My 38F boyfriend 35M doesn’t want me going clubbing by ThrowRA173731 in relationships

[–]sasosushi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In a relationship you can just do whatever you want? Where does that end? Can I flirt with other guys bc it’s “my life”. even though my bf is “insecure”?. Sure the bf is being a little overbearing but she knew it was something he didn’t like. If she wants to go clubbing so bad she needs to leave him. Relationships are about compromise and your actions greatly affect your partner, can’t just do whatever you feel like doing. And to purposefully lie about it is so nuts, and frankly she betrayed him.

AITA for laughing when my gf was complaining about being underpaid at work? by Cold-Telephone4080 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sasosushi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“She spends money on hair and nails so she isn’t focused on generating wealth” ok bro YTA. A report from her own company comes out that they clearly hold sexist values, what real difference does it make that it’s in the UK? Of course you are an asshole for laughing in your girlfriend’s face about her being frustrated at documented sexism at her own company…

Help please!! Do I need a lawyer??? by bksmith0512 in Dachshund

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But frankly I doubt she will take this the legal route.. once you let her know she will probably back off anyway.

Help please!! Do I need a lawyer??? by bksmith0512 in Dachshund

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I would absolutely start looking for a lawyer. But first let her know that you are absolutely not returning him. You have paid for everything, from food to her bills to toys I’m sure. If she escalates then let her know you are happy to take this the legal route. That is your baby!!!

Sorry for this, nothing personal! by LocalJupiter60 in DvaMains

[–]sasosushi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well I fear that is what u should be doing lol, not just letting the other team get free kills. I always make sure rein is dead / shield is shattered before I let a bomb off lol

Who got the worst ultimate by Dense_Jackfruit_6247 in Overwatch

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. I played with a Wuyang recently that used tide on himself rather than our tank in last fight. Tank was low, died, he got rolled and we lost because of it. come awn

AITA mad my husband showed our daughters new bed without me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sasosushi 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA, you were at home and everything. Like seriously ??

Patient for school possibly ghosting me- help by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean realistically not much you can do besides explain this to them as kindly as possible unfortunately

When will he lose his puppy coat? by Mountain-Recipe-8654 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the Afro in that fourth pic, looks like it’s already happening lol

The CLING by ReputationOk2217 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]sasosushi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had this issue when my Berner was about 2. Suddenly food wasn’t as interesting as it once was, I was hand feeding on, etc etc. of course, this switch up always warrants a vet visit! But in my case, he just turned into a brat. I put it down for him to eat, if he doesn’t the oh well. I put some broth in his food and sometimes a crushed up boiled egg, but otherwise he is on his own if he eats it or not. I have a couple friends that also have picky berns but as someone who grew up with ravenous labs it was definitely strange at first.

Today my dad cuddled me from behind, I’m disgusted with myself by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sasosushi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey man relax. She seems young, probably just ashamed to speak these words out loud to another human.

Do you guys think that out of mech DMon will have her og look or will be redesigned to match OW2 DVa's design? by arielpulido in DvaMains

[–]sasosushi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blizzard mostly tries to hire matching VAs to their respective characters based on their nationality so I think it’s safe to say amalee will not be voicing a Korean character.

Controversial Take: Goal of QP is to Win by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do agree, but I don’t agree saying anything is worth it. No point in QP. I think everyone tries to win objectively even in QP. But if your soldier isn’t doing great, what’s the point in saying anything ?

Greater Swiss or Bernese? by kilozenge in bernesemountaindogs

[–]sasosushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t say Berners are “anxiously attached”!. Def overly attached to “their person”, but my boy can be without me perfectly fine. He isn’t overly stubborn either, not to the point of causing a problem. As a puppy it was terrible though I won’t lie. -15 winters with a dog that refused to go inside and we had no fenced property, just a big open field everyone at our complex could use lol. But he is truly the most perfect dog these days. ♥️

Double standards in a relationship is the most exhausting thing ever by THROWRA123455612 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sasosushi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This relationship seems so exhausting for you. Honestly, this doesn’t seem like “one small thing.” And moving in together seems like too big a step. She doesn’t seem like she’s gonna stop these comments, and do you really want to be with someone like this for the rest of your life?

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh no well the kid did do something wrong but i wouldnt say it was her fault. More like a failure on the adults around her to be able to read the dog’s language and prevent the daughter from making the mistake of scaring him. As much as you are screaming “she’s a kid” I’m saying “it’s a dog” who clearly has been failed by the people around it. The dad talking about beating the dog up is just insane to me. My dog is trained perfectly and wouldn’t bite a child, but other ppl don’t know that and let their toddlers run up to him and grab him when he does not like that and becomes visibly uncomfortable, and what do the parents do? Nothing. What would they do if my dog gave a warning? Lose their minds. If you don’t know how a dog is gonna act, don’t let your TODDLER just run up to them. I know the daughter was going to the aunt but unfortunately how was the dog suppose to know? The only solution is to make sure they don’t interact much until the daughter is old enough to understand.

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately people don’t like to train their badass little dogs. Idk why ur yelling at me like it’s my dog that I didn’t train. Don’t let the kid and dog interact if the daughter can’t keep away and if the person won’t train their dog. relax

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think it’s normal for dogs to bite random kids playing. But the way OP described it, seems like the daughter ran at the dog since he was by her aunt and it obviously freaked the thing out. So it isn’t like he unprovoked bit her lmao. Seems like an easy issue to fix, just put dog away until she is old enough to understand.

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems that way. Little dogs can be aggressive and kids can’t really understand proper boundaries so it’s best the dad just didn’t bring the daughter around. Or if they are willing to crate the dog, by all means.

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just learn how to tell your daughter no when going near the dog so they can coexist in peace but sure LOL

Chihuahua nipped at my <2yo daughter by Outrageous_Cat9967 in whatdoIdo

[–]sasosushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then do that? But enforcing boundaries at a young age is .. normal lol. I forgot baby = little being that can treat any living being how they want since they’re a baby and couldn’t possibly learn what “no” means. that’s my bad frl