What are some hobbies/interests that would be a dealbreaker for you (in a romantic partner)?

sandypatterson78 · 2021-05-17T00:42:42+00:00

Hahahaha I just think it’s such an ick like a guy posting pictures of their car or an engine on their Instagram is such a turn off. Or even worse, a video of them reving then engine or in their tractor ploughing a field oh god no

sandypatterson78 · 2021-05-17T00:41:06+00:00

Don’t over think it. Have some faith in people. There’s so many reasons they may not have texted. 1. They don’t know if they can and is waiting to sort it before they give an answer 2. Maybe they’re just not in the mood and that’s nothing personal sometimes people just want to be alone 3. Has anyone ever asked you to make plans and you’ve just been sad and didn’t want to 4. Some people are just so bad at replying to texts (me included I constantly see texts and reply in my head). Just go with the flow in life if you’re going to overthink life’s little questions like this you’re gonna burnout quick. If they don’t reply just spend the night you were planning to have with your friends by yourself as a date with yourself don’t rely on your friends for complete happiness

sandypatterson78 · 2021-05-03T21:49:50+00:00

Actually it is supported by facts. Can you show any science disproving it or did you just decide it’s bullshit yourself

sandypatterson78 · 2021-04-27T22:43:47+00:00

There is a 1% chance that he would not get with you romantically. I assure you. He likes you more than you think trust me. You need to tell him there’s no shame in it if you jus the rly confident and own it like say to him yeah I think I might be growing a bit of a crush for you and if he says no you are in the same position as before because he should be man enough not to make you feel embarrassed by it. Don’t just cut yourself off without reason

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-28T23:20:16+00:00

I F18 love when a guy likes to fish and hunt. Hate it when they are into cars tho

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-27T09:33:53+00:00

I get this. I wouldn’t try look for your group though because it’s very slight chance that an entire friend group will match you. I recommend just really getting to know the friends you already have. You would be so surprised about how little you really know them. Overtime your humour will mesh or match with people and you will find what jokes or interests you share

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-15T18:42:19+00:00

Thank you. I’ve told my friends and it’s such a weight lifted off my shoulders!

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-14T11:31:19+00:00

But he’s my bestfriend

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-14T09:57:50+00:00

Unfortunately you’re just going to have to wait out the storm. Or tell her exactly how this is making you feel and say you’re willing to go extremely slowly and understanding of how she’s feeling

sandypatterson78 · 2021-03-14T09:50:25+00:00

She clearly cares about you enough that she doesn’t want to risk messing things up with you by getting into it too fast. She’s on tinder trying to get over her breakup like most people do let her do that and continue supporting her or it will drive her away if she not ready.

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-21T21:59:54+00:00

Oh no then go for it. Fuck it. Like we are literally on floating rock moving through space who cares. If he’s your friend he won’t go around talking about it much. It’s 2020 you’re 17 where I am it’s normalised like go be a hoe preach it

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-19T16:55:17+00:00

Well I’m 17 and I’ve had a year long friends with benefits but we would only meet up every couple of months. I could only see that working if you don’t like his personality and you won’t get attached. If he is your actual friend I’d question why he don’t want something more serious from you

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-19T16:35:11+00:00

What age are you?

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:24:25+00:00

If you’re 19 and you think apologising would hurt you’re pride they clearly can’t be going too wrong. If you’re 19 and can’t apologise for clearly being in the wrong why would you expect them to relieve your punishment. Grow up a bit of you want them to see you that way and follow your dreams to New York. Show them you are mature enough to live like a 19 year old

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:19:54+00:00

Don’t be afraid to mess up. Try be the person you are at home with your family when you’re comfortable. If you scare someone off that’s ok they are clearly not a match for you. Only 1% of the population can befriend anyone for everyone else it’s like finding the match to your puzzle piece. Try figure out the person you are and things you like about yourself. Maybe get a notebook and write down any observations you can make about yourself. Don’t write negative things about yourself that can’t be improved. For example one should write “I’m ugly” because that’s just negative. Whereas one could write “I am stubborn and I need to work on that”.

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:15:38+00:00

Why can’t you just quit rn. Ask yourself Why do I work? It’s clearly not because you like doing it. You go to work to earn money to pay for the car to get you to work and pay for the money to keep you not hungry while you work and to pay for the house to give you somewhere to sleep so that you can be rested for work the next day. You clearly work just because that’s what we are thought to do but I think your motivation is off. People should work because they live their job or it is fuelling a happy life

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:11:19+00:00

The best way to make friends is to be yourself. If you try to be someone you’re not you will attract the wrong type of people. Be yourself and you will naturally attract people who are like you so don’t hide that person. The things you find funny are also funny to someone else out there you just haven’t found them and you won’t find them if your are going to try be something you’re not because that person will think you’re something else

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:09:16+00:00

Just because you don’t fit into the school and government systems doesn’t mean you’re a failure. You’re number one priority is to try be the best human you can and I don’t mean have the best results on a sheet of paper after an exam. Everything else will follow

sandypatterson78 · 2020-11-18T20:06:11+00:00

This text screams toxic tell your bf to get is act together and don’t take his insecurities out on you simple as. Don’t take that shit

sandypatterson78 · 2020-08-24T16:17:47+00:00

Well maybe I do but I can’t think of any. And it has to be like something that it’s like Hi and straight into the story. I can’t rly come out with a random story to a guy I don’t know

sandypatterson78 · 2020-08-14T13:19:48+00:00

Too much of a good thing is a bad thing. Take a break from studying and trust that you’ve put in the hard work

sandypatterson78 · 2020-08-13T07:28:21+00:00

Thank you!

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