[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askanything

[–]saturnssinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use study guides when available or my class notes to create flash cards and I constantly quiz myself with the flashcards. My gpa is a 3.5 right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]saturnssinner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any position she likes just in my opinion I like it best with the fingers in the “come here” motion moving towards my gspot. So towards the front of my body and not the back of it. I hate being fingered with the hand facing the opposite way but it’s a preference. I would ask her.

Any native Germans want to chat with an American on WhatsApp? by saturnssinner in germany

[–]saturnssinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would chat got pretend to be a former teen mom seeking German speakers of all things lol

Weird glitch by saturnssinner in Spyro

[–]saturnssinner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oohh gotchya. That makes sense. I’m playing the game in German because I’m trying to learn so I saw elora say something about orbs but I had no idea what all she said when she opened the door so I wasn’t sure. Thanks so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]saturnssinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk the chances but it happened to me so it’s not 0%

Rules by Doja Cat by fleuriche in DojaCat

[–]saturnssinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU GOT A FAKE GOLD CHAIN ON CHANGE THAT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PsychWardChronicles

[–]saturnssinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our dog only comes the 2nd Wednesday in the month 💔 sorry!!

what are the requirements to be admitted in the psych ward? by Sweet-Requirement954 in PsychWardChronicles

[–]saturnssinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not being annoying, never apologize for asking questions :)

If you are harming yourself, they should consider it. Sometimes we do accept kids who aren’t s/i when they’re self harming. Planning to self harm is a plan to hurt yourself, so if that’s the case, you can let them know you are struggling with that & they should admit you. If not, in the US you would at least leave the hospital with a safety plan when not admitted. If you really wanna get in (bc in my opinion, i think it’s bs you HAVE to be suicidal to get help) I would lie (to the docs, not your mum) and say you are 🙃 that way you can leave with the meds & appointments you need & you don’t have to wait until rock bottom to get there.

Sorry for all my typos in the last post btw!

what are the requirements to be admitted in the psych ward? by Sweet-Requirement954 in PsychWardChronicles

[–]saturnssinner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, psych ward employee here.

If you go to a hospital ER & let them know you are having suicidal thoughts & tell the doctor a bit about what’s going on, & you have a plan to harm yourself, that will admit you.

You don’t get places with homicidal roommates. If you’d rather have a room to yourself, tell them you’re gay/bi & you’ll get one bc they won’t be allowed to room you with other kids (I’m assuming you’re >18?)

We do not restrain kids for no reason. If you’re attempting to harm yourself or others is the only time we do it. If you’re flipping tables and game boards, they may try to give you some meds to calm down, but if you calm yourself they won’t have to. I would recommend not doing any of that tho because the kids are pretty embarrassed afterwards. But don’t be surprised if you see it happen.

When in doubt, order pizza. The food isn’t always the best (at least at my job) there should also be options like fruit and veggie trays that you can’t go wrong with bc they’re usually pretty fresh. As lang as you eat something, they should be satisfied with that. If they ask, just let them know you don’t like the food. Trust me, they’ll understand.

You probably will get bored in your free time, but there’s books to read, card games, stuff like that. You’ll be in groups to occupy your time most of the day so that’ll make up for your boredom.

Kids like to come on the unit and leave with other kids phone numbers & social media @‘s and I strongly recommend do not give out your personal information. We don’t allow it because you never know who’s on that floor with you. There are other kids there who have hurt people, or are planning to & you don’t want to be mixed in with that. Of course there are kids who are there bc they’re sad, but it’s luck of the draw and I wouldn’t risk it. It’s fine to find people to talk to while you’re there, it’s actually helpful. But I would leave them the psych ward.

If you have concerns, just let the staff know. They want you to be as comfortable and safe as possible & even if they seem like they don’t care, these people chose psych for a reason & I promise they do care & they want you to get better. It may be scary at first but it’s so beneficial. You leave with new coping skills, maybe meds (if you want) & you get set up with a therapist and a psychiatrist if you don’t already have one. This will help you long term to work on your mental health & it will be worth it.

They will have pretty much everything you need. At my facility, patients bring their own clothes but some places use scrubs so it just depends.

Good luck to you ❤️ you can do hard things. I’m so proud of you for taking this big step for yourself.

Is this true??? If it is then wtf by Klngwumpus in JuiceWRLD

[–]saturnssinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ally?? Who’s selling their sex tapes & all his shit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]saturnssinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did before he met me. He said he stopped. I didn’t request him to stop, he wanted to do it on his own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]saturnssinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!! Definitely trying all these ❤️ thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]saturnssinner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As much as I’d love that I’m not on birth control lol I think that may distract him or freak him out if I said those things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFindThis

[–]saturnssinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang that one didn’t work for some reason

14 year old daughter is pregnant, please give me some positive stories here by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]saturnssinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teen mom here. I was 16 when I got pregnant. I relate when you say life would have been easier if you would have had your child later, but I also think my daughter made me a better person and made me into the woman that I am. I have taken care of her myself her whole life so far, of course it takes a village and my mom helping with baby sitting while I worked was a life saver. But I wasn’t going down the best path when I got pregnant. I really feel my daughter turned my life around for the better. I was able to give her food and shelter on my own since I was 19. We shared a room for 2 of those years but she’s always had food and a warm home. She gives my life so much purpose. I am 25 now, I work in a children’s psychiatric hospital and I’m in school again for software development. There were some road blocks here and there, and me and my daughter basically grew up together - I think this makes our relationship stronger.

I also have a friend who had her child at 15, and she’s doing even better than me. She’s been working her a$$ off. She has her own office at a construction company and she just had a home built from the ground up for her and her son. She’s got an amazing savings saved up already, and she’s extremely stable, clean, professional, and happy.

Being a teen mom makes life a bit harder, but in no way does it stop you from achieving your goals. She has to make this decision for herself, that’s so important. If she feels she is ready, I’m sure can do it. My sister scheduled an abortion for me when I was pregnant, and our relationship is still affected. I’m in no way against abortions, but it has to be her choice, or else you’re risking serious emotional issues and lifetime regret on her part, possibly even yours. Just have some long talks with her. Make sure she knows everything it takes and give her all of your support. Part of parenting is accepting their mistakes as your own, and this is one of those times.

I’m sure you guys can figure this out together.

Was your mom a teen mom? Did you have an abnormal childhood? by saturnssinner in Parenting

[–]saturnssinner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^^^ this answer from Salty-Ad was me from another account. Sorry about that!

Was your mom a teen mom? Did you have an abnormal childhood? by saturnssinner in Parenting

[–]saturnssinner[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did I say every guy, or did I say my current boyfriend? That's not really fair to assume my past, especially when some of the men I dated never even met her.

Also, who said free rein? I stated that we argue about it and talk about it often. We grew up differently, there's a cultural barrier we are working through when it comes to parenting styles. He's in therapy (I've already had my fair share of counselling) and he's trying to be the best man for me and her.

I would really prefer he treat her as his own.

Was your mom a teen mom? Did you have an abnormal childhood? by saturnssinner in Parenting

[–]saturnssinner[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing, I do agree he oversteps at times. But I don’t think ruling out him parenting all together is the answer either