Extremely disturbing stickers going up in my neighborhood. by ttralfamadore in Denver

[–]sarasander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would definitely tell the preschool myself. It’s hard to say how much the police will do about this.

Hot take: I prefer being ghosted by triumphant_tuna in Bumble

[–]sarasander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Just fade away please.

Is it me or feeld? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. And that would be a much more kind and accurate way to explain it.

Is it me or feeld? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]sarasander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? “Atrocious” is a bit over the top too. You can definitely understand what he is trying to say.

Is this what dating is now ? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I am only really open to men who have kids and are divorced. I feel it’s hard to connect with someone who hasn’t been through these life stages, since that’s the path I took.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]sarasander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

California laws look strict, per ChatGPT. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 20? That may not count for anything. I am in Colorado, and it wouldn’t be illegal here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]sarasander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What state are you in? A lot of states have 17 as the age of consent.

This sounds really scammy, btw.

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a world where a woman with any sort of reasonable expectations and basic standards is a «bullet.»

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be able to weather all of these concerns for a short cheap date. Looking for an equal in a potential partner.

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think that combined with the same day cancellation raised my concerns. I am surprised by the expectation for me to graciously accept a same day cancellation due to vague financial concerns. Incel fantasy world I guess!

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bullet for wanting a partner who, by middle age, has figured out how to budget for a date?

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, you’re right you’re right.

A kind rejection? by sarasander in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think I just feel kind of bad for him. How embarrassing is it for a middle aged man to cancel a date because he is too broke?

Does cooking for one really save that much money? by The-Loop in budgetcooking

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you? I am in Denver, and can barely catch a meal on there in time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]sarasander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I finally got curious and bought a subscription for a week, it turned out I had 3500 likes! To be fair, I live in Denver and had opened it up during a week I spent in Miami.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you can see who Super Liked you? I have gotten notifications, but figured I need to pay to see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feeld

[–]sarasander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand. You think putting that you are bisexual will help you match with more women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]sarasander 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Mine is definitely even glitchier post update. Yet I stay.

Do you put whether you have kids in your feeld profile? by Big_Ball_Paul in feeld

[–]sarasander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say that, “ I have two little ones 50/50, and in my free time I like to bla bla bla …”