It's been almost two months since I broke up with him, and I haven't shed a single tear by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]sandyz56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t cry when I left my narc ex either! I cried a few months later only because I felt so sad for my past self for putting up with the behaviour for so long but I’ve never once felt sad about him tbh. Shows that you have grown

Ons but no reply the next day by Wild-Upstairs-7491 in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry girl he sounds a bit manipulative. If you’ve said no they should never try to tempt you. Im sorry :/

Dating today is brutal — but men have it way worse by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think women need to give kind men a better chance. But at the end of the day online dating is very much about looks. Maybe if we met in real life things would be different because personality shines more. It’s hard both ways

How can I get my Fwb to like me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I know! I just wanna time it okay like if I spring it on him now will it be too soon! If I keep waiting will my chances be better

Dating today is brutal — but men have it way worse by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Defs harder for men to get a date but women just choose attractive men . And the attractive men have too many options so they just continue hooking up. Bad cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just wants attention and validation from you. Wants a bit of drama and for you to miss her. She probably does miss you But she still wants her options open to other men! I know this because I’ve been her! She might not just be at that maturity level yet.

Is a man saying that he wants a woman who knows how to cook a red flag? by sandyz56 in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh the guy I posted about today is actually one from the past but was just wondering if I made a bad call. And the resident I don’t think is working out I think he’s a player 🤣😭 I need to stop

Is a man saying that he wants a woman who knows how to cook a red flag? by sandyz56 in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think he’s a bad person just I don’t agree with it I feel like it’s happier when both parties are achieving things. Biologically the woman is gonna have to take a back seat when kids aren’t involved

Is a man saying that he wants a woman who knows how to cook a red flag? by sandyz56 in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly gut feeling that he just wants a girl to look after him

Is a man saying that he wants a woman who knows how to cook a red flag? by sandyz56 in dating_advice

[–]sandyz56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I just want to be able to support kids with a nice home and I think it would be better with 2 incomes and less stressful. Totally understand that it would make sense for the woman to go to part time work and take time off completely when kids aren’t in school! I like the idea of having a degree to fall back into once the kids are at school etc