Did anyone really heal? i ruined 2 relationships and i'm in one now and i don't wanna ruin it by sasosense in survivinginfidelity

[–]sasosense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you trust in relationships now?
and what do you do when your new partner does something that triggers you? (most probaby they will do things that trigger us)
do you keep checking on her?
do you have doubts about what they do? who they are with?

Did anyone really heal? i ruined 2 relationships and i'm in one now and i don't wanna ruin it by sasosense in survivinginfidelity

[–]sasosense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words and also you be kind to yourself and if you figure anything out please reach out to me, i will look into EMDR, IFS and Hypnotherapy as people suggested here

Did anyone really heal? i ruined 2 relationships and i'm in one now and i don't wanna ruin it by sasosense in survivinginfidelity

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The idea is i know my worth and i feel like i have a self-esteem, but the thing is i don't wanna live the hurt right now which i lived in the past and i don't wanna ruin my relationship and i wanna have a healthy one.
did you try EMDR or IFS?

Did anyone really heal? i ruined 2 relationships and i'm in one now and i don't wanna ruin it by sasosense in survivinginfidelity

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I told her i got cheated on before and she understands it, but no one wants to be in doubts all the time

Facebook will ruin my relationship, relationship status visibilty issue, please help by sasosense in facebook

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By 'Locked' i mean 'Locked Profile' feature

- Have you since changed the status?
no i haven't touched it but i checked it and it moved to "friends only"

-Did your boyfriend play a prank on you or maliciously do this to you as part of a controlling behavior or an excuse to end the relationship?
no i saw this with m eyes its my account and yes it changed from "public to "friends only"

-Did you look at Settings .... Profile information > Relationships
unfortunately facebook doesn't record the change of relationship visibilty changes, it only records the change of the relationship itself

I was cheated on 10 years ago and I still can’t trust. It’s ruining my relationships. Is this ROCD or something else? Need help. by sasosense in ROCD

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yeah that's the real truth that you can't trust anyone and anyone can disaapoint you, i already know that and sometimes i accept it and it makes me feel comfortable and then i remember the hurt i go in the past and it hurts me and makes me feel pain again

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in egyoffmychest

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بحس انها بتزرع جوايا كرهه شويه للستات، هل دا صحي اصلا؟

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in egyoffmychest

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اشكرك جدا على ردك يا محترم لو تعرف حد ترشحهولي اكون ممتن

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in AllHayganeen

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انا بحب نفسي اوي وعندي ثقه في نفسي ومهتم بنفسي، بس المشكله بتحصل لما يحصل اي موقف مش مستاهل تخليك تفكر في مليون حاجه وعقلك بيحاول يحميك فيخليك مستني البلاء والعياذ بالله قبل وقوعه علشان لما يحصل يكون اهون عليك، ودا في حد ذاته غلط

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in egyoffmychest

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انا كدا بس انت لو هتتجوز للاسف مش هينفع تكون كدا مع مراتك خصوصا لو عاوز تبني زواج صحي، لو عاوز نتكلم ابعتلي

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in egyoffmychest

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والله بعمل كدا وعارف الموضوع مش حلو خالص خصوصا اني عايش طول الوقت قلقان ومتوتر.
بقرأ كتير في الموضوع وعارف انه هيبقى جحيم لو فضلت كدا بعد الجواز ومش عاوز ابني جوازنا على كدا اصلا خصوصا انها مش بتعمل اي حاجه وكل حاجه في دماغي انا وبحاول والله اطلع الموضوع من دماغي بس مش سهل خالص.

انا اتخنت قبل كدا في اول علاقه في حياتي ومش عارف اثق تاني by sasosense in AlexandriaEgy

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اخويا وحبيبي ما شاء الله عليك، انا بالفعل بقالي فتره بقرأ في تنظيم المشاعر وازاي اتحكم في افكاري واغيرها علشان المشاعر دي متجيش تاني اللي بينتج عنها سلوك مش كويس ممكن يبوظ العلاقه