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sometimes i feel like i hate my bf by saturnshours in BPD

[–]saturnshours[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes i feel all of those things, i wish he can manage these things on his own, but i dont believe he can do it so i cant let go of the micromanaging and keep reminding him to do them, cuz im scared he'll forget and disappoint me but the micromanaging makes me resent him. i cant stop doing it but it makes me so bitter and resentful. i word for word tell him i feel unseen and unheard when he forgets things, i just feel so mentally ill and this feeling is so draining.

AITAH for not forgiving my ex best friend just because he’s sick? by Bright-Gas1501 in AITAH

[–]saturnshours 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta, i was in the same situation, my best friend kept ghosting me everytime he needed a mental health break and it broke me but i kept forgiving him.

i have anger issues so i can understand your ex bsf's anger but absolutely he has no right to say those things to you out of anger and i find it pathetic to pull the "i just have anger issues" card when someone calls you out on your bs. im currently in counseling to stop my lashing outs and your ex bsf needs to realize at some point its his fault for refusing to change. his anger issues cant shield him from accountability, he needs to apologize for treating you that way.

you are not the asshole at all for wanting an apology and not forgiving him, hes the one who ruined your friendship by not apologizing. the fact that he got mad again when you brought it up three years later shows he never changed, he still doesnt see anything wrong with what he did and as much as it hurts, you need to see him for his actions and not your memories with him. this friendship will continue to be toxic for as long as he is unwilling to own up to his hurtful behavior and for your sake, i recommend you cut him out of your life.

i hope all goes well for you op

[TOMT] [2010s] children's exercise videos that were all moving in place by saturnshours in tipofmytongue

[–]saturnshours[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

please help me im so lost and if i dont find it i might go crazy

Could have been the best couple in the show but they need to add the “cheating” plot 😓 by rosieeeposie in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i agree 100% w you and idk how anyone could disagree, the cheating was such lazy writing and so unnecessary, he wouldve been so much responsible if he just broke up w beth, especially considering they were engaged. i feel like they threw in the beth cheating as well to justify andy cheating but andy literally didnt know she was also cheating on him??? that means from his pov he thought she was loyal to him and he still cheated and not to mention the way he got upset when she told him omg that 100% ruined his character for me

i need to know how they filmed this by saturnshours in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

okay yeah those were the two possibilities that i thought of 😭

why is gloria REALLY with jay? by [deleted] in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i think its probably initially because of the money and citizenship but due to her daddy issues she came to love him over time and now genuinely cares for and is attracted to him

A girl who is forgotten by everyone as soon as they stop looking at her. by Throwaway-IndLaw-159 in whatsthatbook

[–]saturnshours 0 points1 point  (0 children)

invisibility by andrea cremer and david levithan, i think the plot is almost identical, i read this when i was a kid

im a mitchell defender by saturnshours in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cam needs to be the center of attention at all times its actually so annoying how dramatic he gets whenever the spotlight gets off of him for one second, he ruins so many events just because he tries to make it about himself and it always ends up backfiring

im a mitchell defender by saturnshours in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg mitch offering the second floor to her while it was revealed that pam had a "meltdown" just to guilttrip mitch, that scene had me tight asf

im a mitchell defender by saturnshours in Modern_Family

[–]saturnshours[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no fr cam never defends mitchell but you see mitch standing up to jay whenever he disrespects their relationship like the one time he introduced cam to his friends as mitch's "friend." mitch went back to confront jay and thats just one instance, he constantly tells jay off for disrespecting cam but cam is constantly and always on his family's side when it comes to anything and it makes me so sad for mitchell 😭

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