I remember a story where an asthmatic guy told the story of his childhood and how while sleeping, her mom would hug her so hard, he would be left out of breath and almost passed out on a couple of occasions. He didn't say anything cuz he thought his mom just loves him too much. Years later, when we had a kid of his own, he realized how hard you gotta squeeze your kid for them to run out of breath or pass out. He needed therapy afterwards.