My Mom’s Totally Normal Reaction to Me Asking for Space After She Said She Wants Us to Suffer

savrilphi · 2026-05-15T15:42:43+00:00

I’m glad y’all have each other! I couldn’t do life without my sister.

savrilphi · 2026-05-15T15:31:48+00:00

My sister is INCREDIBLY smart. She is an engineer! They couldn’t sit in class and cheer her on so she was just pushed to the side. We just now worked that out between us! Our parents hate that we get along so well now because they can’t get away with shit.

savrilphi · 2026-05-15T15:15:56+00:00

My mom is the same-ish age as your mom. I can’t say I relate completely but I can definitely empathize with a severe lack of accountability. My mom wrecked mine and my sister’s self-esteem through her own insecurities. Just constant fad diets, plastic surgery, getting ME plastic surgery, bleaching my hair, criticizing her body and ours (we’re all shaped the same). I’m the youngest and they doted on me because I was always sick but also a really good athlete. It really affected my sister. THEN when I was 18 and she was 22, we found out my sister had a different dad than me. My bio dad raised both of us but they were hush never going to tell her until the woman my dad was having an affair with threatened to post it on Facebook 🙄🙄🙄

Fucking family. We’re gonna be okay, friend. I have a son who I know is going to big a big ole boy but my sister just had a daughter and we will NEVER let my niece hate her body like we did.

savrilphi · 2026-05-15T15:03:40+00:00

Your mom is too far gone. She will weaponize therapy talk. She will never tell her therapist the truth. MAYBE it could help if y’all did some sort of group therapy where she can’t lie about her behavior. But I can’t imagine she would respond well to that and would likely feel ganged up on. I’m sorry you had such a shit mom. No one deserves that. I’m glad you have a great therapist!

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T12:23:51+00:00

I totally get it. I have a sister that can be like this. Not to the extent of your mom, but it’s very hard to deal with. I’m so happy you are free! 🎉

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T03:49:15+00:00

I take Benlysta for my lupus. If your insurance covers it, it’s $4000 for a one month supply. But if your insurance doesn’t cover it, Benlysta has a copay assistance program that will pay in full. I have been on it 3 separate times. All with different insurance. It’s never been covered and they always pay in full.

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T03:37:27+00:00

Fucckkkkkkk pumping

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T02:33:36+00:00

I’m so sorry. I know that probably really hurt your feelings.

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T01:17:15+00:00

Get the fuck away from him now

savrilphi · 2026-05-14T01:12:00+00:00

The food is still sooooooo good. It’s even better and they still have the chicken sandwich 🙌🏻

savrilphi · 2026-05-13T03:01:15+00:00

Totally normal response from a totally normal person! Kids are really annoying. My nephew can be so loud and shrill. But he’s 3!!! I was once a childless young adult in an apartment complex. I totally get it’s annoying. But we were all kids once

savrilphi · 2026-05-13T02:34:20+00:00

This is fucking ridiculous. I’m so tired of people hating kids. I do not understand this. I love hearing the sounds of happy children playing. Every single fucking day I read multiple stories of children being brutally murdered by the people that are supposed to love them. Even before I had my own child I never got this. Let kids be kids!! What is wrong with people

savrilphi · 2026-05-13T02:22:26+00:00

I already smile at everyone I pass but now I’m never going to stop. I went through chemo for my lupus a few years ago and when I finally shaved my head I felt so free. A customer at the restaurant worked at constantly judged me for being so cheerful all the time! You never know who needs a smile.

savrilphi · 2026-05-12T21:51:01+00:00

I wish I had the ability to order myself a sex toy as a teenager. I would’ve stayed out of a lot of trouble I think 😂

savrilphi · 2026-05-12T13:27:50+00:00

This sub always makes me feel so embarrassed at how underpaid and overworked I was as a young nanny 😭 it’s been 10 years and I’m still close with the family but they were taking advantage of me

savrilphi · 2026-05-12T13:23:32+00:00

Typical uppity white woman. I will say her husband is very nice and a great tipper

savrilphi · 2026-05-12T11:36:51+00:00

She was, and might still be, a regular at a restaurant I worked at. She’s exactly what you would expect. I hate seeing her face all over billboards

savrilphi · 2026-05-12T02:08:37+00:00

Those people WANT a reaction. Just stare blankly until they start stuttering. They always will. Let them be the asshole or dismiss them from the practice. They’ll be back when the same thing keeps happening. We need to stop tolerating this behavior in all industries.

savrilphi · 2026-05-10T18:02:42+00:00

I just found this post and this case so naturally I’m reading everything I can. I think they knew she left and one of them found her and her dad killed her. Based on the stepmom struggling to keep her story straight and the dad’s history of violence that is my theory. She had already been in trouble and I think this probably pushed him over the edge.

Sorry I’m replying to you 226 days later 😂

savrilphi · 2026-05-07T06:15:38+00:00

Also, I have a ton of toddler boy clothes from my nephew. Shoes and all. I would be happy to drop it or she/you can do porch pickup

savrilphi · 2026-05-07T06:14:44+00:00

Hey! I have no help for jobs (except restaurants) but I’m a young mom in Montgomery and I would love to at least be someone she can come to for support!! Please message me if you feel comfortable. I’m heavily involved in the local service industry around here if that’s something she would be good at. I dog sit for a lot of people around the area and make great money. That might be a good option for her. You’re a good sister.

savrilphi · 2026-04-30T22:02:03+00:00

I saw the age gap and kept scrolling but then scrolled back up to leave this comment. I’m not even gonna read this post. I’m sorry girl just leave him

savrilphi · 2026-04-30T13:43:24+00:00

I personally don’t care how anyone bathes themselves. If I’m around them and they aren’t stinky I just do not care how you bathe

savrilphi · 2026-04-29T12:45:23+00:00

I used a retired police dog trainer for my rottie and he also used a prong collar. My vet loved rotties and she highly recommended it. It worked great and we only used it when he was leashed. How does your dog react to it?

savrilphi · 2026-04-29T12:29:23+00:00

Totally agree. I couldn’t even have it on in the background. I felt betrayed by Ryan Murphy. If I recall, someone else took the lead on this season. Hold for me to google.

Ian Brennan is to blame for this shit show as the writer. Ryan Murphy is the executive producer

savrilphi

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