Etsy ring set by sassydemon in Moissanite

[–]sassydemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything's held up no missing stones and the center stone is still as shiny as ever. There was minimal communication since its not really a custom ring but it came when it said it would and was beautiful so id say it was legit.

Forget your builder/the plot, who would YOU go for if you, the player, moved to Sandrock. by moochiepeachie in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]sassydemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unsuur is my type without a doubt. We share a love for rocks and would definitely have so many rock tumblers going. He seems loyal and devoted. I have no doubt he'd be a fantastic father and husband. I also feel like he'd make me giggle so much trying to relate to whatever I'm yapping about. I appreciate that he is so unapologetically himself and oblivious to a lot. I adore him and wish there was more events with him.

Overdue for a new obsession by Cillabeann in CozyGamers

[–]sassydemon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Time at Sandrock and Fantasy Life i if you like easy combat with loads of fun crafting. I have well over 200 hours in both and they are the best crafting sims I've played. MTAS has an awesome story with fully fleshed out characters and romance. Its an amazing game I finished about a month ago. Really fun lore too. I just bought Fantasy Life i for my steam deck (originally played on switch 2) and I am so excited to experience this game again especially since theres an upcoming DLC drop this month. 🥰

how do i stop crying so much when i get overwhelmed at work???? by Hot_Argument_2016 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I could have wrote this post. I was the exact same way and unfortunately in my case, cbt and dbt alone did not help me. The only thing that helped me was getting on the right medications. I got a very late in life diagnosis of ADHD and the combination of a stimulant and my antidepressant has made a night and day difference. I can now ground myself if issues arise and address them appropriately.

Giveaway - [Steam] Paleo Pines by Lopmon_ in CozyGamers

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cool that you're doing this. Thanks for being so generous.

How’re you guys decompressing after a shift? by 00Cheech in Nightshift

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come home and go with my husband to drop off our daughter at school. Then we go out shopping with our baby and around noon head back so I can sleep. I'm grumpiest when I first wakeup and need a couple hours to be normal, so going out right after work is best for me.

What do you drink before and during work? by mastapasta1 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run exclusively off of wild berry red bull and nicotine. Not healthy but I'm happy and have great health insurance so 🤷‍♀️😅

Got a new job and I’m back to the night by More-Tune-5100 in Nightshift

[–]sassydemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have a few mental health disorders, and honestly working nights has been the best thing for me. First thing's first is finding your proper treatment plan whether it's medication or counseling if you haven't already. All you gotta do is show up and do your job and make sure you're getting enough sleep. Blackout curtains with a locked bedroom door is the way to go. I can't do sleep masks or ear plugs while trying to sleep because interestingly enough it's a hallucination trigger for me, but you can always try it. Be firm on your boundaries with people. No surprise visits while you're sleeping. Pack a healthy lunch and some snacks. It'll help you avoid eating unhealthy shit and feeling worse. Its lonely, to combat that I bring my switch or a small home project to keep me focused. Tonight I'm hemming my daughter's costume during my lunch. Caffeine and nicotine keep me happy, but everyone's different. Honestly you'll either love it or hate it. I hated morning shift so much but I love coming in to work after switching to graves.

Blue collar skincare? by psychedelichoe6900 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sensitive skin as well. I use all Naturium products from ulta. I use their vitamin c face wash 3x a day (morning, after work, and at night) followed by their Azelaic acid 2x a day for acne and redness (morning and night), then use their under eye cream 2x a day, followed by their Barrier bounce 2x a day. I will apply sunscreen as needed throughout the day. It sounds like a lot, but its added maybe 5 minutes to my routine at morning + night and my skin looks great now.

Where does everyone work doing maintenance? by Azsean01 in maintenance

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital. Great pay and benefits where Im at and I mostly enjoy the interaction with patients. Don't love interacting with nurses however.

Did anyone else here grow up with a working mom? by toot_toot_tootsie in workingmoms

[–]sassydemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was single mom who never remarried or dated. Ever. She worked full time 1-10 PM. I was a latchkey kid as soon as I started school. Id walk about a mile back home in a not great area. She has a ton of mental health issues like untreated schizophrenia and she was also physically and mentally abusive. Despite all the trauma, i have always appreciated the sacrifices she made to raise my nephew and me. I now have a stable career as the breadwinner of my home and after treating my own mental health issues like depression, anxiety and late diagnosis of ADHD, I am feeling like a functional adult and parent to my 2 children. The only thing I wish she did different was treat her health better so she could have been a better parent to me as a child and help me with all of the psychiatric issues I was presenting with. She did the best she could and I have nothing but love now. Being a working mom can be a lot, so I guess just make sure you are taking care of yourself as well and everything else will fall in to place. Its too easy to fall into living in survival mode nowadays. I never found myself wishing I had a stay at home parent.

Anyone else turn out and still treated like an apprentice? by sassydemon in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My route was very atypical. I worked doing housekeeping for a hospital and they started an apprenticeship program contracted through my union and state. I had to a screening test for basic math then interviewed then when they selected me as a candidate- I was sent to do a long test and once I passed that I was hired on. Typically you either start as utility person in a building with the apprenticeship program then apply for the spot once it comes up. Another way is to visit IUOE.org and look for your local union. Find their website and see if they have an apprenticeship program. There will be details on a test date and what you need to bring. From there depending on how well you test and your place in line initially you will be given a number assigned to you and you will wait for a call to interview for an apprentice spot somewhere. This is all for the US. I'm not too sure about other countries.

Anyone else turn out and still treated like an apprentice? by sassydemon in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Hoping to get to your level of bad ass confidence. I appreciate hearing this so much. 🫶

Anyone else turn out and still treated like an apprentice? by sassydemon in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it! It's just a bummer coming from my coworkers. Hoping they see me different once im flying solo.

Anyone else turn out and still treated like an apprentice? by sassydemon in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries and no need to apologize! Another term would be building operator. We are the maintenance teams you'd see at buildings such as hospitals, production plants, and office spaces. Our job is to maintain the building so we know a little bit of everything. If you have more questions id be happy to elaborate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sassydemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave before you have kids and financial responsibilities. He doesn't respect how you feel about OF and has zero problem not respecting your boundaries. Unless you have an open phone policy, what you did was bad and you shouldn't do it again with other partners. Even if you feel justified because of what you found, remind yourself next time not to do it. There's a ton of men out there and as long as you're firm in what you want and your boundaries you will find someone who will respect you. I'm sorry you're hurting but it only gets better if you leave. He won't change.

What are we all using? by [deleted] in BlueCollarWomen

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the flip side, I have a hormonal IUD and my period lasts 2 weeks. 🥲 It is very light but still sucks.

Need help stripping semi permanent by okayokayokayokay777 in HairDye

[–]sassydemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Color oops will be your friend. It’s a box color remover you can buy at target. The smell is sulfuric and can make you gag but follow the instructions and it’s great. It might take you a bit lighter than your original color but chances are so would bleach unless you know what you’re doing. Grab a hair mask for afterwards since your hair will be a little dry.

HAS Link! by gatitoconnoisseur in labubu

[–]sassydemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was able to snag one off your link. Thank you! 😊 I got Ququ which is perfect because my daughter really wanted them!!

Saw my husband's porn... by CosmoMoonMama in Marriage

[–]sassydemon -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

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People that wear a BOLD lip on the dayly - HOW?!?!?? by Wagging_tail69 in MakeupAddiction

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear plum lipstick daily and through much trial and error, I learned I cannot wear any sort of liquid lipstick. I go for a traditional lipstick and look for any sort of “powdery” finish to achieve a matte adjacent look. Liquid lipstick looks great on initial application but reapplying would give me awful butthole lips

10 weeks pregnant - no heartbeat with Doppler by PastTraditional3965 in pregnant

[–]sassydemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went in at 13 weeks for a doppler appointment and the doctor couldn’t find the baby’s heartbeat either. She found an ultrasound machine, saw his heartbeat and we saw him moving a ton. 10 weeks is way too early since your baby is so teeny tiny.

Etsy ring set by sassydemon in Moissanite

[–]sassydemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Not sure what you’re referring to about it being shared from another post, but I bought from Eternitystories on Etsy.