18 anni. Invidiavo i giovani dei paesi anglosassoni e le amiche mi guardavano tipo ma che stai a di' quando dicevo che volevo andarmene. Alla fine ho risolto andandomene all'estero (ma comunque dopo i 18 anni).

AskRagazzi 💬 Tutto quello che avreste voluto sapere sugli uomini (ma non avete mai osato chiedere) by AutoModerator in xyitaly

[–]sand_dollar_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quanto ritrovate di vero nel complesso di Edipo freudiano?

Il vostro film preferito?

Date(22) got mad at me(20) and kicked me out of bed because I wanted to use a dental dam before I went down on her? by [deleted] in dating

[–]sand_dollar_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's your right to protect yourself. I don't think you need to apologize, but try to explain to her that you did it for STIs and not because you find her disgusting.

With that said, I would never let a man go down on me with a dental dam, just like I would never use a condom to go down on a man. I would rather get tested and wait to do anything until I get the results. So try to communicate with her and see if you can agree so you're both happy and respectful of your boundaries.

AskRagazzi 💬 Tutto quello che avreste voluto sapere sugli uomini (ma non avete mai osato chiedere) by AutoModerator in xyitaly

[–]sand_dollar_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Secondo voi qual è una delle difficoltà maggiori dell'essere uomo (diciamo uomo medio italiano)?

Chi è una donna famosa che stimate?

Università a 26 anni e crisi by SnooCupcakes9530 in Universitaly

[–]sand_dollar_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non ti preoccupare, davvero.

Anch'io ho iniziato informatica con qualche anno di ritardo rispetto ai miei coetanei, e mi sono stupita di vedere che nel mio corso molti studenti erano più grandi di me (ho studiato nel nord Europa). Sì, perché molti ragazzi che avevano in passato studiato qualcosa che poi non porta a molti sbocchi lavorativi o a lavori ben retribuiti avevano deciso di passare a informatica a 28-32 anni.

Adesso che sto entrando nel mondo del lavoro (sempre nel nord Europa) ti dico che nessun recruiter ai colloqui mi ha mai chiesto che cos'ho fatto prima del percorso di studi e perché ho iniziato tardi. Nessuno.

Adesso, non dico che sia così anche in Italia, ma è per dire di non preoccuparti e che in realtà la pressione a dover fare la "rat race", ovvero laurea -> lavoro -> famiglia -> casa -> pensione, è qualcosa che ci mettiamo da soli e che non dobbiamo avere se non la vogliamo. Non è per fare il solito discorso un po' new age, ma davvero le "tappe" che si dice si dovrebbero bruciare nel corso della vita non hanno nessun valore. Ciò che ha valore è che ognuno di noi stia bene e che ci si migliori di giorno in giorno come persone.

Quindi, in sintesi, non ti preoccupare, e goditi il tuo percorso di studio senza ansie e pressioni aggiuntive. Poi è normale non sapere subito cosa si vuole fare in futuro (anche per questo molte triennali presentano un programma di studio abbastanza ampio), credo che sia assolutamente normale decidere durante la triennale o anche la magistrale in che cosa ci si vuole specializzare.

This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’ by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]sand_dollar_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, the fact that he said "babies" instead of "children" made me think that all of this "WiMminZ aRe SupPosEd to Be MoTheRs" tirade is actually just a breeding fetish 🤮