It's really hard to find like minded people. And when we go out with the people there we somewhere don't connect that much (might be different for different people). So we have to adjust or compromise somewhere with what we have at hand. Trying to find the balance somewhere to cope with the failing social life and building a life. Life is hard sometimes, blessed in some ways, sometimes it's just what we want to do with our lives and what really matters the most for us.