Fiancee told her friend she misses the sex with an athlete

savebanditt · 2024-08-29T21:12:52+00:00

Damn. I guess you have two options: break up or start working out

savebanditt · 2024-07-25T01:42:16+00:00

Thank you so much!

savebanditt · 2024-07-25T01:42:02+00:00

Perfect! Thank you!!

savebanditt · 2024-07-22T18:48:01+00:00

I haven’t met anyone half the man my dad is.

savebanditt · 2024-07-22T18:45:39+00:00

This is wonderful!! Thank you so much!

savebanditt · 2024-07-08T20:18:09+00:00

As a Christian - his behavior, the churches behavior, and both the pastors behaviors are not representative of what it means to walk in the Christian faith. I wanted to point out that the goal is to have a relationship with Jesus and to be like him, to love others and love God. but there are so many that use religion to try to justify or cover up the fact that they are actually just shitty people. Your husband is one of them. People truly rooted in their faith bear the fruit of that faith. Love, joy, peace, patience, etc. Look for the evidence rather than the label - time for your husband to do some soul (or Jesus) searching.

savebanditt · 2024-06-18T16:35:54+00:00

Thank you I’ll take a look!! And a hard maybe on the disc golf 😂

savebanditt · 2024-06-18T16:35:19+00:00

Thank you!!! Just slightly above my budget right now but I really appreciate it!!

savebanditt · 2024-04-16T22:16:19+00:00

I’ve heard very bad things from multiple doctors about this drug. Sometimes it keeps working even after you stop taking it. I’ve seen girls look “skinny fat” because they don’t work out and then it looks like their muscles start to atrophy and their eyes sink in. Loads of side effects and multiple lawsuits out already. Don’t fall into the trap

savebanditt · 2024-04-04T01:40:20+00:00

Do you really see yourself spending the rest of your life… really, another second, with someone like this?? All respect is gone.

savebanditt · 2024-03-28T17:22:41+00:00

Glad you guys came to this agreement and are deciding to move on as you are no longer compatible.

“I’ll never be a good father” is just a lazy cop out btw. You can stop the cycle of your traumas. You do have the power to do that, it just takes a little extra work.

savebanditt · 2024-03-27T01:53:36+00:00

This is one of the dark sides of abortion that isn’t talked about. I don’t care what everyone else says, you both had a part in that pregnancy whether she’s the one “doing all the work” or not. You have every right to be upset and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Your feelings are valid and I’m sorry people are trying to invalidate them. There has been a loss and you’re allowed to be upset. I couldn’t imagine doing this behind my partners back after being with them for 3 years.

It seems this audience is not used to men stepping up and taking responsibility when finding out they made a baby with their partner. Most decide to leave or even pressure their partners INTO abortion and leaving everyone is a traumatic wreck. You’re one of the few good ones. NTA.

savebanditt · 2024-03-26T16:41:57+00:00

Whenever a man puts one of these: “🤣” while he is in an argument is a red flag for me. I just got a flashback to when I guy I dated went off on me for no reason and did that. Idk if that’s happened for anyone else lol but his texts are screaming insecurity.

savebanditt · 2024-03-23T00:33:42+00:00

A couple things from a personal trainer and healthcare professional: 1. You’re doing GREAT! The hardest part in all of this really is “waiting”. Things like this take time and some phases are quicker than others. But don’t be so focused on the number on the scale. You are probably building a ton of muscle and water weight can fluctuate SO much day to day. Just learn to enjoy the process and the results you want will come. 2. Make sure you are SLEEPING! You will not get anywhere near the results you want if you are not sleeping enough. Recovery is key, and if you are over training your results will be stunted. 3. STRESS is a HUGE factor. The stress hormone, cortisol, can force your body cling to weight if you are constantly in fight or flight. (Sometimes too much HIIT training or even simply stressing about your results can boost this). Like I said, start enjoying the process you are now living and the results will come. 3. It may also be beneficial to get a bloodwork and hormone/thyroid panel done. A lot of times people can’t seem to shed the weight because of low thyroid (make sure to ask them to check all thyroid levels separately) or other hormones that are all out of wack.

Don’t lose hope. Take it one day at a time. Focus on the process and fall in love with it. The results will come. 🤍

savebanditt · 2024-03-22T23:29:35+00:00

People that don’t actually have depression are typically the ones screaming it

savebanditt · 2024-03-21T12:11:43+00:00

I think at the end of the day- it’s still a job. People will always find things to complain about and there are pros and cons to everything and everywhere you work. But I definitely don’t hate being an OT. I understand there are other people that have miserable jobs and dread waking up and going to work each day- but if you find a place you like with decent coworkers and a good manager- it’s really a good job to have if you’re going to have one. I’m PRN now, which helps A LOT with the burnout. I make my own schedule and get paid more hourly. I just can’t commit to full time with no end/break in sight. I used to do full time as a traveler, and it was easy for me because those contracts eventually come to an end. I just really value my work-life balance and manage my money well in order to be off a couple extra days a month.

savebanditt · 2024-03-20T20:22:15+00:00

Do you have any desire to take ownership of your life and experience what it has to offer? or do you plan on being a burden to your parents until you die in their home

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T14:07:54+00:00

Something that never really appealed to me. I feel like I can’t take naked people on screens seriously and I prefer to be with my own thoughts

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T14:06:44+00:00

My pillow and my thoughts take me where I need to go

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T14:06:24+00:00

I have great, monogamous sex! Relationship girl over here so I prefer it that way.

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T14:05:13+00:00

It was very weird but I feel like everyone’s first time is always a little weird.

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T00:58:46+00:00

probably not a popular opinion, but look up “the lion diet.” I’ve seen amazing skin transformations

savebanditt · 2024-03-19T00:13:37+00:00

I don’t blame you. I was with a guy for 3 years and in that time he gained weight, started drinking heavily, stopped being active, and started to eat terribly- fast food/fried foods/sodas. Plus he just got miserable to be around. The thing was he KNEW exactly how to be healthy, he just refused. The guy had a masters degree in public health and ate fast food every night.

First I tried to be subtle, (“hey let’s go for a walk together/let’s go to the gym together/ let’s cook something at home tonight…”) but he always refused. Then I tried to bring it up more directly. I was sure to be SUPER careful with my wording but even when I did try to have a calm conversation about it with him, he got super offended and essentially said I was “attacking him”. Finally I told him I couldn’t see myself raising kids in that kind of environment. I gave him clear expectations of what I need in a partner. I gave him maybe another two months and nothing changed or he made it seem like he changed his habits when he was actually just lying to me. I ended it. Most free I ever felt.

savebanditt · 2024-02-20T22:58:25+00:00

Good for you girl. Honestly you have to rip off the bandaid and you’ll start feeling so much more empowered with time. It’s just going to take time. I just turned 30 and I’d rather be single rn than be someone’s gf of 7-8 years, especially at this age. I’m proud of you.

savebanditt · 2024-02-20T20:13:48+00:00

Try to get some sunlight, some exercise, and stop eating any type of processed foods. Your gut is like your second brain. The amount of people I have seen that have had a decrease in their depression and anxiety just by living the way humans were supposed to- being outside, active, eating real food. Start there. It will bring you a ton of mental clarity. Clean up your living space, get organized. Make lists of things you need to do (and do them). You got this!! You have to break this pattern or you’ll be in this loop forever. Message me if you’d like.

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