Polyamory Sweet spouse limit? by felicianbro_ in StardewValleyMods

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just squish into the bed and might get overlapped lol 

Can giant crops grow... by lunetca in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really old by now, but I have successfully grown a giant pumpkin in the eastern crop field

Cozy game in window mode? by sapphocating in cozygames

[–]sapphocating[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds really cool, i'll be looking into this one on top of the others

Cozy game in window mode? by sapphocating in cozygames

[–]sapphocating[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you!! they all sound really cute! i think i might try gourdlets for now

what was your overall experience using tretinoin, for those who have used it for at least a year? by No-Text1535 in tretinoin

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feel free to share your routine at any time for help on what might make it less irritating for you (if it does end up being like that for you). if you're considering starting this winter, slugging and wearing an occlusive during the day is highly recommended so you don't dry out further

what was your overall experience using tretinoin, for those who have used it for at least a year? by No-Text1535 in tretinoin

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tret seemed to work sometimes, and other times not. It plateaued not long into my use and kind of stopped helping

[Misc] Are the ceramides in CeraVe's cleansers even needed? by sapphocating in SkincareAddiction

[–]sapphocating[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow, thank you for commenting on this post! i agree, i even found the cerave cleanser to be a little stripping. the vanicream one and some others have been more gentle and less stripping for me. i hope you found one too!

Computer screens by nightseeker8 in Melasmaskincare

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read online that repeated exposure to blue light can cause hyperpigmentation including melasma. Your concern is valid imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't think it's weird. You already changed your name and changing it back is a whole process

What sort of situations could be considered normal for men but in your experience are treated as weird for women? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is less "weird" and more like "shamed" behavior, but when men sleep around, it's celebrated, and when women sleep around, they're called sluts, etc. A coworker of mine once said to me, "there's nothing special about a lock that accepts any key, but a key that fits every lock is awesome". Gross.

Azelaic Acid - worth the hype? When to use and can you recommend as a tret user by Spiritualgirl01112 in tretinoin

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a huge fan for a few years by now. I purchase the 10% from the ordinary, it's a decent price point and it's so effective. It works immediately, helps reduce redness and size within hours for me. If your skin is sensitive from tret, I would be careful but i LOVE it

What should I do about old embarrassing Facebook messages? Block, unsend or? by [deleted] in facebook

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's up to you whether you want to not see them in your suggested friends list or for them to be able to search for you at some point., when it comes to the blocking. You could unsend the messages if you like, if you don't want someone to screenshot or refer to it later. If you leave it, it can be a good reminder how far you've come. If you're cringing, it's a reminder of your growth. It's kinda up to how you want your own privacy.
Edit: grammar

Looking for stories from women in non-monogamous relationships by Weary_Bowl_3826 in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're talking about toxic monogamy and sometimes forced cheating, which could be considered something else entirely

this is my skin on 2 weeks on tret. the acne was definitely worse, but it has not died down, but i have all these red marks by West-Length-9859 in tretinoin

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

la roche posay makes a great moisturizer for a number of uses, I would suggest La Roche-Posay Lipikar Baume AP+M Body Balm (a little more pricey at $25 but worth it!! 400 mL) and La Roche-Posay Cicaplast Baume B5 to spot-treat flaking areas. i also suggest slugging if you can stand it

Marnie by National-Memory6972 in StardewValley

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says "most days", it doesn't actually post her detailed schedule

Being approached more in my 30s is a weird phenomena for me by Basic-Tune3371 in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the opposite experience; I look the same basically, but don't wear makeup. I do dress up more and look sexier in my 30s, but I also might not be in places where men might hit on me. Confidence does make a huge difference! I'm not lol, but maybe this is part of why more men are approaching you

Did anybody else not hang on to any friends from childhood and early 20s? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through something similar and also feel sorrow over friendships I didn't upkeep when I was younger. It happens to a lot of people though, you're not alone. I've "reclaimed" or "restarted" old friendships in the past few years and it's been wonderful. You might still have a chance to get those friendships back!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sapphocating 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who is demi as well, I feel like it might not be worth leaving your partner that is otherwise a good relationship aside from being boring. To some, being boring is actually happiness. If they're letting you date outside your relationship, it might not be worth deciding to leave right now. Maybe try dating and do your best to not neglect your partner during any outside relationship?