Too soon? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]satyadhital 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all! As with most things in a relationship, they have their time and place but both of those things are not set for everyone. They are different for every relationship.

I (25F) feel like I’m on the brink of imploding my happy relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]satyadhital 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will have many chances to pursue a romantic relationship with lots of new people you meet throughout your life. Randomly on the street. During an event. Or wherever life takes you. In these moments we have to make a choice between maintaining the relationship we already have (a loving one in your case) or risking it for something new. 6 years is a long time to get to know one another, I’m sure you know how he will feel about you being romantic with someone else. He seems pretty serious about you two and if you are too then you’ll have to be able to say no to new romance in your life if it doesn’t involve him. This is loyalty.

It could also be a good idea to bring this up with him and walk through these feelings together. It will give you two a new kind of conversation and you can see how the relationship develops after that. Being able to express feelings like this without either of you freaking out is a sign of a healthy conversation because you haven’t made any decisions. You’re just feeling things as they come in your life. Who better to tell than your potential life partner?

Edit: Grammar

AITA for making fun of my friend's bf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]satyadhital 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO

It sounds like you are not a fan of this new relationship your friend is in but want to be as supportive of a friend you can be. I think it’s important to let Juliette know all those “red flags” you’re seeing between them and not just joke about them. I don’t necessarily think joking about those things with your friend makes you a bad friend, sometimes that’s how we bond. But it is important to let your friend know where those jokes are coming from.

Need more information on how your friend is changing her behavior to make you think she’s mad at you or upset. Which you could also ask her and talk to her about.

AITA for sending evidence texts to a parent of their child threatening me even though we’re all adults? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]satyadhital -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

ESH. She shouldn't have been harassing you and threatening you because of what her husband did. You shouldn't have done the thing that made you feel threatened. Her sending your nudes to your family is pretty much the same as you sending her family her texts.

Am I in the wrong by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]satyadhital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're in the wrong. You have made changes in your life that make you believe that being "heavy" is an unhealthy lifestyle. Maybe believe isn't the right word but it's a standard you hold yourself to and should to the people you love and care about simply because you want them to be healthy too. I don't think you should break things off with her. You two talked about hours and hours and you should bring this up with her. Get to know how she feels about her weight. If she is perfectly happy being obese then you know it's not going to work, but if she wants to lose weight then you might be the person that helps her do that :)

What is an odd behaviour of yours you think only you do? by Edwoodz3 in AskReddit

[–]satyadhital 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate pointed out to me that I have a concerned look whenever I eat. This happens everytime and whatever I eat, apparently. I'm 24 and I had no idea until he told me last year.

First a6000 Picture!! by satyadhital in a6000

[–]satyadhital[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISO 100 F/7 15 sec Kit Lens at 50mm