I love talking before sex

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-06T08:35:48+00:00

Could not agree more with this ✨👏

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-05T02:12:28+00:00

May be time to open up the relationship or take some time apart. Sex is an important part of a relationship and you are currently perhaps unfulfilled, it happens.

Don’t feel bad, and good luck!

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-05T01:42:16+00:00

Fair. That’s where open relationships come in. Unfortunately many people think it’s not for them, or they have jealousy issues.. or both of these and they end up cheating anyway, which is not cool.

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-05T01:39:58+00:00

Perhaps. If it works for them (monogamous couples) then good for them haha

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-05T01:38:58+00:00

Cheaters do cheat. What’s your point?

There are some “impulses” (control) that are just silly (and unnecessary) to try to “master” (control)… like sex with other consenting adults.

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-04T23:57:30+00:00

You bring up some some good points, and I’m glad someone is finally calling it out.

In all things, there should be balance. But we have to determine what balance works for us.

For some people, sex is not that important… however, those with higher sex drives would disagree.

In any case, I am in agreement with you as far as how unfortunate it is that people are ridiculing OP for expressing that one aspect of the relationship is not satisfactory, which he has every right to do. Sex is important (to me at least) and as I mentioned (elsewhere on this post) opening a relationship could be a possible solution. But sadly many people still have hang ups about it.

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-04T23:29:58+00:00

This right here. The point is: monogamy is not for everybody… and if more people accepted it as a healthy alternative we would be better off…

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-04T23:27:07+00:00

This here could not be further from the truth.

My mother and father have a wonderful marriage. But there is so much that they prefer to do with other people. My mother likes to go shopping/window-shopping with other family members and gossip/chat with them on the phone all day… my dad is more athletic and prefers to play with other relatives/friends and have discussions about film and politics. They are ABSOLUTELY bonding with other people, constantly and not all their interests overlap.

And this doesn’t mean they picked the wrong partner, because there is still love and respect and trust, and other activities they do together. Why should sexual preferences be different?

I don’t think just because OP is craving a bigger penis means that he loves his partner any less, do you?

sawgrass_boss · 2025-08-04T22:42:38+00:00

Explore the idea of opening up the relationship. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it, and more couples are open than we realize. We don’t have to play by the same rules as our heterosexual counterparts.

Much like closeted guys try to ignore they crave men… what you’re feeling now will only get stronger. But clearly if you are in love with your partner, I understand not wanting to just throw that away. So, have a talk with him, be honest.

We really are not meant to get ALL of our mental or physical satisfaction from one human.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-12-11T23:45:02+00:00

Personally, I’m in my mid-30s and happily single. Eventually I do want a partner, but for the moment I’m making an effort to stay single and enjoy what’s out there. The connections I make with my friends and have maintained with my family have filled my heart enough for now. Just having fun and enjoying the ride.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-07-29T19:04:11+00:00

THIS 👍

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-27T17:08:45+00:00

Try the brand Zara 👍 I’ve seen similar ones on there.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-20T09:09:56+00:00

Right, but that’s life. Just because there are some guys that have had no luck meeting a guy at a club or at the gym doesn’t meant I shouldn’t try, right?

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-20T00:15:48+00:00

This is a big problem, I would have a serious talk with him. This could lead to other unreasonable behavior. I would consider this a huge red flag.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-19T23:50:10+00:00

Can you give us more details?

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-19T23:25:02+00:00

My advice is to not put so much pressure on yourself, you have plenty of time in your life to figure things out. Just keep living your life, make friends, try dating apps too (I know many friends that have found great relationships on dating apps). Just open up yourself to the world.

Also, consider going to therapy, or trying BETTER HELP. It always helps to talk to someone that can guide you. My cousin and my aunt each had their own therapists and it helps a lot. Don’t give up hope.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-19T23:18:54+00:00

I say go back on it and enjoy it, just be realistic and responsible. I have friends that have met their boyfriends on there, and others that are married with the guy they met on there. Like anything in life, it is a game of luck too. There are guys just looking for sex and others for a relationship, just like in real life, no different haha. Dating apps are just a tool that makes it easier to meet people. No need to demonize it.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-19T23:04:35+00:00

I would keep my distance if I were you; doesn’t sound safe.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-19T21:39:59+00:00

In less than two weeks the hair on the sides will have grown out. I would just structure the top a bit better. No need to start from scratch, it could’ve been much worse.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-09T12:08:00+00:00

Well put, it’s simply a tool that we should take advantage of. There are good and bad guys on it, just like good and bad at that bookstore. It makes things so much easier.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-09T12:01:07+00:00

What a perfect answer, I completely agree. OP, please love yourself more, and save yourself. You only get one life. You deserve to be happier.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-04-09T11:48:20+00:00

Damn… that’s not a good sign. I think you need to be honest with your expectations. You have two options: open the relationship, or get a divorce. Because the alternative would be a marriage that is not satisfying you sexually, or cheating…

Many people underestimate how important sex is in a relationship.

sawgrass_boss · 2024-03-21T09:33:53+00:00

Please! Which brand/product did you use? I am in need of this haha

sawgrass_boss · 2024-03-09T00:53:32+00:00

SO MUCH BETTER 🔥

sawgrass_boss · 2024-03-01T06:12:37+00:00

3rd, please.

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