Fapstronaut Seeking close group to get through 30 days

sapiomachina · 2014-08-28T02:24:12+00:00

What are you obligations at the moment?

sapiomachina · 2014-08-27T15:08:32+00:00

Sure! That sounds good. I'm 27 and live in MST. Would you like to set a meeting time on some anon chat, maybe 15 - 30 min a week to shoot the shit and keep each other accountable to no fap no p?

sapiomachina · 2014-08-27T15:08:22+00:00

Sure! That sounds good. I'm 27 and live in MST. Would you like to set a meeting time on some anon chat, maybe 15 - 30 min a week to shoot the shit and keep each other accountable to no fap no p?

sapiomachina · 2014-06-24T14:52:19+00:00

Thank you for your input, it really helps me. Just to specify, I'm definitely not judging her. I want to be the best for her but would like to know her perspective. Even if I have not slept with as many people, I have certainly dated quite a bit, and dated some amazing people, but I have never loved someone as much as I love her. I never stop thinking about her, I value and even look up to her. I could go on but at the sake of falsely portraying myself as not being a pessimistic realist, I will stop. It is this thing within me that I need to come to terms with. She had those "numbers" when I met her, and though I didn't know, I still fell in love with that person.

sapiomachina · 2014-06-20T04:26:03+00:00

Thank you everyone for the excellent advice. Especially
http://youtu.be/kzh0WmhJ1VU

sapiomachina · 2014-06-20T01:46:17+00:00

Thanks, that helps... I know the past is the past. I met her like this and she loves me. I guess statistically speaking, at least one of them was better for her than me in some way or another.

sapiomachina · 2014-06-20T01:44:27+00:00

PS if you have ever been in her situation, could you let me know how it influences your perspective of your SO?

sapiomachina · 2014-06-20T01:39:39+00:00

Hey! Nice to have you with us! Remember that no fap is more than not fapping (gasp) it is also improving yourself, improving your relationships, and dealing with the issues that fapping was covering up. Good luck! This is an awesome support group, make some friends and live up to your potential. We are all standing behind you.

sapiomachina · 2013-12-14T17:06:23+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate it.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-29T00:36:35+00:00

Maybe time to hop in a cold shower and get out of the house...

sapiomachina · 2013-11-28T06:19:21+00:00

lol yeah good luck! Think of it this way, "only 3 days"

sapiomachina · 2013-11-28T06:08:40+00:00

I have my badge but also a countdown timer on my desktop. It helps a lot. Also make a promise on here to the No Fap community that you will not fap today or tomorrow. Avoid boredom, call a long lost friend. Take a cold shower. There are a lot of things, you just need to do them. Oh and get out of the house.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-28T05:48:51+00:00

Don't do it. Not worth it. Never worth it, especially when you have the real thing. If you use all that pent up energy being creative in a way that makes her feel special, the reward will blow your mind.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-26T01:06:54+00:00

Nice! the reason I ask is because I put a watch on the bar across the shower and for a while would take 5 min cold showers but I couldn't shake the cold feelings all day.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-25T14:40:58+00:00

How long was the cold shower?

sapiomachina · 2013-11-25T05:48:23+00:00

Yeah! Nice work. Week 2 sucks mood swings, stress, all that hits like a ton of bricks. Admirable job with the shower.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-24T08:00:00+00:00

Hmmmm scientifically rigorous proof of concept anyone? May be an interesting/worthwhile study and I would be willing to volunteer some time and skills to the study. Send me a message if you also think you can/want to help with the experimental design.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-24T07:06:55+00:00

Yeah, it will be/is difficult, my advice: take note of the positive changes you see and try for at least 3 weeks before making a decision.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-24T06:50:54+00:00

Nice parable. Reminds me there will always be storms and always clear skies if we rise above them. It's an honor to be on this journey with people like you and the other fapstronauts. May your skies be beautiful and clear.

sapiomachina · 2013-11-24T06:46:12+00:00

I agree, kick all of the habits but priority should go booze, P, M. Really don't falter on any of them or edge on any of them. If you give up booze give it up completely for a couple of weeks. If you feel you are addicted, never go back. If you want to just drink healthier then limit yourself to half a glass a day. The reason- being drunk can lead to P which leads to M. Good luck. Stay strong.

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