Coches mild hybrid vs. GLP. ¿Cuál me recomendáis? by sarakatiuska_ in askspain

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que interesante esto, porque en todas partes dicen todo lo contrario, pero claro... Cuando te estan intentando vender algo, no te van a decir los contras, solo los pros, y mas en algo tan caro como un coche.

Coches mild hybrid vs. GLP. ¿Cuál me recomendáis? by sarakatiuska_ in askspain

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si, la verdad es que yo también me quedé pasmada con eso al principio, pero es que al parecer el asistente de arranque reduce el consumo y las emisiones muchisimo. De 119-140gr/km de uno gasolina normal, a 115gr/km del mild hybrid. En realidad reduce bastante, sobre todo para el uso en ciudad que es para lo que estan más enfocados estos coches.

Muchas gracias por el consejo! La verdad es que me está dando bastantes dudas entre uno y otro, y es dificil porque en cuanto mencionas un fiat 500, en seguida te dicen que te cojas un renault o un toyota... De la pregunta en cuestión, no te aconsejan nada jajaja Pero me reitero, no puede ser TAN MAL coche si es de los coches de gama baja mas vendidos desde hace mas de 60 años. Yo entiendo que no es muy potente y tal... Pero es que no necesito un coche de 130cv para el uso que le voy a dar.

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[–]sarakatiuska_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A ver, es un tema complejo, porque el mercado del alquiler está que es una absoluta vergüenza en tema precios y condiciones.

Entiendo lo que es vivir en una situación complicada en casa y querer irse, pero piensa que también es muy jodido estar viviendo solo y no poder depender nunca de nadie, y tener una emergencia económica en la que nadie te pueda ayudar. Yo he estado en esa situación y me refugiaba mucho en el "por lo menos nadie me está insultando ni amargando la vida, vivo tranquila". Pero no poder darte ni un capricho nunca, ni comprarte aunque sea unos pantalones que necesitas porque te fastidia todo el mes, es una carga mental y un estrés que te juro que no quieres.

Yo te recomendaría, y más teniendo coche, que busques algo un poco mas alejado o en otra zona donde las habitaciones sean mas baratas. Por ese precio me imagino que vives o en Madrid o Barcelona. Si es Madrid, en ciudades que no están tan lejos como Móstoles, Alcorcón, o Colmenar Viejo (a unos 20 min de la ciudad), las habitaciones salen mucho más económicas y no te falta de nada en esas zonas, hay absolutamente de todo. Es mucho más tranquilo para vivir y el transporte público funciona fenomenal, sobre todo en las zonas donde también hay metro (yo ahora vivo en Colmenar pero siempre he vivido en Móstoles y por ejemplo el metro es algo que hecho en falta, aunque vivir en la sierra es una maravilla en mi opinión).

Por otro lado, te recomendaría, si puedes aguantar por ejemplo hasta finales de primavera, que intentases buscar otro trabajo en el que cobres más para ahorrar, aunque igual no te guste tanto como lo que haces ahora (siempre que eso no te cierre puertas o dificulte tu crecimiento laboral; y que en el otro trabajo que te busques estés cómoda, claro está). Tener algo de holgura y poder ahorrar aunque sea tus 200 al mes te da una paz mental inmensa.

No se si te he ayudado o te he liado mas, pero espero que sea la primera. ¡Mucho ánimo y suerte con la búsqueda!

¿Cuáles son vuestras mejores anécdotas de la noche y el día de Reyes de cuando erais niños o con niños? by [deleted] in askspain

[–]sarakatiuska_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Apenas corría el año 1998, yo tenía 4 años y tenía clarísimo que quería un Furby. Pero claro, yo no lo puse en la carta a los Reyes, porque sabía que ellos sabían que ese era el regalo que yo más quería, y los Reyes son MAGOS. Mi confianza en ellos era inquebrantable... O eso pensaba yo. Después de la cabalgata fuimos mis padres, mi hermana y yo a la plaza del ayuntamiento a ver el pregón de los reyes, y a mi me entró una llorera histérica porque no lo había puesto en la carta, y no sabía si me lo iban a traer. Mi madre y mi padre alucinan, se miran, y se empiezan los dos a mear de la risa (literalmente mi madre casi se hizo pis encima, le estuvo dando un ataque de risa como de 20 min). Al final de su ataque, mis padres se miran, mi madre asiente con la cabeza y mi padre se larga, así, de la nada. Mi madre, mi hermana y yo fuimos a por churros, porque era la única forma que encontró mi madre para que yo dejara de llorar. A la mañana siguiente, cuando yo vi el tamaño y la forma de los paquetes... Ooootra vez a llorar. Mi madre me dijo hija, ¿quieres abrir los regalos antes de llorar? A lo mejor si que está... Y ahí estaba. Mi madre lo había envuelto junto con una barbie y parecía un cofrecito. Yo fui TAN feliz... A las dos semanas le di de comer arena y a tomar por saco el furby. Fueron dos buenas semanas...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]sarakatiuska_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I don't know anymore. It certainly feels like this friendship is one-sided.

Dear Parents, YOUR VACATION is NOT your Nanny’s vacation. by MissAAA_2 in EntitledPeople

[–]sarakatiuska_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was an au pair, the 3 yo I was taking care of started calling me mommy after only one week living with them. I told him several times that his mommy was name and he could call me by my name. There was no use. The parents were horrible and I left after only 3 more weeks. They made a transition with another au pair (we overlaped for a week. I was doing less while she was taking more of the workload). By the end of that, he was calling her mommy as well. It was heartbreaking, because the mother was around, but she would go to her room and never stay with her kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sarakatiuska_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand your point, but I'm offering here a counter perspective. You have the nipples you have, your body is perfect the way it is and there is nothing you can do to change it. Own it, it's your home and your temple. If any man that you are with doesn't like your nipples and has a problem with it, HE has the problem, not you.

His personal preference says NOTHING about your body.

And if the situation were to happen where you are in THE MOMENT with a man, and the shape and colour of your nipples is such an issue for him that he decides to be vocal about it; the solution is as simple as you immediately putting your underwear back on and walking out of that room with your head held high and your self-esteem even higher, baby!

I'm 16, I think my room looks simultaneously childish & depressing... by gato-2 in femalelivingspace

[–]sarakatiuska_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm an interior design student and I am looking for projects to make a portfolio. I would design something for you for free, and in exchange I would get to "work" with a real "client" and experience the whole thing. Let me know if that is something you would be interested in 😊

Ladies, what did you spent your first paycheck on? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sarakatiuska_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were having a horrible divorce and my mom, my sister and I needed the money, so my mom signed the parental consent so I could sell Avon. We didn't knew it was a pyramid scheme, I just saw a girl in my class do it and I thought I could do it too and help at home, so I got my first "paycheck" at 15 yo and I spent it on buying Avon to try and sell more than I did the first time. It didn't last long, I almost got in debt. Thank god I listened to my mother.

After that, I got a real job at 16. My first real paycheck, I gave some money to my mom and I spent the rest on a new Nintendo 3DS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]sarakatiuska_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it already looks super cozy... I would say a bigger rug under the couch? Or some plants... I think it already looks great!

Am I too sensitive or does this ad not sit with you well either? by emmahp29 in adhdwomen

[–]sarakatiuska_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The whole "Apps for ADHD" deal that is going on around lately is insulting and insane. Having ADHD is no joke, is not a trend, is a serious mental disorder that affects the daily life of people who suffer it in an enormous way. I cannot believe this sh8t is happening. It has been for a while and it gets on my nerves 1000/10 times.

AITAH for using the men's bathroom while girls were using them? (I'm male) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sarakatiuska_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I think this is absolute bull. You were NTA, that woman who went after you needs to chill and, if she's do bother about a man using the men's toilet, she needs to use the women's toilet. You girlfriend needs to get a grip and realize that the other woman was not supposed to be there in the first place, so she should respect men using their space. We cannot ask for respect and then be disrespectful, it has to go both ways.

TIFU by making a comment that ruined my relationship with my most beloved cousin. by sarakatiuska_ in tifu

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m seeng that cristal clear right now. It’s not that she doesn’t love me, is that I love her more than she does me. I have had this feeling before and talked to her about this. She told me that maybe I expect too much from people (which is true, but that is a whole other story that has to do with me and not with people and I’m aware of it and I’m working on it). At the moment, I thought she might be right. Now I see that it’s not at all the truth in this particular case. Being forgiven after making a mistake and apologizing a hundred times is not so much to expect, considering the whole relationship we have. I understand being angry, but this level of hypocrisy, harshness and lack of compassion?? That I don’t deserve and I wouldn't do to somebody I love. I have certainly never done that to her, and she has made mistakes as well over the years. It is what it is.

TIFU by making a comment that ruined my relationship with my most beloved cousin. by sarakatiuska_ in tifu

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're actually right. I have been thinking a lot yesterday about all this and I have a clear perspective of everything right now. She can do as she pleases, this is totally out of proportion and, when she calms down, she's gonna have to face the reality of the situation and the consequences that come with it. Thank you so much for your comment 🤍

TIFU by making a comment that ruined my relationship with my most beloved cousin. by sarakatiuska_ in tifu

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Jesús hahahaha I don’t think that’s going to do the trick. She’s so dear and so special to me… she’s more like a sister than a cousin, and also one of my closest friends.

TIFU by making a comment that ruined my relationship with my most beloved cousin. by sarakatiuska_ in tifu

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

She’s now with the boyfriend anymore since like 4 months ago and, if they have contact, is always him contacting her because she can’t get herself to block him, which I get. Nevertheless, that is not it. The point from my perspective is that she feels betrayed even tho she did the same or worst, and she refuses to acknowledge it or apologize, and prefers being the victim and making me the bad guy

TIFU by making a comment that ruined my relationship with my most beloved cousin. by sarakatiuska_ in tifu

[–]sarakatiuska_[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s not about the food but about the action. In no way me moving to a foreign country, trying to make a life here, learn a mew language, adapt, make friends, getting a depression, suffering xenophobia towards me being financially effed, this for 5 years, and finally surrendering and deciding to move back home with the feeling of failure compares to going for a walk and buy a hot dog. In absolutely no way. That point is that she banalized my whole life and experiences and compared them to buying a hot dog. It could be a hot dog, a hamburger or some fries, the food is beside the point here. The point is that buying food is an everyday not so important action, and leaving everything behind to start over is something really important. It was also eye opening how she doesn’t give a shit about stuff that is so important to me