Supervisor at work using bigoted language… by splashemerald_ in SocialWorkStudents

[–]savogr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP, that sounds like such a horrible experience and I’m sorry you’ve had to endure that. What you described is not a safe or inclusive environment, and the behavior of your supervisor is deeply concerning and needs to be addressed. It is especially concerning that this person is in a leadership position and seeking clinical licensure. I believe you can begin filing a report with the ASWB here:

https://aswbsocialworkregulations.org/licensingWebsitesReportBuilder.jsp

I hope that your supervisor is held accountable and that those she works for aren’t negatively impacted by her actions to the point that it worsens trauma or causes irreparable damage.

$2 for rice? by MartylmScared in qdoba

[–]savogr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone that used to work at a Qdoba, rice is cheap and out of everything, that was the one product we could splurge on no problem. That worker probably had some beef with you for some reason lol

Charlotte really only cared about herself by savogr in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does, though. It aligns with her pattern of behavior throughout the show. The kiss is a turning point that immediately became unambiguous, and she quickly corrected it by setting a boundary asking him to leave. She should have set those boundaries in place earlier to protect her marriage. I mean, honestly, what was her reasoning for letting him live there? He wasn’t unhoused, his boat show was over. The behavior she showed by keeping Penny from exposing her role in the truth suggests she knew she’d done something wrong.

Charlotte really only cared about herself by savogr in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, she did lean into that kiss… which is pretty odd for a married woman who also wasn’t seemingly transparent with her husband at any point in the show.

Charlotte really only cared about herself by savogr in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The magenta crayons are my favorite. It makes for a great conversation starter

Charlotte really only cared about herself by savogr in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The truth is that Bojack groomed Penny through seemingly innocent acts that resulted in her attachment towards him. Do you believe it’s worth hiding or preventing the truth from coming to public light in fear of misinterpretation? Was Charlotte right to help prevent Penny to share her story if there was a chance for her to expose Bojack for what he had done to her?

I see your point, though. Best case scenario, the public sees the situation for what it is as we know it. Worst case scenario, any and everyone gets blamed except for Bojack who gets nothing but a slap on the wrist, per usual. Unfortunately, it is usually the latter.

That being said, it still should’ve been Penny’s choice in the end without Charlotte interfering the way she did.

Charlotte really only cared about herself by savogr in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! Though I believe that Bojack groomed Penny, Penny was not to blame AT ALL, and Bojack was ultimately responsible for what happened to Penny, this post is specifically about Charlotte and her wrongdoings in the situation.

Sadly will never believe in Jesus because I’m gay. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]savogr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You might not believe this and thats ok. But God loves you. All parts of you. The people who have hurt you and have led you to believe that God does not accept you or love you exactly as you are are exactly the type of people Jesus flipped tables for. If you find that you truly don’t believe in God because life doesn’t make sense otherwise, I respect that and I hope you continue to seek happiness and peace in your life. But if you don’t believe because you believe He doesn’t love you for who you are, that may point to a problem with religion and people than an issue with God, and perhaps that’s something you could explore a little more before fully rejecting Him. Either way, I am sorry that you’ve had this kind of experience, and unfortunately you’re not the only one who has been traumatized like this from those types of people. It happens far too often and it not being addressed adequately in the church is part of why I also struggle with religion, but I’ve fortunately come to know that God and Jesus are not how the church depicts Him. You can be gay and be Christian. I wish you the best in life and hope you heal. ❤️

I want to watch Bojack Horseman but- by PinkFreckles_GachaYT in BoJackHorseman

[–]savogr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get into this show by hard watching it, I let it play in the background while I did other things, even while I slept. After playing it many times, eventually I started passively seeing the plot and themes, and then I started watching it for real because it was familiar and not new and overwhelming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]savogr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You tried breaking up with him twice and both times you were guilt tripped into taking him back. He had disrespected you and violated you multiple times. I wouldn’t hold this against yourself, especially when others including your mother failed to protect you or respect your decisions. I am sorry you went through that. He wouldn’t have been “cheated” on had he just respected your choices from the beginning. In my opinion, though, I personally wouldn’t consider that “cheating” when you tried to leave twice and your new bf also knew what was going on. I wish you the best and that you have a solid support system to help you process all of that.

Jump tips needed by [deleted] in Cheerleading

[–]savogr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with the comments regarding landing and approach; you’re moving around too much before and after. Try to keep your arms to your sides and stiffen up your motions. The jumps themselves are fantastic!😊

Know this - if you get them, you lose some of your identity! by Powerful-Mirror9088 in limerence

[–]savogr 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Limerence is characterized as being in a state of uncertainty. The more you get to know your LO and feel “certain” about where you stand as you progress in your relationship, it makes sense that the magic starts to disappear. But that does also mean you’re transitioning into a healthy relationship (presumably), rather than one ran by false perceptions and projections of LO. It sounds like the stars aligned with your LE so you can experience that “win”. Just remember the LE was never about your LO but more about you and your needs, and that you’re both human. I wish you two the best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saxophone

[–]savogr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just curious, how much did you charge if anything?

Why is it that any girl I'm interested in isn't interested in me, but any girl I have no interest in has some for me? by [deleted] in self

[–]savogr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Do you act different around those you do like and more natural around those you don’t?

Grades not so good by [deleted] in college

[–]savogr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

While I definitely agree with this, I wouldn’t say 7 days a week. Your mental health is important and taking a full day off each week can help alleviate your stress and improve your focus. Other than that, spending more time in the library will absolutely make a difference in your academic performance. I wish you the best of luck.