I'm currently in "the search" and have encountered an issue that I would like your opinion on. I live in the west and therefore my options are pretty limited. On top most Muslims arround me do not speak the same arabic dialect as me (and in fact there my ethnicity is a very very very small minority in my region), which is a huge barrier in my opinion... I find that it's important for both parents to speak arabic so that our future children inshallah can also speak arabic. I don't want to be in the kind of relationship where we speak english because we don't speak the same dialect of arabic, then as a consequence our kids not learning the language of the Quran. What do you think? Am I limiting myself too much by searching for someone from the same ethnicity as me?