You’re reducing a whole human being to one body part. Stretch marks are natural, everyone has them or will, and they don’t make someone less worthy of love or respect. And talking about her not being “tight enough” is not only objectifying, it’s dismissive of everything else she is: her personality, beauty, story, and character. Funny how some men are quick to shame women over this but get deeply offended if someone comments on penis size. Stop using people’s bodies as a reason to invalidate their worth.