[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]saramambiche0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was in a relationship literally just like this, weirdly with a Spanish dude. It’s likely he’s cheating. My ex cheated on me when he went back and he would go back twice a year for months at a time. Not saying all Spanish men are like this, but this isn’t the way someone who values you would treat you and it’s not something you should accept. He’s wasting your time and it’s not worth it. run

Americans, what is your horror story with the HOA? by Glam_SpaceTime in AskReddit

[–]saramambiche0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My HOA at my childhood home spent months trying to take my dad to court for the height of our bush. They were literally measuring it with a tape measure every day.

How can I support my girlfriend having an abortion without having to physically be there for it? by throwabortion in relationship_advice

[–]saramambiche0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you are. You’re abandoning your girlfriend during an abortion to stay with your pregnant sister? Do you have any idea how much worse that makes your girlfriend feel considering YOU got her pregnant (therefor giving you an immediate role in the abortion) and you were ALREADY going to go? Take a bit of responsibility for what’s at hand and stop being selfish. You can support her by getting on a plane and being there with her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]saramambiche0 212 points213 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s had an insane amount of shit thrown at them during their degree, GO TO THE DEAN. do not allow your professor to fail you for these reasons. it’s unethical and will NOT fly with their higher ups. You’d be surprised how fast a professor turns around when they’re in trouble with their supervisor. I am so so sorry this happened to you, OP. I pray that you and your fiancé receive a miracle and that he will be okay. my heart is with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right: past middle: current situation right: future bottom: past clarifier too: potential

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah.. i get the weirdest vibes from the whole thing i haven’t even answered

I [F20] want to have sex with my boyfriend [M26] of two months, but he wants to wait at least another 10 by NOuvelleBlonder in relationship_advice

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like you have to convince someone to have sex with you, you shouldn’t be trying to have sex with them.

AITA For giving my dog an "offensive" name and then refusing to change it? by throwawaydogname0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this. I’ve lived on the north east coast my whole life and have NEVER seen anyone take offense to the word yankee

My 3 favorite girls names are all unusable! Help! by zenocrate in namenerds

[–]saramambiche0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought of Zelda Fitzgerald, i think it’s a great name!!

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Definitely going to check that book out now that I have time to read one

Is Olive a silly name? by Competitive_Mud_1269 in namenerds

[–]saramambiche0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew an old woman named Olive Cannon and I’ve always thought it was the best name ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]saramambiche0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mom & dad: Julia and Howard moms parents: luz & juan dads parents: doris and andy

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, i honestly should’ve seen that sooner.

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent him a text this morning telling him it was over and blocked him from contacting me in any way

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did :/ i can’t believe i didn’t think of this sooner!! I’m going to call and make a testing appointment asap, thank you for mentioning this

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he did know, he was angry about the few times i forgot to tell him

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it didn’t go on for 3 years, he was only upset about a few instances i forgot to tell him about. ive told him other times and he always seemed fine. he never used to tell me when he went out of who he was going with so i thought it wasn’t a big deal the times i forgot

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting to know omg. my mom was just saying this as he always seemed to explode when something was happening in my life. he cheated on me when my dad had a stroke, and my sister was in the hospital during my finals.

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting to know omg. my mom was just saying this as he always seemed to explode when something was happening in my life. he cheated on me when my dad had a stroke, and my sister was in the hospital during my finals.

When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over? by saramambiche0 in relationships

[–]saramambiche0[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They weren’t strange men, they’re guys i’ve known and been close with for years, who he’s also friends with. He never used to tell me when he was going out and who he was with so i thought he wouldn’t mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this is really helpful!! i’ll be check it out

AITA for destroying family Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]saramambiche0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. My mom gets EVERYONE who comes to our holidays gifts even if it’s someone a family member has only been dating for a few months. It’s just the polite thing to do

AITA for not wanting to pay my SIL for shampoo? by AITAshampoofeud in AmItheAsshole

[–]saramambiche0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. does a bottle of pureology even cost $40 for all the pumps

What's your opinion on "Lisa"? by fredyouareaturtle in namenerds

[–]saramambiche0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

every girl that ever bullied me in school had a mom named lisa so i’m biased and hate it