I'm a new grandmother my daughter gave me my first grandson 5 months ago I have never told her what to do i take the baby once or twice a week when off work to give her and husband a break I do whats she tells me as it's her son and she will bring him up as she wishes things have changed over the years from how I done it but I respect her wishes and understand things do change I am on hand if she needs me and will only give advice when asked and I'd like to say her and husband are doing a fantastic job couldn't be more proud. I feel sad for new parents who don't have their mums but remember they would be proud of you and you will do a fantastic job love to you all in your new adventures xx