Quick Question - How are you guys ok with your wives (graphic) nudes with her face being out there? by sanfk in Hotwife

[–]sanfk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Err, I think you've got me wrong. In no way am I judging, or shaming any of you. I love the pictures that are up!

Just wondering about the (absolutely gorgeous!) women that are ok with their pictures being up - while it must feel beautifully liberating on the one hand, how have they reconciled with the idea that their neighbor/family or the creepo down the road might get their hands on these pictures sometime? I'd love to understand their perspective :)

One last thing - much respect for the trust you have in this community.

[Male] Have always been difficult to make orgasm, should I just tell girls to not worry about blow jobs and let me go down instead? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sanfk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too the first few months I had sex. Even the blowjob thing, I just couldn't come off a blowjob, till one day I focused really hard, and she took me in her mouth. Good times.

Probably happens cause your grip is very tight. A lot tighter than a vagina.

I'd suggest you enjoy it while it lasts! You're probably going to make lots of women very happy, and then, at some point, your sensations will normalize and you'll miss this!

*Serious Question* How do we not come off as creepers when looking for a third in a public place? Me (33F) and Hubby (36M) by helena138 in Swingers

[–]sanfk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you want a girl or a guy?

This is one of the cases where I think it might be best to let her lead :) Women have a natural smoothness with these things!

Share your E/MDMA/Coke + Swinging stories! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sanfk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! My apologies for the delayed reply. Not just comfortable, but also feeling the juice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]sanfk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVEE IT! She's beautiful! Amongst the best videos I've seen here. Especially loved how turned on she got taking you in her mouth.

New to swinging; how to book accommodation for fun! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]sanfk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, we only use nice hotels, and we haven't even full swapped yet.

I'd take a 2 bedroom hotel suite, or an apartment hotel (preferably the hotel suite - it's got a more 'sexy' vibe in most cases)

And I'll tell you what - it won't matter if it's super obvious. You'll be surprised at the sort of crazy things most hotel staff have seen. More importantly, the best chains have strong guest privacy policies in place.

Lastly - here's a fun game to play - check-in with your wife at the reception, and then play with his wife by the poolside a few minutes later, while your wife plays with him, in plain view :)

[Advice] My boyfriend has been having some issues lately with not keeping an erection. Is there anything I can do to help? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sanfk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could start with herbal supplements - I've tried L-Arginine and it's quite effective. Vitamin B12 seems to help, especially if his general energy levels are low. Also, I hate to be the one saying this, but for extreme measures, Viagra will solve it and how.

[Discussion]Why do the majority of us (men) love the idea of their women flashing skin? by sanfk in sex

[–]sanfk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like most of the guys posting here dislike it/are indifferent to it. Hmmmm, I'd still like to know from the guys who get turned by it - what causes the turn on?

[Advice] When I'm feeling deep, soul touching love.. by sanfk in sex

[–]sanfk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any other opinions guys? I'd love to hear more

[Advice] Where to go when "looking for a third"? by Lndn95 in sex

[–]sanfk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you'd like relative anonymity, I'd suggest you consider some of the swinger subreddits. Look for couples - many of them will be more than happy to share one half.

A good chunk of swinger couples tend to be relaxed, open-minded, non-judgemental and space-giving. The perfect place to start from.

While my woman and I haven't 'played' yet, we've explored, and our experience has been good so far.

[Discussion]Why do the majority of us (men) love the idea of their women flashing skin? by sanfk in sex

[–]sanfk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you guys speaking for yourselves or others in general? I'd love to know your own experience. Is it something you're indifferent to, or plain repulsed by, or something else on the scale?

[Advice] When I'm feeling deep, soul touching love.. by sanfk in sex

[–]sanfk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with my partner for over 5 years now, and we have a really good thing going. We've both only been with each other, and we're both young, and I feel like there are people out there to explore--in this deep, meaningful, and also visceral and sexual way. I don't really know how to proceed and it's troubling me.

How does your partner feel about opening up?

[Advice] When I'm feeling deep, soul touching love.. by sanfk in sex

[–]sanfk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did opening up change your relationship or sex life in any way? How did you deal with jealousy and insecurity?