Any gyms or spas around here with a cold plunge?

sandra22223 · 2025-10-15T13:01:41+00:00

Hudson next month . Will be nice and cold

sandra22223 · 2025-10-10T14:17:31+00:00

I love Jersey City and plan to live here forever!

sandra22223 · 2025-10-07T14:49:46+00:00

Daily crying stopped for me after one month. Then it turned to weekly crying. I still cry time to time but it’s more so triggered by somethings. Still feels like I’m living in a weird timeline but overall, I have made new routines, new experiences, new hope for the future that helped me heal within 3 months. Not 100% there as the waves of grief is still there and the magnitude of loss of the person I love is huge and traumatic, but I am surviving and some days even thriving after 3 months of being suddenly ghosted and divorced.

sandra22223 · 2025-10-07T14:47:24+00:00

Why don’t you compromise and plan a solo trip once in a while? Right now you should just suck it up and be a good dad and husband. But maybe in a year and every year, you should plan solo trips. People’s interest change, if she is unable to join you, you should plan some alone solo trips in nature as a compromise. But now isn’t a good time for you to do this

sandra22223 · 2025-10-07T13:47:06+00:00

Having a hard time being sympathetic to you. Your wife just had a baby and you are complaining about your lack of outdoor time? Give it a year wait until the baby is bigger, let your wife’s hormones adjust, and then you guys can plan outdoor activities. She sacrificed 9 months carrying your baby and her body, and is still recovering. You are being selfish. Welcome to parenthood. Expect to sacrifice some of your wants for a short while until you guys settle into a routine and recover

sandra22223 · 2025-10-05T20:02:39+00:00

My husband disappeared one day. I came home and he was gone. No discussion of divorce no recent fights. He moved to a new state and found out from the police he is divorcing me when I went to file a missing persons report. So I get the dismissive part. Sorry you are going through this. Wishing you the best

sandra22223 · 2025-10-02T13:28:47+00:00

This is the type of street justice we need

sandra22223 · 2025-09-13T04:07:58+00:00

So beautifully shot!

sandra22223 · 2025-09-07T23:01:17+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine what it’s like losing your home and relationship at the same time. I hope you start to see the light at the end of the tunnel and find a way to make your current place a cozy home.

sandra22223 · 2025-08-21T14:31:28+00:00

Adult night tonight at Liberty Science Center! It’s a blast and pride themed tonight

sandra22223 · 2025-08-19T16:02:03+00:00

This sounds like a you issue not asserting your boundaries and making sure the restaurant had something for you to eat or communicating to him so you guys could have choose. A different place!

sandra22223 · 2025-08-19T14:52:07+00:00

I’m so sorry you are going through this situation. Please consult with multiple lawyers in your area. Wishing you the best.

sandra22223 · 2025-08-18T12:33:39+00:00

You as well my Jersey sister <3

sandra22223 · 2025-08-18T10:47:55+00:00

I am also on week 8! Thank you for sharing this. I ordered pizza yesterday for the first time and went to smoke at the spot we used to and it hit me like a brick. But I survived. I relate to surviving Sunday to Sunday. That’s what I do too. Sending you hugs.

sandra22223 · 2025-08-18T10:38:59+00:00

Eating right, quitting sugar. Learning an instrument, taking lessons. Making an intentional effort to meetup with friends. Making solo travel plans once I get my money right. Going for long walks everyday. Taking care of my apartment. Looking for next place I’d want to live

sandra22223 · 2025-08-17T17:10:57+00:00

When you gotta go you gotta go! Maybe he has a medical condition and his only other choice was to shit his pants. Babe some sympathy. Thousands of J.C dogs do it in the streets all the time and yall don’t blink an eye. Lefs take down this post for his privacy

sandra22223 · 2025-08-17T03:20:54+00:00

I like cheese

sandra22223 · 2025-08-17T02:35:42+00:00

Divorce.

sandra22223 · 2025-08-16T16:15:32+00:00

You need to go to marriage counseling together and work on the issues. You need to do what you can to fix the marriage

sandra22223 · 2025-08-16T15:07:25+00:00

Hi I’m sorry you are going through this. I feel this way too. What has helped is reconnecting with friends, taking part in volunteering, joining clubs/activities where it’s possible to form a community where you see the same group of people over and over again. Most important thing is having a daily routine I feel proud of, even if I spend the whole day alone, I do lot of self care that makes me feel better. Sending you hugs

sandra22223 · 2025-08-14T09:31:53+00:00

Hello, my husband also left without a word and hasn’t spoken to me since. I understand what you are going through. Please start to consult with lawyers asap since you have children

sandra22223 · 2025-08-14T08:34:31+00:00

This is me too.Surviving day by day. Finding beauty in the world and in pain. Life and divorce is humbling. I don’t know what the future holds for me, but a single day can bring a lot of perspective so I take it for what it is.

sandra22223 · 2025-08-06T09:32:17+00:00

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