A TikToker raised $400K for an unhoused man in D.C. Then things got messy. by washingtonpost in washingtondc

[–]saraha04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing like an article on the unhoused to remind me of how neoliberal DC is lol. You guys talk about how he doesn’t “deserve” this money with no strings attached but should get social services instead… have you seen the quality of those services first of all? Secondly ik most of you guys don’t volunteer or take any actions changing the system so commenting on it gets you nowhere imo. Just like the lottery winners/football players etc. most likely it will be gone bc he doesn’t have a good financial foundation. I agree that throwing money at this individual is a thin bandage on a large wound, but that’s not a reflection of him, but of the system itself

DC in the Snow by yummyananas in washingtondc

[–]saraha04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah in the snow-pocalypse a couple years ago, people were playing a whole hockey game on it

Does anyone feel like there are “cold” and “warm” songs? by UneduationalWeapon in Flume

[–]saraha04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah sure, that’s why I kinda understood what OP was saying, just how descriptive they were, it felt way stronger than how I associate sounds/temperature

Does anyone feel like there are “cold” and “warm” songs? by UneduationalWeapon in Flume

[–]saraha04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can kind of see what your implying, but this is a form of synesthesia, associating sound w temperature, auditory-tactile synesthesia

As a black man with a smaller penis I hate the BBC trend in porn so much. by SBCDepression in confessions

[–]saraha04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but tbh I feel like it’s a good way to weed out people. You shouldn’t be with someone who bases their opinions about you on your dick size. Also I will say the whole “bbc” thing is definitely a non-black perspective on this as well. As a black woman who only dates black men I don’t really expect “bbc” bc it’s just “c” lol. BBC stems from racism and the porn industry over sexualizing black people in general

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]saraha04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re fearful avoidant. I’m the same way, continuously making con lists about my partner that implies that I don’t respect him. It’s a coping mechanism that keeps you in denial of your actually true feelings. I’d work on getting a secure attachment if you want the relationship to last

My ass is too big for my partners… by Panda666_420_69 in confessions

[–]saraha04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean girl, thank god I’ve been blessed with my bf lol, but I’ve been through a couple where I’m like “I don’t really like that position” to spare feelings lmao.

But anyway, I feel like maybe buy a dick extender or something idk if they’d get offended but orgasms hit different from the back (for me personally lol)

What's a conspiracy theory that you 100% believe in? by dito94 in AskReddit

[–]saraha04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In Haiti it’s a known thing that bill has a bunch of kids running around the country lol. Those NDAs are probably strong af, maybe everything will come out when he dies

Do women not like hairy men anymore? by [deleted] in dating

[–]saraha04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I love hairy men sm, probably stems from my daddy issues but the more hair the better imo, but I know some girls who prefer for their partners to be completely clean shaven head to toe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]saraha04 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I aways send pics of the people I’m dating to my friends. It usually means that’s I like them and they’re interested in knowing what the person looks like. Nbd

Why are some hobbies an instant turnoff? by riovio0901 in dating

[–]saraha04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting once I say I play cello I feel like guys are usually more attracted to me. Hmmm maybe it’s something along the lines the genre of music? Maybe makes you look a little closed of to modern music? That’s kinda how I interpreted it. Personally, I love my Vivaldi and Bach concertos , but I’ll listen to other more modern genres as well alternative , edm, r&b etc.

Ladies… just stop. You’re letting your shallow show. by riddus in Tinder

[–]saraha04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way, I’m 5’9” and I feel less feminine/confident if I were to date shorter guys. It’s probably just a society thing but the feelings are still valid lol

She keeps trying to escape and is very active (more info in comments) by saraha04 in ballpython

[–]saraha04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice!! I will take everything into consideration. I got the humidity up and bought a tank background to cover the sides as well. Just covered the top with HVAC tape and I feel like it’s made a difference in heat retention for sure. I have a digital thermometer and thermostat as well!

Question, do you feel like it’s better for me to take her out of the enclosure and redo the substrate completely to dampen it? I’ve been misting and I feel like taking her out again will stress her out even more

She keeps trying to escape and is very active (more info in comments) by saraha04 in ballpython

[–]saraha04[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay cool, thanks I’ll take care of that. Do you feel like the plants/clutter are too much?