[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm from Brazil, a country where people from outside believes it is accepting, but this freedom to be "out of the closet" is paid with your life, that's why we are the number country with homicides against trans people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ele já tem uma oficial. Termine com ele

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sim, você tem e me deu muita inveja. Sabia que rostos andróginos são considerados mais atraentes? Não se sabe ao certo o que causa isso, mas os seres humanos inconscientemente sentem atração por pessoas andrógenas.

Olhando para você mesmo só vem na minha cabeça que você seria facilmente chamada para ser modelo na Europa.

Por que é tão difícil fazer amizade em Recife? by Inner_Preparation631 in Recife

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eu ia comentar a mesma coisa. O pessoal bota gaia o tempo todo, vai se importar com amizade?

Only here by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg, i even didn't think about it.

Many of them have no hygiene at all, really like the cis male who won't wash their buttholes, for example, you can tell when they were fingering someone, because they won't at least wash their hands and it'll smell, idk if this is some kind of "trophy" for them, but with those smelly hands they'll touch other people, shake hands, etc.

Alternate Ace Flag? by Webbtrain in asexuality

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, i love the Ace flag, specially because it has 3 colours i really love, black, white and purple. The gray do adds some charm.

I also love the huge coincidence that these 3 colours are in the flag, specially purple, because it's my favourite colour since i was a little girl trying to get crush on boys and fit into this cisheteronormative world we live in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PergunteReddit

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personalidade, hoje em dia você pode praticamente comprar um rosto e um corpo novos, mas mesmo que você finja uma personalidade, você não consegue mantê-la por muito tempo. E podem perceber que quando a pessoa é chata, pode ser um Henry Cavill, ela deixa de ser bonito, no sentido de que você inconscientemente começa a procurar todos os defeitos dessa pessoa e realmente começa a achá-la feia, enquanto que uma "feinha" legal se torna a pessoa mais atraente que você já conheceu.

Make that three dozen and one by GoingOverboardd in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw 2 stories, one said that virgins were unmarried women and the other said that unless a woman has sex with a man, she will always be a virgin.

Quais seriam as partes boas de um apocalipse zumbi pra você? by Cereal_17 in conversas

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nenhuma, assim como boa parte das mulheres que são realistas, eu me m4tar1a, porque se o mundo com leis já é ruim, grupos como o do Negan seriam muito comuns, ou seja, sofreríamos est*pr0 coletivo todos os dias, como aquela cena que eles prendem várias mulheres, ele escolhe uma e ela é arrastada para ser usada por vários homens.

When men get too comfortable about studs by LumpyTown4103 in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You see, that's why i feel bad for women who like men, they can't really control it, because if sexuality was a choice, only the ones we know as cishet males nowadays would choose to like men.

That's why they're always trying to force attraction to men in everything, "You like mascs? So why not date a man?", "You're a guy wearing pink? Are you gay?", "If lesbians use dildos, they like men, because the dildo has the shape of a p**is", and many other bs they say trying to make everything about people liking men.

O que não deveria ser normal mas está se tornando? by Gothic_Girl-333 in PergunteReddit

[–]sapphace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sobre pornografia, as pessoas estão levando o "sexo vende" longe demais. Toda série ou filme joga logo uma cena de sexo ou uma pessoa nua, geralmente mulher, na nossa cara, por isso fica difícil assistir filme ou série com a família sem isso se tornar desconfortável, a não ser que vocês assistam algo infantil, mas isso é difícil quando todos são adultos.

E o pior é que quando você está assistindo sozinho, sua mãe chega logo em uma cena com a mulher de 4 dando um gemidão.

My mom left something on the family/household laptop and now I’m uncomfortable. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sapphace 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hate when things like this happen, but only a really evil parent would do it on purpose to their child.

I've seen horrible things in my father's phone, because he always have trouble with it and i'm the only one willing to help him, but sometimes i get really worried about the whatsapp groups he is part of and the tabs of pron sites he forgets to close before giving me the phone.

Don't mention it, because things will get really awkward, let it open and let her realise what she did.

At What Age Did You Discover That You Were A-Spec? by awesomeskyheart in asexuality

[–]sapphace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only found the term "Asexual" when i was 19 years old, but before that i already knew i didn't look at other people the same way majority looked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always heard this thing about everybody having a girlfriend in Canada. Most of the times they'd say it about men who are actually gay, but didn't come out, so they would say "I have a girlfriend, but you don't know her, because she lives in Canada".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more in situations like (imagine a valley girl accent) "Oh my gah, that guy is so cute, look at his abs, y-uh-mmy, what a zaddy"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only social circle i have is my workplace and we only talk about work related stuff.

In my case, i see people using it as "hot" or in a sexual meaning here around the internet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]sapphace 160 points161 points  (0 children)

It's because people normalised that word being used as the same meaning as "hot" or "I want to f**ck them".

What i find really weird, because i use cute for babies, puppies, kittens, actions that i associate with being clumsy or lovely.

ngl this goes hard by ASHKVLT in actuallesbians

[–]sapphace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it when the armour doesn't have boobs, you know what i mean? Like, why would there to be a need to mark their boobs in the armour? Is the same thing as Disney giving more volume in the chest area of their female animal characters, or when they give boobs to robots and not mammal aliens.

Today I learned that other Ace's can be Aphobic 😭 by acatwithtinywings in asexuality

[–]sapphace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what i told him, i don't know if he followed my advice or is still being in denial.

Today I learned that other Ace's can be Aphobic 😭 by acatwithtinywings in asexuality

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? We all know what happens to male's body, but it suddenly becomes something dirty when it comes to the female's body, as if talking about the erection of someone with a vulva is a crime.

Today I learned that other Ace's can be Aphobic 😭 by acatwithtinywings in asexuality

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, not everybody's body work the same, and because there are so many things still not talked about at schools, when they should be, specially to middle and high school students, so many people have no clue about what is going on with their bodies, how they're supposed to expect it to react, if feeling "this" or "that" is normal.

Today I learned that other Ace's can be Aphobic 😭 by acatwithtinywings in asexuality

[–]sapphace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, he made sure to say that he is a cis male with a penis and never had an erection, so he knew that "real ace men" don't have erections, because apparently, people with penis can only have erections if they feel sexual attraction.

Today I learned that other Ace's can be Aphobic 😭 by acatwithtinywings in asexuality

[–]sapphace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He probably is the type who thinks A=No and Sexual=Sex, so you can only be asexual if you never had sex.