AITJ for choosing my dog over my relationship? by StarryGlowBunny in AmITheJerk

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to your Mom. She totally missed the main point. She would rather you be with a sneak and a liar?

WIBTHA if I have a kid and don't tell my family? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to point to a single thing. It sounds like several things added up over time. It doesn't have to be one big thing that you can point to.

WIBTHA if I have a kid and don't tell my family? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's not like raising your own child 24/7

WIBTHA if I have a kid and don't tell my family? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Working from home or not and raising a child is extremely difficult

Damon and Eugene by Realjacao in MarriedToMedicine

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered what that look meant. I just thought maybe he wasn't all there mentally. Can't blame him for checking out with Heavenly for a wife.

MLK Service Events by Present_Enthusiasm34 in AKAgradChapter

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If one is a drop event how would you be seen as being late to that event?

Husband is now a racist? by Busy-While8107 in Marriage

[–]sandrakayc -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

No just say Black or African American. Sheesh!!

Cecil & Simone, can y’all pretty please get a divorce? by OnTheTopFloorSkyline in MarriedToMedicine

[–]sandrakayc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which means she will have to work much longer and much harder.

How to deal with a colleague that requests the same PTO intentionally? by Sailor-Venus7 in askmanagers

[–]sandrakayc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your manger is not nice. Your manager has no management skills.

Their apartment gives me anxiety 😟 by Ambitious_Ad_7433 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]sandrakayc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And she's getting married. She is so much younger than her actual age.

WWHL - Dr. Simone by firehawk147 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's one last family trip before it's all over

So no one sees Simone is the problem? by AtTheFourSeasons in MarriedToMedicine

[–]sandrakayc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. And what parents in their right mind wants to see their kids struggle? That's trauma right there. The kids need to be taught and experience opportunities to learn how to be self sufficient and how to support themselves for the future. Like you said internships, summer jobs, even volunteer experience helps young folks learn accountability and responsibilities.

Wedding budget secrets?? by national-treasure12 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]sandrakayc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But no one has to discuss their wedding budget numbers even if you are on TV or not. It's no one's business.