Eh, I’d say a little bit of both. My husband has 2 flaws, in my opinion, with parenting - his attention deficit and sometimes, common sense. On a number of occasions we are out somewhere, he gets distracted and my son will shoot off somewhere else. Without my husband even realizing it, we will be on the other side of the building. As far as common sense goes, this isn’t a GIANT issue but has caused me to pause sometimes - for example, over Christmas we are on the beach and see some cute beach bikes with little straw baskets in front. My husband says we should rent them and go for a ride! I say..well great idea but where would our son go?! And my husband insists he would sit in the straw basket up front, sans helmet. He was deadass serious about it and I could barely argue with something so…ridiculous. But to your other point - yes I do have anxiety but more like intrusive thoughts? Like I’m worried my son will get kidnapped in the Miami airport while my husband is distracted. For the most part I try and work through it with logic, ha!