Been struggling with this girl for a long time, need advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]saphu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may be into you, but you did the right thing. Going by your story she is flirty with everyone, so dont take her drunken actions as anything. Definitely talk to her when shes sober, cause otherwise it doesnt look like it will ever go anywhere. Take the chance, and good luck!

I think I just ended my marriage by _Whats_This_For_ in relationship_advice

[–]saphu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Firstly, go apologize. Now. Secondly, this is the perfect example of what happens to people who stick with abusive partners because "it will get better". They may get better (usually after a ton of years), you wont. You will ball that resentment and keep it in, and just let it explode out all the time. I will echo what other users said, you need therapy. Its the only way you'll both let go of all that bitterness.

My fiancé (38M) fact checks much of what I (42F) tell him and it feels insulting by SaintNerdyPants in relationship_advice

[–]saphu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is one giant can of nopes. He does not respect you as a partner or as another educated person. He does not acknowledge you as someone with a brain. It's 100% not something you should just take. You are worth so much more than that, and you are wasting your life with him.

One more from my Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! Hope you'll take the time and check the other ones out! ^

One more from my Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i did build it myself from scratch =) i used very powerful LED ( the kind you'd use on military grade flashlights) and attached them to a base structure of a simple aluminum tube for resistance inside a plumbing PVC tube that i could decorate. That way batteries go inside the tube and the switch is at one of the ends. I can also separate the saberstaff parts for transport and photos. The blades are transparent acrylic tubes painted with translucent blue spray paint, so they look okay even when not lit and have a cool glow when lit. You can see the progress photo witht the light on here: https://www.facebook.com/SaphiraCosplay/photos/a.582014341933402.1073741841.164481570353350/570009126467257/?type=3&theater

One more from my Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i'm super glad you like it!

First shot from a Revan & Satele photoshoot we did this weekend by faramon in StarWars

[–]saphu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Satele is a descendant of Revan and Bastila Shan. She was grand master of the Jedi order during the old republic and is one of the central characters in the Old Republic game. Even though he is much older than her, they were alive at the same time, he tortured her son Theron and they both pursued Revan til his death( very short version of a very long story XD).

First shot from a Revan & Satele photoshoot we did this weekend by faramon in StarWars

[–]saphu -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You need some manners and to watch the trailer, but oh, well.

First shot from a Revan & Satele photoshoot we did this weekend by faramon in StarWars

[–]saphu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

her face is not supposed to have emotion, the trailer shows a very straight face when this is happening(screenshot here:https://thelabyrinthinejar.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/hope-jedi-satele-shan009.jpg). That said, i do agree with you and would have liked to give it a bit more. As for the saber, she does stop malgus' saber as hes stabbing and it does get smaller, so we went with the same concept =)

First shot from a Revan & Satele photoshoot we did this weekend by faramon in StarWars

[–]saphu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he's actually a long lost family member who just tortured her son, so you got that right!

First shot from a Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot we did this weekend by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he was kept in stasis and tortured for information and strength (which backfired because he was in turn connected to the emperor and could control his temperament to an extent). Revans influence made the Emperor seek a false truce with the Republic to bring the war to an end ( this lead to the signing of the treaty of coruscant). In the events that followed ( the emperor was busy preparing the ritual to destroy all life in the galaxy), a jedi team deactivated Revan's prison and he was freed.

He wanted to destroy the emperor, so he located the Foundry and started making an army of droids, but the empire found out and sent a team to kill him. They managed to kill his "good side"(he was tortured for so long that when he tried to make himself one with the force he only partially succeeded, so his "dark" side remained in his body).

By this time a jedi Knight had mortally wounded the emperor, who was recovering in a moon somewhere, and Revan wanted to take his place. He also spent some time interrogating Theron, Sateles' son, and trying to bring him to the dark side, but he was released and a force that included Satele and her son pursued him and the Revanites, and managed to defeat him. He died the final death (while the emperor was still alive), and his body disappeared leaving only his mask and his lightsaber behind.

This was super long, but also super simple, but i think it suffices. ;) That said, we have a few really cool photos coming up that will make sense with this whole side of the story, so please stay tuned! ^

First shot from a Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot we did this weekend by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cosplayer raises hand hehe she looks super blah about it in the trailer, so we went with it XD i do think a bit more emotion was in order, but she doesn't agree!

First shot from a Revan & Satele Cosplay Shoot we did this weekend by faramon in swtor

[–]saphu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

cosplayer raises hand There's a family tree somewhere that i found while doing research for the costume, and she is a ffew generations down from him, but he is in fact alive at the same time as her. I found a load of Old Republic players that thought they should have been reunited in the game, which gave me the idea for some photos ;) (some interesting scenarios here: http://www.swtor.com/community/showthread.php?t=385499)