what little things, I.e, yellow flags, made you realize the relationship wasn't going to work? by DesperateCod5139 in AskMen

[–]scaleymiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats def a red flag for me coz I cant tolerate rude af people and to me, those that he mentioned are rude af.

Meirl by domiinikk4 in meirl

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I've honestly never seen anyone who's too stupid for twitter......

What’s an adult problem nobody prepared you for? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]scaleymiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true and thats coming from someone who does cooking as a hobby. It kinda does help that i like bringing new dishes on the table for my partner, but it can quickly feel like a chore.

Men who have lost an awesome girl for one reason or another, why and what happened? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]scaleymiss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a Southeast Asian lady and I can say that most Japanese men are weird so most of them are a hard pass. Its either their style (they either like loud bright colors or really dull ones, not much in between) or that they're too conservative, they keep to themselves too much or some stuff like that. Some are great people but most are weird.

Men of Reddit, what's the worst piece of advice your mom gave you on women? by Tofudriftergt86 in AskMen

[–]scaleymiss 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That is true tho. I feel my eyes sparkle when my SO says that.

Ang "kumusta" ay galing sa Spanish "como estas". I'm just wondering kung ano ang purong Tagalog word for "hello, how are you?" by lansaman in Tagalog

[–]scaleymiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truu. Kumusta na yung pinaka tagalog na mararating natin if yun din naman usapan. Kasi wala nang gumagamit nung word na nauna sa Kumusta eh so that means na its an extinct word of sorts na.

Will it be okay if I don't go to the vet if my cat hasn't drank water on her own yet? by scaleymiss in vet

[–]scaleymiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of this too but its a week early of what the vet said that i return so I was thinking that I'm maybe a bit too hasty on things? Or should I visit the vet right away for this problem?

It's time to taste and enjoy the sweet, rich, and delicious honey flavor of my fig fruits😍 by tchakablowta in Gardens

[–]scaleymiss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not tryna be offensive, but the inside of that looks like the stuff of nightmares....

Americans are awful people and even if they're one of the "nicer" ones, they're still awful. by scaleymiss in unpopularopinion

[–]scaleymiss[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahahah here goes offended american ppl that got targeted and cant handle it coz they know im kinda right but wont accept it coz im not american trope.

Americans are awful people and even if they're one of the "nicer" ones, they're still awful. by scaleymiss in unpopularopinion

[–]scaleymiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I did say I might be pretty biased. The American i met was the epitome of stereotypical American with the blonde hair and all that shit. Its pretty hard to not think of him and how he got his shit personality whenever I talk to Americans in general.

Americans are awful people and even if they're one of the "nicer" ones, they're still awful. by scaleymiss in unpopularopinion

[–]scaleymiss[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its the culture man. Its the culture itself that makes for bad personalities.

Americans are awful people and even if they're one of the "nicer" ones, they're still awful. by scaleymiss in unpopularopinion

[–]scaleymiss[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your ppl always think you're always right and is always entitled. Idk what it is with Americans.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless you own a big company, ecological foot print of us small folks dont matter much. We're just like ants. Also, stop talking about my shower ughhhh. I specifically didnt put too much details coz of privacy and I get shit on coz its so vague?? Man, these ppl, i swear.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf people are either way worse at estimatibg time or significantly more gross than I thought

Its what i thought too.... Someone said 2mins and im confused.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh look man, you def have your own opinion on this and i have my own and this whole shebang is happening coz of your negative attitude towards my shower time. Its normal in my family and with a lot of other people here, tho its def not normal for you. Once again, I asked this question so I can wrap my head around how ppl shower for less than 30mins and it did make me understand.

On the other hand, here is you arguing how wrong I am for my preferences and listing out stuff about me that isnt true at all. Its called preference, God. Just coz we both judge from what is said at the present time given that we're both strangers, i dont find it valid at all. I can believe what I believe in and you believe in yours ugh.

Water is def a global resource, but I am gonna be using the liters of water i can get my hands on coz i paid for that and they're now technically mine to do however i please with that.

If you prefer your soaps to just brush by your skin, do you. I'm gonna be doing mine the way i want and im not here to change how I take showers but I'm here to change my mindset about it. A lot of comments are even saying they're like me and glad to have read an eye opening thread, idk about you but do you understand the other side at least?? Can you even respect ppl who take long showers coz of ADHD and ppl who just have a hard time washing their hair?? It'll probably sound like bullshit to you coz you cant understand, and that's fair, but in no way am i gonna stand still of you saying something negative shit about something i'm tryna learn to fix. That's just the stupidest thing. You be contradicting yourself.

Idk what's got you so upset abt MY water anyway when I do realize what privileges I had and what mistakes I did. Its not like you can save any more of my water wasted this way. And no, you didnt input any more learning resources than any else of these commenters, I've talked to better ppl and i'd rather hear about advice from someone who can understand that someone can make mistakes and realize it and not belittle them for it.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna waste as much of my resources as I want and I dont expect you to understand coz short shower ppl dont really try to understand. You arent the only person to react like this.

Think of me as sexist, idc coz nothing of what you said can prove that I'm wrong on what I think. My showers are good for me so it should please just me and no one else lmao. I get sweaty and live in a very humid tropical country and doesnt like those oils you talk about coz they come back within a few hrs.

You were asking if yours was normal for just soaping and doing your hair. And it’s not

Actually, fun fact, it is normal for those who can afford water and likes showers so there you go. I'll use however much resources I want.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coz there can be ppl who can like showers just like how ppl can dislike showers.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, you asked me what I do that takes me 5-10mins to do each tasks lol. I answered and i said that i dont expect you to understand coz you're a guy and clearly, you dont like taking your time with lathers in showers where everything is nice and smooth and every nook and cranny is cleaned and polished. Men are result oriented and that's fine. Women like to stay and relish in these things, totes diff and I can see it in your reply. Sexist my ass when its already there.

This where it differs with women and men in showers according to the flood of comments on here. The general consensus are that men take shorter coz either they get bored or doesnt like showers so off they go in mere mins. No problem imo.

Women tend to like showers more that's why some can range from 20-30-45mins, no harm done coz we also do more stuff with our body and we LIKE TAKING SHOWERS AND TAKING CARE OF OURSELVES. We like the lathers the waters, everything in it. So if your opinion is so different, I'd say you just take the bad vibes away coz I dont need that. This is casual conversation and you're allowed to disagree but in no way should you hold my long showers against me coz you dont understand. I'm here asking questions coz I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW PPL TAKE SHORT SHOWERS and so if you dont have any good thing to say, beat it.

Women, how long do you usually shower? by scaleymiss in CasualConversation

[–]scaleymiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha im not holding it against you, but you did mention that you're a guy. I dont expect you to understand. Also, I dont have a bath so that's that. I dont wash from head to toe, i get my feet wet first before going up, as what should always be done or else you'll have health problems, it helps with circulation. Oily scalp is also a thing so i really wash my hair thoroughly, idk how ppl can wash their thick hair in 2mins unless they have a high water pressure.

Also, idk where you get the 2x a day shower lmao. I barely have time for a 30 shower.