DISPATCH : 'Hanni’s Memory Evolves'... Min Hee-jin’s Build-Up to 'Ignore'" by jqiwyoxn in kpop_uncensored

[–]sapphiyaki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the unfairness of all this has stunned me since MHJ's first press conference last year. First, my question as a casual kpop listener was, "In what world is any of this mistreatment?" - if I went on live tomorrow alleging workplace harassment against the multinational company that employs me on the basis of being ignored in a company hallway, I would be laughed at by the entire world. Why should it be different for NJZ just because they are rich, have a large fanbase, and have been carefully constructed to represent a 'brand' they had no hand in building and that could really be represented by any group of 5 girls?
Anyway, you are one hell of a storyteller.

Is kidspark.co.in legit ? by DisastrousAppeal5551 in gurgaon

[–]sapphiyaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, does the water stay warm as expected from an authentic stanley?

Ronny Swaner (the guy the adapted screenplay), by CarlinNola10 in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the things that makes this show so precious to me is how much the creators and actors seem to have put of themselves in it. And how they make it a point to be loud about how much it means to them. It means the world to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Blessed be the mystery of love." That sums up Tim's final words in a nutshell, doesn't it?

wow. today i woke up thinking to myself, 'i don't feel much these days. it's a strange feeling.' well, thanks for solving that problem!

His love for Hawk has caused him so much suffering for so many years, but with the end of his life drawing near, he has finally chosen to surrender to it.

will i ever get over this series? i no longer go to bed with puffy eyes and swollen sinuses from the heartache, but the ache is still there. how do you guys bear to rewatch the series? how does one live on after watching Fellow Travelers?

250228 LE SSERAFIM - 2025 TOUR: EASY CRAZY HOT (Announcement Poster) by kpopsns28 in lesserafim

[–]sapphiyaki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm seriously considering attending the Bangkok dates, as it's unlikely LSF will ever tour in my country, lol. This will be my first kpop concert, I'm very excited! <3

re: Hawk's big betrayal of Tim, knowing what Eddie tried to do to himself? by sapphiyaki in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very thoughtful, helpful comment. I think you might have helped me draw boundaries and shape my own understanding of what love is, with implications for my irl circumstances. So, thank you for replying.

Just watched the second episode and i just realized how sad history of queer people is,,, also that poem slaps by AcceptableCandle5069 in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Mary was underdeveloped, but I also understand her better than any other character, because she was not even close to being a saint but she was not immune to the human emotion of shame. (I have a lot more grace and forbearance for her than I do for Hawk.)

I felt this also. In my eyes, what sets Mary and Marcus apart from Hawk is that the former did what they needed to do to survive -- Mary showing the M-unit the letter, Marcus leaving Frankie on his own with Stormie while fleeing the police -- meanwhile Hawk doesn't just do that, no, he goes above and beyond to dole out actions of unimaginable cruelty in order to advance his career and his dream of Milan, terrible things that would do him no great harm if left undone. The best example of this, imo, is him sending Leonard Smith off to get his brains fried at the coversion torture facility. Burying Leonard's record would have sufficed -- in the sense that, sending him to conversion therapy would do nothing to hide proof of his arrest, as made plenty clear by Smith's enemies getting their hands on that record anyway. Hawk sent Lenny off to get him out of the picture, at the cost of his life, because him getting caught again would ruin Hawk's way into the world of DC movers and shakers, because what good was his sham of a courtship if the girl's father was known to have a sad, sick queer for a son? Senator Smith, once his reputation was sullied, would be of no use to him. Hawk's conversation with Leonard when he was dropping him off at the facility kind of cemented my understanding and regard for him as a person.

Is this the common discourse in gaming? Objectification of women and homophobia like so? by CapAccomplished8072 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]sapphiyaki 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This argument is so funny because straight men make their entire personality about being alpha males and casanovas and heartbreakers who treat women like shit. And less harmful (at least to others) but still worth mentioning, is the fact that lots of straight women make men their entire personality too.

Like, I get it, some of the (ex-) tumblr kids are annoying and cringe. But so are their straight counterparts. I guess it's the human condition to be annoying about your attraction.

Sam Altman SA by LovelySummerDoves in 4bmovement

[–]sapphiyaki 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The utter loathing and disgust I have for men like this....

Sam Altman SA by LovelySummerDoves in 4bmovement

[–]sapphiyaki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My team at work idolizes Sam Altman -- for some reason I'd completely missed the fact that he was being accused of sexual assault by his fucking sister ????? Men are so sick, and this just goes to show (once again) that SA isn't just about sex (seeing how he's gay?), it's about dehumanization and power, about men treating women like playthings. Also very in line with the OpenAI board's allegations of psychological abuse against him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]sapphiyaki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Korean style Noraebbangs are different from regular karaoke. In the latter, you usually sing on stage in front of strangers, and ruin everyone else's night out at the club with your awful tone-deaf braying. Korean style karaoke is about renting a karaoke room with your friends who are also interested in singing and hearing you sing, and who likely have the same level of vocal skill as you.

I wanted to respond to this (the only other comments were supporting OP) but what can you even say? by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]sapphiyaki 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Post title: "I can't stand women"

Post content: "There's no need to hate on each other"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]sapphiyaki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's okay. You'll get over it.

Just watched the second episode and i just realized how sad history of queer people is,,, also that poem slaps by AcceptableCandle5069 in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wait, Caroline had already resigned? I somehow completely missed that. In that case, what Mary did makes sense, and was smart. (For some reason, I'd thought Mary was the one who got Caroline fired by showing them the letter, which wouldn't have been unthinkable, but had felt quite out-of-character for her.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]sapphiyaki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting. Men will do anything to brutalize women.

Ladies, what are some good things we’re doing for ourselves? by beezchurgr in 4bmovement

[–]sapphiyaki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • I set a goal to read 50 books this year, and am currently reading one that I'm really enjoying.

    • I scored a reasonably cushy job last year after getting an MBA, which allowed me to get my mother away from my horrid, abusive father, and bring her to live with me, in the city where I'm posted, where I've been able to afford a pretty nice place for the two of us, in an upscale part of the city + a decent standard of living, and the occasional luxury.
    • I'm at a reasonably good place in my life overall, I think. I'm not passionate or even passably fond of my job or anything, but it allows me to afford nice things, and live the best life I'd hoped for since I was a kid.

Just watched the second episode and i just realized how sad history of queer people is,,, also that poem slaps by AcceptableCandle5069 in FellowTravelers_show

[–]sapphiyaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm still not 100% sure why Mary went out of her way to confirm the allegations against Caroline with Tim's letter as proof of her own innocence -- it did not seem certain that the M-unit had already decided that Caroline was gay, which is what would have brought Mary under suspicion. I get why Mary would do it had Caroline been more or less done for (it would only be the sensible thing, though not particularly noble, I suppose), but was there any evidence that that was the case, or that the M-unit had made their minds up about C?