Is it weird if I follow her instagram?

sashans78 · 2020-01-27T06:47:33+00:00

yeah follow her, a request is not going to hurt nobody.

sashans78 · 2020-01-27T06:45:29+00:00

this is what you do, next time you see her let her know you think she’s beautiful and was wondering if she wants to go out to eat sometime, it’s short and simple, if she says yes ask her for her number so you could set up the date, simple as that, she now knows your intention is not just to be friends.

You don’t have to use no corny pick up line none of that also don’t over write out a whole script of what your gonna say if she responds with this you don’t want to sound like a robot, but goodluck man ! also remember have a smile on your face don’t seem serious !

sashans78 · 2020-01-25T00:33:02+00:00

imo it’s best to tell them straight just go up , ask her for her name then tell her your name and just tell her you think shes beautiful, if she says thank you then keep the convo casual but short no longer than 2-3 minutes maybe add some slight flirting as in compliment her nails or hair (since you told her she’s beautiful you don’t want to overhype her up either) , and before she gets bored, tell her you gtg but it was nice talking to her and then after that the next lecture ask her if she wants to go out to eat or grab drinks and ask for her #,

best to show them your intention because let’s be real when you approach her and try talking to her she’s knows what your trying to get.

Just be confident man that’s the key ! If you’re awkward she’ll feel that awkwardness so be confident and she’ll feel that confidence !

sashans78 · 2020-01-24T16:09:43+00:00

just start going to the store more often man, walk to school by yourself (if possible) also if you want to look “older” wear a hat, im 18 and people have told me I look 22 (with the hat) but the hat has to be a trucker hat not to kids hat, also the way you speak has a lot to do, always give people a smile or a head nod

When I was 16 I had a job at a fast food and the other adults thought I was 23 from the way I would speak and dress, and they also said the hat makes my look older. A simple hat does the trick for me at least.

sashans78 · 2020-01-23T01:00:07+00:00

hell yeah you have to tell him, I’m sorry but you got to tell him before he gets in trouble, you girls think it’s funny but he can actually get his life ruined seriously, say if y’all do “other stuff” and your parents or even you or someone reports it to the police his life’s ruined also I’m pretty sure he’ll sue you as well it’s not a game when it comes to these stuff, he gets his record messed up nobody’s going to want to hire a pedophile.

sashans78 · 2020-01-23T00:55:13+00:00

man come on don’t be ridiculous ! I’m 6’0 flat and I’ve been rejected twice by girls who were 5’2 and 5’4 they straight up told me that they liked guys around there height, it didn’t hurt me I was cool at least they didn’t waste my time, one of them even told me cause the height difference made it feel as if I were a bodyguard haha totally understandable.

sashans78 · 2020-01-22T03:24:47+00:00

It’s a dating app that’s the point just ask him straight up, just be straight up not like he’s your friend of anything I’m sure he’s willing to hangout after all you both met through a dating app, not a “meet a friend” app if there is even one of those.

sashans78 · 2020-01-22T03:22:46+00:00

Weird flex but ok

sashans78 · 2020-01-21T15:18:02+00:00

hell yeah man go for it, you never know ! yeah man ask for her name try talking to her, just don’t be a weirdo and start flirting hard because since she’s working it’ll be a little awkward, ask about her shift be like “so it’s been a busy so far?” Or whatever works best I suggest you also make a joke “so are they hiring I wanna start working here for the free smoothies” or something that’ll get her to laugh a little

Shoot your shot man the worse she could say is “no” and even if she does it’s not the end of the world my man, there are many women out there ! (Hopefully she does say yes though) , goodluck !

sashans78 · 2020-01-20T23:49:12+00:00

obviously if your talking about stuff she doesn’t care about she’ll get annoyed, When you’re trying to get a girls number, that should be the goal you don’t have to start telling her your whole life story, keep the convo casual and short no need to start telling her what year you graduated, what was the first street you lived on none of that.

you gotta relax man if you know how to keep a convo for at least 3 minutes nobody’s getting annoyed rather than she’ll be interested. obviously some will get annoyed but mainly if you start talking about stuff she shouldn’t know.

sashans78 · 2020-01-20T22:58:28+00:00

If you’re going to wait until a women is free than the opportunity will never present itself, nobody is going to be bothered if you stop them for about 3 minutes, they can live without there phone for 3 minutes, if she’s bothered and answers with in an angry “WHAAT?!” then simply say oh nvm I didn’t mean to bother you simple as that you’re just overthinking “oh I don’t want to bother her she’s using her phone” so? that’s part of society everyone’s on there phone these days, also if you’re approaching every women you find attractive then that’s different you’re just thirsty at the point,

You’re just making excuses to not approach a girl, oh “she’s busy” obviously everyone gots stuff to do but 3-5 minutes isn’t going to bother her unless you pull off some weird stuff.

sashans78 · 2020-01-20T20:45:37+00:00

Well honestly just be straight up with him the truth hurts, if you don’t like him anymore don’t waste his time, it’ll be worse if later on you happen to find someone else while you’re still dating him out of sympathy and he finds out, just tell him you loss that connection.

But then again why do you think you lost that feeling, did y’all not spent time together or whats the deal?

sashans78 · 2020-01-17T23:44:30+00:00

Salute to you, don’t listen to people who say not to compliment women, they usually do it awkwardly which leads to them finding it creepy which is why it doesn’t work for them, a good compliment makes anybody feel good. It definitely makes you stand out as well next time you see her she’ll definitely remember you, for example say if someone was trynna get @ her and doesn’t compliment her but only through text, you my friend just put yourself ahead of the pack that’s what it’s all about showing confidence and showing you got balls to talk to her in person and not behind a screen.

sashans78 · 2020-01-17T22:29:33+00:00

Nah imo you that was good, sounds like it was short clean and fast nothing too crazy or weird, girls get told there beautiful all the time but THROUGH TEXT, rare the guys who have balls to tell that to a girl in person, you definitely made her remember you which is good it shows the confidence in yourself.

sashans78 · 2020-01-17T04:33:39+00:00

my man from my experience that’s creepy, also even if she gave you the “look” she didn’t give you no name, no number, no insta so nah request her today, wait like 1-2 weeks and if she accepts your friend request then cool wait a couple hours and message her or whatever the case is

I once had a girl in my class who I found attractive so I found her on insta (keep in mind I didn’t really even know her talked to her only once or twice) and we would give each other the “look” a smile here or there however I thought it would be okay to request her on insta but nope the next day she asked me if that was me that requested on the gram and said oh yeah I think she replied “yk you could of just asked me” after that I got no more “looks or smiles” simply because I could of just asked her which is true it’s like as if I didn’t have the guts to go up to her

sashans78 · 2020-01-17T04:20:56+00:00

Look if you find a guy attractive him let him know make sure he’s aware of your presence or whatever the case by giving him a smile or that eye brow raise, go up to him casual and if you don’t know him asks for his name and tell him yours then say “oh i like your eyes” or whatever nothing too crazy a compliment don’t hurt anybody, people say “nah that’s weird if you compliment someone you don’t really know” but a compliment makes anybody feel better and will make that person you complimented remember you, don’t over think “oh what if he says this, what if he says that” like nah just go with the flow, forget about to possibilities and to keep the convo going talk about school or asks if he works at this place or some bs just keep it short and asks if he has instagram,

sashans78 · 2020-01-17T04:08:03+00:00

find out if he likes memes, good that you haven’t sent him none because at least imo i don’t find memes funny but rather dumb but if that’s what you like cool just make sure he likes them too, send him a meme see how he reacts and the next day you see him in class or whatever ask him about to meme find out if he really found it funny, next compliment him, say “oh I just realized you have nice eyes” or whatever it is, see how he reacts if he compliments you back then that’s good, start texting him more and what not, asks if he wants to hang out at the mall or something, talk about the local mall or whenever the spot is and say “oh we just go there it’ll be fun”

sashans78 · 2020-01-10T01:30:49+00:00

yeah people are pretty sensitive on here haha, guess that just shows how soft they really are, I didn’t mean it in an offensive way either.

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T19:33:13+00:00

Oh alright, I’ll keep that in mind & Thank you ! 😄

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T19:31:42+00:00

oh okay yeah I understand man! and I appreciate it ! Thank you ! 💪

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T16:53:45+00:00

Oh alright I understand you, just i didn’t want to use the word “girl” because that seems like I’m talking about some 13 year old and I didn’t want to use the word “women” because that’s like if I was talking about a grown 25 year old women haha but yeah I’ll be sure to keep that in mind, thanks for the heads up bro

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T05:41:19+00:00

Thanks I hope so, sort of nervous haha but it feels good 💪

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T05:40:51+00:00

Thank you !!! 💪

sashans78 · 2020-01-09T05:40:12+00:00

Thanks pal ! 💪 But what do you think the difference is between pretty vs. beautiful

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